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In this episode, I sit down with Michael Leahy, founder of Bravehearts ministry, to explore how AI is reshaping the landscape of sexual addiction. Michael shares his powerful personal journey from a 30-year pornography addiction to recovery and ministry. 

Together, we trace technology's evolution from print magazines to the internet and now AI, examining how each stage has intensified accessibility and addiction. Michael explains how AI acts as a "designer drug," creating personalized content instantly while blurring reality and fantasy. 

Despite these alarming developments, Michael offers genuine hope, emphasizing that Christ-centered recovery, authentic human connection, and real relationships remain our greatest tools.

To learn more about Michael and the resources he offers, visit BraveHearts.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Impact of AI technology on sexual brokenness and pornography addiction.
• Historical progression of technology's influence on sexual addiction.
• Personal story of recovery from sexual addiction.
• The role of the internet in escalating sexual addiction.
• Evolution of pornography access from print to AI-generated content.
• Dangers of AI in creating personalized and easily accessible sexual content.
• Ethical and legal implications of AI-generated material, including deepfakes.
• Challenges in distinguishing reality from fantasy due to AI advancements.
• Importance of human connection and "friction" in recovery.
• Strategies for addressing the challenges posed by AI in the context of sexual addiction recovery.

More Resources:

• AI Survival Kit from BraveHearts
• Find a Counselor
• 10 Lessons for Overcoming Addiction

Related Podcasts:

• Helping Families Build Healthy Relationships with Technology
• Understanding Human Agency
• How the Victory App Can Transform Your Recovery from Porn

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In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I dig into why we react so quickly with anger during conflict. We explore how fear often hides beneath our anger — fear of being seen as weak, invisible, or unworthy. Stephen shares practical tools for building self-awareness, like pausing to ask yourself, "What am I really afraid of?" or explore the reasons that certain emotions arise when particular triggers are present.

We also talk about finding peace in God's unconditional love, so we don't need others' approval to feel worthy. This is a truly eye-opening conversation about emotional growth and healthier relationships! 

To get more thoughts and insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Emotional growth in relationships
• Handling conflict and anger
• The role of fear in emotional responses
• Self-awareness and its importance in managing emotions
• Understanding personal triggers and emotional patterns
• The impact of past experiences on current reactions
• The significance of patience and dialogue in emotional transformation
• The relationship between anger and care for others
• The value of seeking support from counselors or spiritual guides
• Encouragement to explore feelings and foster curiosity about emotional responses

More Resources:

• Do You Fight (And Argue)? (blog post from DoctorMarriage.org)
• Untangling Emotions* by Groves and Smith
• Dealing with Conflict Podcast Bundle

Related Podcasts:

• How to Turn Emotional Triggers Into Opportunities for Growth
• The Harms of Negative Talking
• Assumptions vs. Communication: The Battle for Relational Harmony

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In this episode, I continue our three-part series "A Parent's Response Matters" with Family Care Director Norma, exploring three powerful letters from the RESPOND acronym. 

We dive into Sincerity over Silence, encouraging parents to stay honest and engaged even without all the answers. Then we explore Patience over Punitive, reminding us that calm correction builds stronger connections. Finally, Opportunity over Obstacle challenges parents to reframe difficult moments as God-given chances to teach and grow. 

Norma's practical wisdom makes these principles feel totally achievable, and her challenge to try just one shift this week is something every parent can do!

*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Navigating the sexualized culture from a Christian perspective
• The acronym RESPOND as a framework for parental engagement
• Sincerity over Silence in communication with children
• The importance of being honest and open about not having all the answers
• Patience over Punitive responses when addressing children's mistakes
• The role of calmness and empathy in correction
• Opportunity over Obstacle for teaching and relationship-building
• The significance of reframing interruptions as moments for growth
• Practical tools for parents to engage sincerely and patiently
• The broader application of these principles in all relationships, not just parenting

Resources for Next Steps:

• Critical Conversations Online Course
• Processing Exposure with Teens Online Course
• Just Between Us Parent-Child Journal*

RESPOND VS. REACT REMINDERS

R - Respond over React

E - Engage over Evade

S - Sincerity over Silence

P - Patience over Punitive

O - Opportunity over Obstacle

N - Nearness over Neglect

D - Divine Perspective over Diluting Truth

This episode (Part 1) covers R-E, Part 2 covers S-P-O, and Part 3 covers N-D

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In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I sit down to have an honest conversation about something we all face: temptation. We tackle the myth that some people are beyond it and share practical, emotional, and spiritual tools to help resist it. From asking sobering reality-check questions to speaking powerful affirmations out loud, we explore how small daily choices shape our lives. 

