This Way In is a therapist-guided, layperson-led journey into mental health, healing, and self-discovery. Brittney (the therapist) and Amy (the curious one) explore trauma, emotions, and the parts that make us who we are—with compassion and clarity.

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Symptoms and Diagnoses Series Wrap Up What we see on the outside doesn’t always tell us what someone is experiencing on the inside.In this episode of This Way In, we close out our Symptoms and Diagnoses series with a conversation about obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), hoarding disorder, schizophrenia, and dissociative identity disorder (DID). Brittney walks us through symptoms and experiences associated with each, while Amy brings personal stories, questions, and plenty of examples from movies and TV. We talk about the emotional challenges of letting go of possessions, the distinction between psychosis and schizophrenia, and how dissociation can affect memory and someone’s sense of self. Amy also shares her experience of clearing out her mom’s home and the unexpected priorities that made an already difficult process even harder. Then we widen the conversation: How can gender expectations and socialization influence the way people express distress—and whether they ask for help? What can we do when someone appears to be in a mental health crisis? One message comes up again and again: stay calm, listen with empathy, and recognize when professional or emergency help is needed. Is there a topic from this series you’d like us to explore further? Let us know—we’re happy to take a deeper dive. Content note: This episode includes discussion of trauma, childhood abuse, suicide and suicide attempts, domestic violence, and the deaths of children.This Way In is a conversation about mental health and everyday wellbeing. It is not therapy or a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The hosts share educational information, personal experiences, and their own perspectives. Please consult a qualified professional about your individual circumstances. This episode was recorded on August 25, 2026 and released on November 11, 2026. Chapter Markers00:00:17 Intro00:01:00 OCD00:07:32 Hoarding00:20:37 Schizophrenia and Psychosis00:32:29 Dissociative Identity Disorder DID00:44:52 Parts of Self and these Diagnoses00:45:45 How These Diagnoses Present Differently in Males vs Females00:52:57 Responding to someone in a mental health crisis00:58:04 Domestic Violence vs Psychosis01:02:59 Number 1 thing to Remember01:03:54 Closing Thoughts TV/Movies Mentioned in this EpisodeSouth Park (“In Sheepshin”, Season 14 episode 10)HoardersShrinkingA Beautiful MindJonathanSybilSeverance Crisis Text Line is a global nonprofit organization founded in 2013 that provides mental-health support through text messaging.In the U.S., people can text “HOME” to 741741 to connect with a live trained crisis counselor.The service is free, confidential, and available 24/7.They support people dealing with things like anxiety, loneliness, bullying, substance use, self-harm, and suicidal thoughts.  DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

Symptoms and Diagnoses Series Wrap Up

20: Making Sense of What We See

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What happens when everyone seems to know the social rules—but nobody gave you a copy?In this episode of This Way In, Amy and Brittney explore autism spectrum disorder, from diagnostic criteria and sensory differences to navigating relationships and unwritten social expectations.Inspired in part by Love on the Spectrum, we talk about communication, routines, focused interests, masking, and the effort that can go into fitting in. Amy shares childhood memories of being expected to understand things nobody had explained, while Brittney walks through the criteria professionals consider when assessing autism.We also discuss the value of understanding someone’s individual support needs, why an online screening cannot provide a diagnosis, and what we can learn by listening to autistic people’s experiences. Along the way, we share favorite moments from Love on the Spectrum, discuss books offering autistic perspectives, and take a curious detour into the claims explored in The Telepathy Tapes.At the heart of the conversation is a question: How can we make more room for people to communicate, connect, and be themselves? In this episode:·       Unwritten social rules and the pressure to fit in·       Autism diagnostic criteria and overlapping traits·       Sensory experiences, routines, and focused interests·       Different support needs and the importance of understanding·       Masking, relationships, and Love on the Spectrum·       Online screenings and the role of a professional assessment Also mentioned:·       Love on the Spectrum (Netflix)·       The Telepathy Tapes (podcast) This Way In is a conversation about mental health and everyday wellbeing, not therapy. This episode shares general information and personal perspectives; it cannot diagnose autism or replace an individualized assessment or professional advice.This episode was recorded on July 27, 2026 and released on October 28, 2026. Chapter Markers00:01:58 Love on the Spectrum00:05:51 Amy&#39;s Childhood Memories00:11:58 Unwritten Social Rules00:15:44 Criteria for ASD00:28:20 Ranges of Autism Severity00:39:44 Managing Autism Symptoms in Kids00:46:08 Applied Behavioral Analysis00:47:36 Telepathy Tapes Podcast00:55:44 Looking Forward00:56:07 Love on the Spectrum Revisit01:09:15 Online Tests01:12:16 Brittney&#39;s Soapbox01:14:23 Wrap Up01:14:33 Disclaimer and Outro Episode links:Unwritten Rules of Social Relationships by Temple Grandin and Sean Barron: <a href="https://link.amazon/B0iAWI4vN" rel="nofollow">https://link.amazon/B0iAWI4vN</a>The Reason I Jump: The Inner Voice of a Thirteen-Year-Old Boy with Autism by Naoki Higashida (and more):<a href="https://link.amazon/B08GBbpl6" rel="nofollow">https://link.amazon/B08GBbpl6</a>Uniquely Human by Barry Prizant: <a href="https://link.amazon/B0ewIS1T2" rel="nofollow">https://link.amazon/B0ewIS1T2</a>Amazon links could generate a small commission to the show, at no additional cost to you. DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

Symptoms and Diagnoses Series

19: When the Rules Are Unwritten (Symptoms & Diagnoses of Autism)

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Why do some relationships feel safe and easy while others leave us anxious, distant, confused, or desperately trying to hold on?In this episode, Amy and Brittney dig into attachment and the ways our earliest relationships can shape how we connect with other people throughout our lives. Brittney explains the difference between bonding and attachment, what children actually need from their caregivers, and how those needs can affect our relationships long after childhood.They break down secure attachment and the three types of insecure attachment: avoidant, ambivalent, and disorganized. Along the way, they talk about why familiar relationship patterns can be so difficult to recognize, how attachment wounds can get passed from one generation to the next, and why our childhood experiences can continue showing up in adult relationships even when we have no idea they&#39;re running the show.They also explore some attachment needs that may sound simple but can have a huge impact, including healthy limits and boundaries, validation, reassurance, loving correction, emotional attunement, and simply delighting in a child for being who they are.And because discovering your own “attachment junk” isn&#39;t exactly the cheeriest revelation, Brittney explains why none of this means we&#39;re permanently stuck with the patterns we learned growing up. Attachment wounds can be worked on, and approaches including EMDR and ego state work can help adults begin meeting needs that weren&#39;t met earlier in life.Because, as Amy puts it, everybody&#39;s got some sh*t they gotta work out. Content note: This episode includes discussion of childhood abuse, sexual abuse, trauma, dysfunctional family relationships, and other potentially sensitive topics.This Way In is a conversation about mental health and everyday well-being, but it is not therapy. The information shared is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not replace care or advice from a qualified mental health professional. Chapter Markers00:00 Intro01:30 What is Attachment02:44 Bonding and Attachment04:42 Boy Mom Tangent06:52 Types of Attachment18:12 Attachment in Relationships19:25 Attachment Junk20:39 Diagnoses for Attachment Trauma22:42 Importance of Social Support32:31 List of Attachment Needs43:33 Other Attachment Needs from Parents46:44 Attachment is Tricky49:36 First Five Years50:17 Being Attuned to Your Child54:26 Not Taught in School56:16 Disclaimer and Credits Episode links:Ego State Therapy Interventions to Prepare Attachment-Wounded Adults for EMDR by Shirley Jean Schmidt<a href="https://amzn.to/4h5ES9b" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/4h5ES9b</a>The Developmental Needs Meeting Strategy: An Ego State Therapy for Healing Adults with Childhood Trauma and Attachment Wounds by Shirley Jean Schmidt<a href="https://amzn.to/4zRzLRz" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/4zRzLRz</a>Leave us a voicemail at: <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a>Amazon links could generate a small commission to the show, at no additional cost to you. This episode was recorded on August 19, 2026 and released on September 23, 2026.