We also dive into integrity, discipline, grace, and the pursuit of genuine peace over secret shame — walking alongside our listeners on this ongoing journey toward freedom and wholeness in Christ.

To get more daily insights from Stephen Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Universal experience of temptation and its impact on individuals.
• Strategies for resisting temptation, including practical, emotional, and spiritual approaches.
• Importance of integrity and making choices aligned with personal values and faith.
• Reflective questions to consider during moments of temptation.
• Consequences of secret sins on relationships and personal integrity.
• The fleeting nature of pleasure from temptation versus long-term pain.
• The role of discipline in achieving freedom and a fulfilling life.
• The significance of envisioning future impacts of present choices.
• The concept of grace and ongoing personal growth in the face of temptation.
• The pursuit of peace, rest, and joy over a life marked by shame and secrecy.

More Resources:

• Everyone Gets Tempted (blog post on DoctorMarriage.org)
• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
• How to Resist Temptation: 7 Practical Ideas

Related Podcasts:

• Dealing with Temptation Podcast Bundle
• Breaking Free with Russell Willingham
• Pure in Heart - So Much More than Just Saying No

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In this episode, I have back on the program Melissa Macomber to explore the often-overlooked impact of parental infidelity on adult children. Melissa shares her personal journey of discovering her parents' affair as a teenager and how it shaped her into adulthood. 

Together, we discuss how secrecy, family roles, and betrayal affect trust, relationships, and self-expression later in life. Melissa also introduces her online program, Authenticity After Family Betrayal, offering hope and community to adult children still carrying this hidden pain. Her message is clear: healing is possible, and you are not alone.

To learn more about Melissa and her online program, visit MelissaMacomber.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• The impact of parental infidelity on adult children.
• Personal experiences of discovering parental infidelity and its long-term effects.
• The reasons parents may choose to withhold information about infidelity from their children.
• Emotional and relational challenges faced by adult children of parents who have cheated.
• The role of secrecy and denial in family dynamics and its effects on trust.
• Common coping mechanisms and family roles adopted by children in response to infidelity.
• Differences in sibling reactions to parental infidelity and its impact on their relationships.
• The connection between childhood experiences of infidelity and adult relationship patterns.
• Strategies for adult children to establish healthy boundaries with their parents.
• Support programs and resources available for adult children dealing with the aftermath of parental betrayal.

More Resources:

• Authenticity After Family Betrayal (online group starting September 8, 2026)
• How Keeping Secrets About Your Parent's Infidelity Stresses Your Brain
• Melissa's Research on Parent Infidelity and Its Effect on Adult Children

Related Podcasts:

• Understanding the Impact of Parent's Infidelity on Adult Children
• Why Do We Cheat?

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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Matt Burton to explore intimacy avoidance (IA) in men and its impact on relationships. Dr. Burton breaks down what IA really means — a subconscious self-protective pattern creating emotional distance — and shares key behaviors like lack of empathy, stonewalling, and blame-shifting. 

We discuss root causes, including childhood trauma and attachment issues, and Dr. Burton outlines a holistic path to healing. He also shares hope for men feeling overwhelmed, emphasizing that real change is possible. 

To learn more about Matt and Laura and their resources for men, wives, and couples, visit BecomingWellInstitute.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Definition and explanation of intimacy avoidance (IA) in men.
• Common patterns and behaviors associated with intimacy avoidant men.
• The impact of lack of empathy on relationships.
• Differences between sympathy and empathy.
• Underlying causes of intimacy avoidance, including family trauma and attachment issues.
• The emotional experience of intimacy avoidant men and their capacity for love.
• The role of maladaptive coping strategies in intimacy avoidance.
• Strategies for partners of intimacy avoidant men to maintain emotional health.
• The process of treatment and recovery for intimacy avoidance.
• Importance of relational recovery and the involvement of partners in the healing process.