Symptoms & Diagnosis Series: Attachment

18: Why We Love the Way We Do (Symptoms & Diagnosis Series: Attachment)

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In this episode, Amy and Brittney dig into PTSD: what actually qualifies for a diagnosis, how trauma can affect the brain and body, and why the symptoms can look very different from person to person.They explore flashbacks, avoidance, hypervigilance, dissociation, emotional numbness, and the difference between “big T” and “little t” trauma. Brittney also explains complex PTSD, how trauma symptoms can overlap with conditions like anxiety, depression, and ADHD, and how severe trauma can sometimes involve hallucinations and delusions.Plus, they talk about the role attachment and support systems play in trauma, why the body can hold onto experiences even when our conscious memory doesn’t, and treatment approaches including EMDR, ego state therapy, CBT, and DBT.They also discuss the fear that can come with starting trauma therapy, why healing sometimes means going slowly, and the vicarious trauma experienced by first responders, therapists, and others who regularly witness or hear about traumatic events.As always, this conversation is for education and discussion and is not a substitute for individualized mental health care. This episode was recorded on May 18, 2026 and released on September 9, 2026. Chapter Markers00:00 Intro00:00:45 What Actually Qualifies as PTSD00:02:48 Avoidance00:12:21 When the Stress Response Stays On00:16:37 Big T, Little T00:18:33 Complex PTSD00:20:20 Complex PTSD Overlaps00:21:59 Dissociation &amp; Disintegration00:30:25 Hallucinations, Delusions &amp; Trauma00:34:02 Narrative Disruption00:47: 56 Therapies That Work for Trauma00:56:15 Finding the Right Trauma Therapist for You00:58:12 One More Thing About Types of Attachment01:03: 25 First Wrap Up01:06:21 Helpers Need Help01:11:36 Disclaimer and Credits Crisis Text Line is a global nonprofit organization founded in 2013 that provides mental-health support through text messaging.In the U.S., people can text “HOME” to 741741 to connect with a live trained crisis counselor.The service is free, confidential, and available 24/7.They support people dealing with things like anxiety, loneliness, bullying, substance use, self-harm, and suicidal thoughts. DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

17: When the Past Won’t Stay in the Past (Symptoms & Diagnoses of PTSD)

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Bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder may have similar names and some overlapping symptoms, but they are very different diagnoses.In this episode, Amy and Brittney break down the differences between bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, including depression, mania and hypomania, emotional reactivity, impulsivity, attachment, and fear of abandonment. They also look at where symptoms can overlap and why telling the difference isn&#39;t always as straightforward as it seems.Along the way, they use examples from King of the Hill, Shameless, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, Girl, Interrupted, and even Star Wars to help put some of these symptoms into context. They also discuss sleep, medication, support systems, routines, and other tools that may help manage symptoms.Plus: Amy learns that apparently starting with the same letter is enough for her brain to file two completely different diagnoses in the same folder. Chapters00;21 Intro01:11 Why the Mix-Up?02:23 Symptoms if Bipolar Depression08:00 Pop Culture Examples of Bipolar12:24 Symptoms &amp; Criteria of Borderline Personality Disorder17:37 Pop Culture References of Borderline22:56 Overlaps of Bipolar and Borderline26:24 Getting Help, Not Self-Diagnosis28:39 Help for Both Disorders33:41 Three Spirit Drinks34: 24 Is it Manic?35:20 Medications37:04 Non-Medicinal Help47:22 One last question52:08 How You Can Help Someone  This episode was recorded on May 4, 2026 and released on August 26, 2026.Episode links:I Hate You Don&#39;t Leave Me by Jerold J. Kreisman, Hall Strauss <a href="https://amzn.to/4qDgyyA" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/4qDgyyA</a> Amazon links could generate a small commission to the show, at no additional cost to you. Crisis Text Line is a global nonprofit organization founded in 2013 that provides mental-health support through text messaging.In the U.S., people can text “HOME” to 741741 to connect with a live trained crisis counselor.The service is free, confidential, and available 24/7.They support people dealing with things like anxiety, loneliness, bullying, substance use, self-harm, and suicidal thoughts.  DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

16: Same Letters, Different Story (Symptoms & Diagnoses for Borderline Personality and Bipolar Disorders)