More Resources:

• Men's Intimacy Avoidance Recovery
• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive
• The 12 Steps to Becoming Well from Intimacy Avoidance for Christians*

Related Podcasts:

• 4 Skills to Transform Your Marriage
• About Your Emotional Connecting Skills
• Keys to Emotional Intimacy

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In this episode, I sit down with Brad and Heidi Mitchell, a couple with an incredible story of restoration after 43 years of marriage. They openly share how they overcame Brad's adultery and rebuilt their relationship through faith and prayer. 

We dive deep into why so few couples — even Christians — pray together regularly, exploring the fears and barriers that hold them back. Brad and Heidi also walk us through their book, Build Your Marriage With Prayer, a powerful 40-day journey designed to help couples develop a meaningful, lasting prayer life together. 

No matter the state of your marriage, this conversation can help you catch a vision for a pathway to a deeper, richer connection with your spouse. 

To learn more about Brad and Heidi and their resources, visit BuildYourMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Importance of prayer in marriage, particularly praying together as a couple.
• Personal journey of the speakers, including challenges faced in their 43-year marriage.
• Impact of past adultery on their marriage and family.
• Role of faith and prayer in restoring their marriage.
• Common barriers and fears couples face when trying to pray together.
• Statistics on the correlation between couples who pray together and lower divorce rates.
• Development of a meaningful prayer life as a couple after experiencing a crisis.
• Insights from their book "Build Your Marriage With Prayer" and its 40-day journey.
• Transformation stories of other couples through prayer.
• Encouragement for couples to start praying together, including practical tips.

More Resources:

• Build Your Marriage with Prayer*
• Ruined to Recovery: Help When the Affair is Discovered*
• 40 Days to Oneness

Related Podcasts:

• Let's Pray
• Lord Be Near: Finding Hope in Suffering Through Prayer
• The Immanuel Approach in Recovery

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In this episode of Family Time*, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, in the first of a 3-part series to explore how parents can RESPOND thoughtfully rather than react impulsively to their children. Norma shares practical tools like pausing, naming emotions, and shifting to shame-free language. 

We also dig into the difference between engaging and evading difficult conversations, reminding parents that connection always comes before correction. Whether you're navigating spilled juice or tough questions about sexuality, this episode offers real, grace-filled guidance to help you build stronger, more trusting relationships with your kids.

*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Importance of thoughtful responses to children's questions and behaviors
• Distinction between reacting impulsively and responding thoughtfully
• Building strong parent-child bonds through connection before correction
• Practical tools for parents: pausing, counting, and naming feelings
• The impact of language on children's emotional responses
• Engaging in difficult conversations rather than evading them
• The significance of showing interest in children's lives and activities
• Strategies for effective engagement and communication with children
• The role of humility in repairing relationships with children
• Encouragement for parents to view challenging moments as growth opportunities

Resources for Next Steps:

• God's Design Curriculum
• Critical Conversations Online Course
• Just Between Us Parent-Child Journal*

RESPOND VS. REACT REMINDERS

R - Respond over React

E - Engage over Evade

S - Sincerity over Silence

P - Patience over Punitive

O - Opportunity over Obstacle

N - Nearness over Neglect

D - Divine Perspective over Diluting Truth

This episode (Part 1) covers R-E, Part 2 covers S-P-O, and Part 3 covers N-D

Download a FREE 1-page PDF with the RESPOND infographic

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In this episode, I sit down with Linda Stewart and Linda Noble, affectionately known as "the Lindas," who share their passion for helping parents navigate conversations about sexuality through the theology of the body. We explore how parental shame can block open dialogue with children and why humility and curiosity are essential tools for healing. 

The Lindas remind us it's never too late to start these conversations and share practical resources, including their book Before the Sex Talk, to help families build a foundation rooted in God's beautiful design.

To learn more about The Lindas and their resources for parents, visit TheConversationWorkshop.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Understanding God's design for sexuality and the human body.
• The impact of parental shame on discussions about sex with children.
• Encouraging open and healthy conversations between parents and children.
• The importance of humility in parenting and discussing sensitive topics.
• The role of curiosity in overcoming shame and fostering dialogue.
• The significance of parents sharing their own stories appropriately.
• Practical steps for parents to start conversations about sexuality.
• The value of building a foundation of trust and openness in family relationships.
• Resources available for parents to guide discussions on sexuality.
• The idea that it's never too late to engage in conversations about sexuality with older children.

More Resources:

• Before the Sex Talk: A Theology of the Body Approach for Parents and Mentors*
• Critical Conversations (FREE Online Course)
• 7 Tips to Help You Address Sexual Issues with Your Kids

Related Podcasts:

• Understanding God's Design for Sex in Today's Confused World
• Helping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and Sexuality
• How Parents Can Leverage Their Story of Brokenness to Help Their Kids Pursue Integrity

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In this episode, I sit down with Troy Snyder, a colleague and counseling expert from Restoration Counseling of Atlanta, to explore early couple recovery after sexual betrayal. Troy breaks down what those first six months after discovery really look like, emphasizing stability and safety over quick fixes. 

We dig into the concept of "reality abuse," the critical role of humility for the betraying spouse, and why individual healing must work in harmony with relational work. Troy also shares practical boundary-setting strategies and reminds couples that restoration is possible — it's simply a long, faithful journey worth taking.

To learn more about Troy and his resources, visit RestorationCounselingATL.com and RedeemingLife.net.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Early couple recovery following sexual betrayal in marriage.
• The concept of "reality abuse" and its impact on shared reality.
• The necessity of individual work for both partners in the recovery process.
• The importance of humility, patience, and long-term commitment from the betraying partner.
• Establishing and respecting healthy boundaries to ensure safety for the betrayed spouse.
• The significance of creating stability and safety in the early recovery phase.
• The role of professional support and community in the recovery journey.
• The process of honesty and full disclosure as foundational for rebuilding trust.
• The need for couples to avoid rushing into relational work before individual healing.
• The long-term vision for recovery and the importance of perseverance and hope.

More Resources:

• Restoration Counseling of Atlanta
• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
• Online Care Groups for Wives (betrayal trauma healing)

Related Podcasts:

• Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model
• The Three Phases of Couples Recovery
• Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal

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In this episode, I welcome back Andrea Rogers, a Board Certified Life Coach specializing in intimate partner betrayal trauma. Andrea shares her powerful personal story of discovering her husband's double life after 14 years of marriage, which eventually led her into coaching work. 

We explore what intimate partner betrayal truly means, its devastating emotional and physical impacts—including PTSD-like symptoms—and why it's so isolating. Andrea also shares about the Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day, observed annually on August 4th. This is a growing movement to bring visibility and community to those affected. 

To learn more about Andrea and her resources, visit FullyAliveCoachingLLC.com and IPBAwareness.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Personal experience with intimate partner betrayal and its impact on relationships.
• Definition and understanding of intimate partner betrayal and betrayal trauma.
• Emotional and psychological effects of betrayal trauma, including symptoms similar to PTSD.
• The isolating nature of betrayal and societal misconceptions surrounding it.
• The establishment and significance of Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day.
• Misconceptions about preventing betrayal and the need for specialized support.
• The importance of community and support systems for healing from betrayal trauma.
• Distinction between betrayal trauma and other forms of relational conflict.
• Strategies for healing and first steps for those experiencing betrayal.
• The role of friends and family in supporting individuals dealing with betrayal trauma.

More Resources:

• An Ember of Light by Andrea Aminah
• Wives Care Groups (Online)
• 40 Days of Healing for Wives (online course)

Related Podcasts:

• Is There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal?
• Online Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma
• Healing from Sexual Trauma and Coercive Control in Relationships

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In this episode, I sit down with my longtime friend Dr. Stephen Cervantes to explore a powerful communication tool for couples. Inspired by psychologist Aimee Moran's work with children, Stephen shares nine meaningful questions designed to spark deeper conversations beyond the typical "How was your day?" "Fine." exchange. From reflecting on daily blessings to spotting God at work, these questions build curiosity, emotional connection, and intimacy. 