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Depression is much more than feeling sad. It can affect your body, your thoughts, your motivation, and the way you experience the world around you.In this episode, Amy and licensed therapist Brittney Baxter Dameron explore the symptoms of depression, how it differs from grief and everyday sadness, why depression often overlaps with anxiety, and what it actually feels like to live with it. They also discuss practical ways to support yourself or someone you love, from building meaningful connections to finding small steps that can help break through the shutdown response. Content Warning: This episode includes an in-depth discussion of suicide and suicidal ideation.Crisis Text Line is a global nonprofit organization founded in 2013 that provides mental-health support through text messaging.In the U.S., people can text “HOME” to 741741 to connect with a live trained crisis counselor.The service is free, confidential, and available 24/7.They support people dealing with things like anxiety, loneliness, bullying, substance use, self-harm, and suicidal thoughts.This episode was recorded on April 6, 2026 and released on August 12, 2026.If you prefer to consume your podcasts visually, we also offer video versions on YouTube @thiswayinpodcast or at our website at <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a>\ Chapter Markers00:00 Welcome and Trigger Warning01:07 Why Depression Defies Logic02:46 Personal Experiences and Prevalence04:36 Roots in Trauma and Attachment08:51 Depression Anxiety Overlap10:56 Gender Differences and Control13:54 Clinical Symptoms Checklist16:28 Suicide and Misconceptions18:26 How Depression Feels Physically20:25 Dark Thoughts and Self Talk22:57 Anhedonia and Grief vs Depression26:43 Treatment Beyond Medication27:19 Activate Your Body28:16 Nature As Medicine30:29 Senses And Small Wins32:23 Music For Connection34:12 Loneliness And Suicide Risk37:32 Prevention Through Connection38:58 Medication Tradeoffs43:20 Therapy And Deeper Work44:53 Reaching Out To Others48:11 After The Episode50:09 Treat Yourself And Credits DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

When Everything Feels Heavy

15: When Everything Feels Heavy (Symptoms and Diagnoses of Depression)

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What does a panic attack actually feel like? How is it different from everyday stress or generalized anxiety? And why can anxiety make you feel like you&#39;re having a heart attack when you&#39;re perfectly safe?In this episode of This Way In, Amy shares her firsthand experience with panic attacks while Brittney explains what&#39;s happening in the brain and body during both panic attacks and generalized anxiety disorder. Together, they explore common symptoms, why anxiety can seem to come out of nowhere, how panic disorder differs from generalized anxiety, and practical grounding techniques that can help calm the nervous system.Whether you&#39;ve experienced anxiety yourself or want to better understand someone who has, this episode offers compassionate, practical insight into one of the most common mental health conditions.This episode was recorded on March 23, 2026 and released on July 30, 2026.If you prefer to consume your podcasts visually, we also offer video versions on YouTube @thiswayinpodcast or at our website at <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a>Chapter Markers00:25 Intro01:00 Amy&#39;s Past Experiences with Panic Attacks06:58 Tips for Calming a Panic Attack15:33 Panic Disorder29:01 Anxiety Disorder40:01 Next Time40:32 Disclaimer Leave us a voicemail at: <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a> DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. CreditsCo-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

Symptoms & Diagnoses: Anxiety

14: Why Am I Panicking? (Symptoms & Diagnoses: Anxiety)

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Have you ever wondered if you have ADHD... or if something else might be causing similar symptoms?In this first episode of our new Symptoms &amp; Diagnoses series, licensed therapist Brittney joins Amy to unpack The Many Faces of ADHD. Together they explore the differences between inattentive, hyperactive, and combined presentations of ADHD, why self-diagnosis can be misleading, and how conditions like anxiety, PTSD, and depression can sometimes look remarkably similar. They also discuss what ADHD symptoms actually feel like, why they develop differently from person to person, and how understanding your brain can be a powerful first step toward self-compassion.Whether you&#39;ve been diagnosed with ADHD, suspect you might have it, or simply want to better understand yourself or someone you love, this episode offers practical insights without judgment. Brittney shares real-world strategies for managing both inattentive and hyperactive symptoms, explains why getting the right diagnosis matters, and reminds us that behind every diagnosis is a unique person, not just a checklist.This episode was released on July 8, 2026.If you prefer to consume your podcasts visually, we also offer video versions on YouTube @thiswayinpodcast or at our website at <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a> Chapter Markers00:23 Intro11:25 Inattention Symptoms19:34 Hyperactivity and Impulsivity Symptoms24:11 Overlap to other Diagnoses28:14 Being Diagnosed with ADHD33:50 Ways to Deal with Hyperactivity Symptoms34:40 Ways to Deal with Inattentive Symptoms38:53 How We Learn41:50 Music is Magic46:03 Managing Symptoms of ADHD01:02:24 Disclaimer/Outro DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home StudioThank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