We also discuss how especially in marriages healing from betrayal, meaningful dialogue is a true sign of heart-level growth. These simple questions can genuinely transform how couples connect every day!

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Improving communication in marriages, particularly after sexual betrayal.
• Adapting questions originally designed for children to facilitate deeper conversations between couples.
• Encouraging emotional expression and moving beyond superficial responses.
• Discussing daily experiences, challenges, and personal growth within the context of marriage.
• The importance of creating a safe space for sensitive discussions, especially regarding mistakes and challenges.
• Fostering curiosity, care, and intimacy through meaningful dialogue.
• Recognizing and addressing emotional needs in relationships.
• The role of prayer and spiritual awareness in strengthening marital bonds.
• Highlighting the significance of noticing and appreciating daily moments and connections.
• Encouraging ongoing personal and relational growth through intentional questioning and dialogue.

More Resources:

• 40 Days of Oneness* by Stephen Cervantes
• 131 Creative Conversations for Couples* by Jed Jurchenko
• Love Talk* by Les and Leslie Parrott

Related Podcasts:

• The Goal is Connecting
• Working Through Emotional Disconnection in Marriage
• Assumptions vs. Communication: The Battle for Relational Harmony

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In this special edition of Family Time* (which we recorded right before Mother's Day), I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, and two incredible moms, Sonia and Carol, to talk about having critical conversations with kids around emotions and sexuality. They share their personal experiences using our ministry resources, including the Honest Talk game and Honest Talk book. 

Together, we explore how building emotional awareness creates the trust needed for kids to open up about harder topics, and why grace, humility, and ongoing dialogue matter more than having all the answers.

I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation and I think you will too. It is honest, yet hope-filled. If you are a parent in today’s world, you don’t have to be scared.

*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Importance of emotional awareness in parenting.
• Tools and resources for facilitating difficult conversations with children.
• Experiences of mothers in using parenting resources effectively.
• The foundational role of emotions in discussing topics like sexuality.
• Building trust and open communication between parents and children.
• Normalizing ongoing conversations about sexuality rather than a single "talk."
• The impact of parental reactions on children's emotional development.
• Encouragement for parents to engage with their children's questions and concerns.
• The significance of using proper anatomical terms and age-appropriate discussions.
• The role of grace and community support in parenting challenges.

Resources for Next Steps:

• Critical Conversation Online Course (free)
• Honest Talk* by John Fort
• Honest Talk: The Game

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In this episode, I sit down with Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire to explore how wives can navigate healing after sexual betrayal, particularly when dealing with emotional triggers. Ashley shares vulnerably from her own recovery journey, explaining what triggers are, how they affect our nervous system, and why "befriending" them is more powerful than suppressing them. 

We discuss rebuilding intuition after gaslighting, setting healthy boundaries, and practical grounding tools. Ashley reminds us that healing is possible and that connecting with a supportive community is absolutely essential for the journey forward.

To learn more about Ashley, visit PureDesire.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Healing journey for wives experiencing sexual betrayal
• Understanding and managing emotional triggers
• The concept of "befriending your triggers"
• The impact of betrayal on intuition and gut feelings
• Importance of validating feelings and investigating triggers
• Setting boundaries for personal safety and well-being
• Common triggers that heighten anxiety in betrayed wives
• Practical tools for grounding and emotional regulation
• The role of community and support in the healing process
• Empowerment through understanding triggers and making informed decisions

More Resources:

• Online Wives Care Groups
• Unfiltered Podcast with Ashley and Heather
• Free Wives Care Webinar

Related Podcasts:

• Forgiveness and Grief in Betrayal Trauma Healing
• Relapse Safety Plan for Wives Healing from Betrayal Trauma
• Online Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma

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In this episode of Pure Sex Radio, I sit down with Jim Burns, founder of HomeWord and author of A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity. Jim shares why open, ongoing conversations with our kids about sexuality are far more effective than one big "talk." 

We explore how parents can present sexuality as God's good design, set healthy boundaries, and address tough topics like pornography, gender identity, and shame — all without being preachy. Jim also emphasizes the power of authenticity, encouraging parents to be real with their kids to build trust and keep the dialogue going.

To learn more about Jim and get this latest book, visit HomeWord.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Importance of discussing sexuality with children and teenagers
• Challenges of addressing sexuality in contemporary culture
• The shift from a single "talk" to ongoing conversations about sexuality
• Role of parents in providing a positive narrative about sexuality
• Addressing boundaries, pornography, and gender identity in discussions
• The impact of social media on youth sexuality and education
• Strategies for discussing healthy sexuality and pornography with kids
• The significance of authenticity and sharing personal experiences
• Understanding and addressing shame in conversations about sexuality
• Encouraging a foundation of sexual integrity based on biblical principles

More Resources:

• A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity* by Jim Burns
• DIGITAL COURSE: A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity
• FREE Online Course: Critical Conversations

Related Podcasts:

• Helping Your Kids Know God's Good Design
• Critical Conversations Podcast Bundle (6 episodes)
• Fighting Fears of Talking to Your Kids About Sex

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In this episode, I sit down with Matt Wenger to explore his powerful concept, the "Wheel of Destruction." Matt breaks down the five interconnected factors that fuel sex and porn addiction: trauma, maladaptive sexual experiences, attachment wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and brain changes. He explains how these elements feed into each other, creating a destructive cycle that impacts every area of life. 

Matt also shares practical pathways to healing through therapy, community, and sobriety. Most importantly, he reminds us that recovery is absolutely possible—your brain, heart, and body are capable of healing, and you don't have to face this journey alone.

Get more info on Matt and resources to help your recovery journey at BeginAgainInstitute.com. 

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Understanding sex and porn addiction recovery
• Introduction of the "Wheel of Destruction" concept
• Interconnected factors contributing to addiction: trauma, maladaptive sexual experiences, attachment wounds, autonomic nervous system dysregulation, and brain changes
• The impact of trauma on addiction and recovery
• The role of attachment wounds in shaping addictive behaviors
• The relationship between shame and attachment wounds
• Importance of community and authentic relationships in recovery
• The effects of autonomic nervous system dysregulation on behavior and recovery
• Brain plasticity and the potential for healing in recovery
• Messages of hope and support for individuals struggling with addiction

More Resources:

• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
• Begin Again Institute 14-Day Christian Men's Intensive
• How Sex Addiction Creates False Intimacy

Related Podcast:

• The Importance of "Whole Man" Recovery
• Reframing Recovery as Emotional Regulation
• Porn and Sex Addiction Recovery as Mental Health Issues

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In this episode, I talk with Lyschel Burket about something every betrayed spouse needs to think about: what happens if there’s a relapse? We get honest about how deeply destabilizing that can be, especially for wives who have already been through the pain of betrayal and are trying to rebuild a sense of safety.

Lyschel helps us understand why a relapse can feel like another trauma. It can knock a wife’s body and mind right back into survival mode, making it hard to think clearly, make decisions, or even know what to do next. That’s why we spend time talking about the value of a relapse safety plan, which is really a practical way to prepare before a crisis hits.

We walk through the important pieces of that plan, including how to define the difference between a slip and a relapse, why it matters to think ahead about your physical, emotional, spiritual, financial, and relational needs, and how a plan can actually reduce panic when life feels chaotic. We also talk about the unfairness many wives feel in having to create this kind of plan, and why it still can be an act of wisdom and self-care.

At the heart of it all, Lyschel reminds us that a woman’s safety is not ultimately dependent on her husband’s choices. God is the true source of her provision, protection, and hope.

To learn more about Lyschel and the resources she offers to wives, visit HopeRedefined.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Relapse and betrayal trauma.
• How relapse destabilizes a spouse.
• Slip vs. relapse.
• Why a relapse safety plan matters.
• Preparing before crisis hits.
• Fire escape plan analogy.
• Key safety plan categories.
• Hope and stability in God.

More Resources:

• Relapse Safety Plan Workshop
• Redeemed Hope intensive
• Online Wives Care Groups

Related Podcasts:

• Helping Wives Restore Hope After Betrayal Trauma in Marriage
• Identifying and Meeting Needs in a Betrayed Wife
• The Need for Boundaries After Betrayal

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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Carol Tanksley to explore intimacy and sexuality for single Christians—a topic the church often overlooks. Drawing from her own journey through 40+ years of singleness, marriage, and widowhood, Carol unpacks the difference between sex and intimacy, how Jesus modeled deep connection without sexual activity, and how singles can honor God with their desires. 