13: The Many Faces of ADHD (Symptoms and Diagnoses Series)

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Sleep. We all need it. Most of us aren’t getting enough of it. And somehow we still treat it like an optional side quest instead of basic human maintenance.In this episode of This Way In, Amy and Brittney tumble headfirst into the strange, fascinating world of sleep. From circadian rhythms and sleep hygiene to stress dreams, lucid dreaming, REM cycles, and the very real effects poor sleep can have on your brain and body, this conversation wanders through both the science and the deeply human side of what happens when we close our eyes.Amy&#39;s Note: At the time we were recording we were having some technicians here installing our furnace. So I had to stop a few times to talk to them, and also the little dog barked incessantly. I tried to cut her out, but it was only possible when I was not talking They talk about:·        Why sleep affects far more than just energy levels·        The connection between sleep and long-term brain health·        Sleep routines that actually work in real life·        Why some people are night owls and others aren’t·        Dream symbolism, lucid dreaming, and those “wait… was that real?” dreams·        Emotional dreams that stick with you all day·        Why alarms are basically tiny panic attacks·        The myth of “catching up” on sleep·        Dogs who believe breakfast should happen at 5:42 AM sharp There’s science. There’s woo. There’s laughter. There’s existential dread about dementia. Basically: classic This Way In. And yes... there is also a very vocal tiny dog making her opinions known throughout portions of the recording. At the time, Amy was also dealing with furnace technicians in the house, so despite editing efforts, some background chaos survived the final cut. Honestly? It feels on-brand for a conversation about disrupted sleep. So fluff your pillow, silence your notifications (or don’t, we discuss that too), and join us as we wander This Way In… to your sleep.This episode was recorded on February 23, 2026 and released on June 24, 2026. If you prefer to consume your podcasts visually, we also offer video versions on YouTube @thiswayinpodcast or at our website at <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a> Chapter Markers00:00:20 Intro00:01:19 How Important is Sleep00:12:16 Chronic Lack of Sleep00:14:18 Sleep Hygiene &amp; Circadian Rhythms00:19:23 Why Teenagers Need More Sleep00:21:52 Sleep Cycles, Alarms &amp; Waking Up Groggy00:29:03 Dreams, Lucid Dreaming &amp; Emotional Processing00:43:57 Sleep &amp; Brain Health00:53:01 Getting Your Circadian Rhythm Back on Track00:56:02 Tools for Falling Asleep01:04:31 Sleep Paralysis01:08:49 Dreams vs. Visitations01:13:33 Wrapping Up DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

12: Plaques & Tangles: This Way Into Your Sleep

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What does it actually mean to “reset your nervous system”? Is that even a real thing… or just another TikTok buzz phrase floating through the algorithm swamp?In this episode, Amy and therapist Brittney Baxter Dameron dig into what the nervous system actually does, why our bodies react the way they do to stress, and why “calming down” is a lot more complicated than somebody yelling “just relax!” from across the room like an emotionally constipated camp counselor.They explore the difference between real threats and perceived threats, how cortisol and adrenaline affect the body, and why chronic stress can leave us feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, anxious, emotionally fried, and stuck in survival mode. The conversation also covers the vagus nerve, fight/flight/freeze responses, and practical ways to give your nervous system a much-needed reprieve during difficult times.Amy shares some of the tools that genuinely help her sleep and regulate stress, including guided sleep meditations, binaural beats, color-noise soundscapes, sleep stories, and even a surprisingly soothing color-by-number app that apparently relaxes her enough to convince her smartwatch she’s unconscious. Which honestly feels like a glowing review.Brittney also explains:·        Why meditation doesn’t have to look like sitting cross-legged chanting “ohm”·        How creativity and sensory comfort can help regulate stress·        Why sleep is one of the most powerful nervous system reprieves we have·        The difference between healthy coping mechanisms and stress-relief behaviors that create even bigger problems later·        How to recognize when your body is trying to tell you something importantThis episode also contains a very honest conversation about living through stressful and uncertain times, navigating fear and helplessness, and finding sustainable ways to care for yourself without shutting down completely.So grab your coziest blanket, your comfort beverage, and maybe a pair of headphones for those binaural beats… and join us as we find our way into the strange, complicated world of stress, survival, and nervous system reprieves. This episode was recorded on January 26, 2026 and released on June 10, 2026. If you prefer to consume your podcasts visually, we also offer video versions on YouTube @thiswayinpodcast or at our website at <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a>Chapter Markers00:00:21 Intro00:00:54 What IS the Nervous System?00:02:58 “Resetting” Your Nervous System00:04:38 Controlling our Autonomic Nervous System00:06:39 Breathing Exercise00:07:35 “Calm Down” Rarely Works00:09:56 Tips for Regulating Your Nervous System00:11:02 Meditation00:15:38 Binaural Sounds00:18:47 Other Forms of Meditation00:21:41 Other Nervous System Reprieves00:23:03 Stress Responses in Everyday Life00:25:18 A Cozy Environment00:26:38 Sleep Hygiene00:27:39 Cortisol Explained00:31:57 Healthy Reprieves00:32:18 Unhealthy Ways to Relieve Stress00:36:06 Real and Perceived Threats00:45:57 Credits Episode links:Leave us a voicemail at: <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a> Please see our blog post for the list of all the podcasts Amy recommends. DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