We also tackle harmful church misconceptions, the importance of healthy touch, and practical wisdom for navigating boundaries. Carol leaves us with three powerful principles: stay clean, stay connected, stay consecrated.

To learn more about Carol and her ministry, visit DrCarolMinistries.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Discussion on intimacy and sexuality for single Christians.
• Distinction between sex and intimacy.
• Emotional and physical intimacy needs beyond sexual activity.
• Challenges faced by single Christians regarding intimacy and sexuality.
• Misconceptions within church culture about singleness and sexuality.
• The role of the church in supporting single adults.
• Practical advice for singles to steward their sexuality and intimacy.
• Importance of non-sexual physical touch and healthy friendships.
• Addressing shame and regret over past sexual choices.
• Encouragement for singles to find purpose and connection beyond sexual relationships.

More Resources:

• Sexpectations online course
• Sexpectations* (book) by Dr. Carol Tanksley
• Sex & Anxiety online course

Related Podcasts:

• Being a Single, Sexual Man
• Exploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol Tanksley
• What Are Your Sexpectations?

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In this episode of the Family Time segment,* I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, Director of our Family Care ministry to explore the sixth critical conversation in our series: "Leveraging Your Story." Norma and I discuss how parents can wisely and humbly share their personal testimonies with their children to build trust and connection around sexuality.

We cover practical tips on age-appropriate sharing, avoiding oversharing, and keeping God's redemptive power at the center of the conversation. Norma also shares eye-opening survey results revealing how fear keeps both parents and teens from opening up with each other.

To enroll in our free Critical Conversations online course, visit PureLifeAcademy.org.

For all of our Family resources, including our free Critical Conversations online course, visit Bebroken.org/family.

*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Importance of discussing sexuality from a Christian perspective with children.
• Navigating a hyper-sexualized culture and its impact on children.
• Overview of the six critical conversations in family care ministry.
• Focus on the sixth conversation: "Leveraging Your Story."
• Encouragement for parents to share personal stories and testimonies with their children.
• Building trust, connection, and credibility through vulnerability.
• Importance of age-appropriate sharing and maintaining boundaries.
• Addressing the fear and isolation that can exist between parents and teens regarding discussions about sex.
• Emphasizing God's redemptive power in personal stories.
• Resources and practical tips for parents to facilitate these conversations effectively.

Resources for Next Steps:

• Critical Conversation Online Course (free)
• Father-Son Accountability* by John Fort
• Girl Talk by Ashley Jameson

For more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.

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In this episode, I sit down with Cat Etherington, Director of Recovery at Naked Truth Project, to explore how addiction impacts parenting and family dynamics. Cat openly shares her personal journey through addiction and recovery, offering powerful insights into how addiction disrupts parent-child attachment and creates generational cycles of shame. 

Together, we discuss practical ways parents in recovery can stabilize their family environment, communicate honestly with their children, and navigate the process of rupture and repair. Cat also offers encouraging words about making amends without shame and reminds us that healing is always possible, no matter where you are in your journey. 

For more info about Cat and the resources at Naked Truth Project, visit NakedTruthProject.com. 

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Impact of addiction on family dynamics and parenting.
• Personal experiences with addiction and recovery.
• Effects of addiction on attachment between parents and children.
• Challenges parents face in recovery, including emotional immaturity and shame.
• Importance of providing age-appropriate information to children.
• The process of rupture and repair in building secure attachments.
• Strategies for parents to apologize and make amends without shame.
• The generational cycle of shame and addiction.
• The significance of open communication and emotional expression in families.
• Hope for ongoing repair and healing in family relationships.

More Resources:

• Help for Husbands/Dads
• Help for Wives/Moms
• Help for Families

Related Podcasts:

• How Early Development Trauma Shapes Addiction and Relationships
• How Parents Can Leverage their Story of Brokenness to Help Their Kids Pursue Integrity
• How to Move from Anxious Attachment to Secure Attachment

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