11: To Your Nervous System

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WE&#39;RE BACK!!!After a &#34;short&#34; hiatus we are back!Choosing a therapist can feel overwhelming. What do all those letters after their name mean? What’s the difference between therapy and counseling? And how do you know if the person sitting across from you is actually the right fit?In this episode of This Way In, we unpack what therapy really is (and what it definitely isn’t), how to clarify what you want from the process, and how to tell if a therapist is helping you move forward—or if it’s time to try someone new. We also talk about telehealth, online therapy platforms, insurance realities, and the red flags to watch for. If you’ve ever wondered where to start—or whether you’re even “doing therapy right”—this conversation will help you feel more confident taking that next step.This episode was recorded on January 12, 2026 and released on May 27, 2026.If you prefer to consume your podcasts visually, we also offer video versions on YouTube @thiswayinpodcast or at our website at <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a> Chapter Markers00:00:00 Intro00:00:53 Therapy vs. Counseling00:02:15 Credentials and What They Mean00:06:29What Do You Want Out of Therapy00:07:59 Reasons for Seeking Therapy00:10:29 Dialectical behavior Therapy00:17:16 Looking for Growth?00:18:27 Looking for Trauma Healing?00:19:56 Is This a Good Fit?00:21:13 Reflective Listening00:23:13 Treatment Plan00:24:14 Things to Avoid00:27:31 When it is NOT Therapy00:30:08 When it’s the Parent’s Responsibility00:33: 13 Your Responsibility in Therapy00:36:07 When To Try a New Therapist00:46:43 Popular Online Therapy Companies00:51:13 Walking through the Search Process00:52:57 Insurance or No00:55:20 End Credits  Episode links: “How to Behave So Your kids Will Too” by Dr. Sal Severe: <a href="https://amzn.to/4cchCEM" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/4cchCEM</a>EMDR International Association: <a href="https://www.emdria.org/" rel="nofollow">https://www.emdria.org/</a>Marsha M. Linehan <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marsha_M._Linehan" rel="nofollow">https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marsha_M._Linehan</a>Leave us a voicemail at: <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a>Amazon links could generate a small commission to the show, at no additional cost to you. DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

10: To Choosing the Right Therapist For You

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In this final episode of our Parts of Self series, we take a deep dive into the Logical Part. We explore what it does best, how it works with other parts, and what happens when it gets pushed out of the driver’s seat. Logical is not emotionless or cold. When it is unburdened, it helps us problem-solve, reflect without spiraling, and navigate stress in a grounded and realistic way. When it becomes overwhelmed or co-opted by other parts, especially Critical or Protector, it can shut down or begin justifying behaviors that do not actually align with our values. We also zoom out to look at how all parts work together, why balance matters more than control, and how logical thinking intersects with intuition, spirituality, and lived experience. As part of the series wrap-up, Brittney walks through a practical overview of Parts of Self work, including how to create a mental meeting space, how to work with parts even if you cannot visualize, why physical sensations are often the clearest signal that parts work is active, and when doing this work on your own is appropriate versus when it is time to bring in a therapist. We talk honestly about trauma containment, why parts exist in the first place, and how to approach this work safely and compassionately. This episode brings together everything we have covered in the series and sets the stage for what comes next. This is not the end of the conversation, but a solid place to pause and integrate. This episode was recorded on January 5, 2026 and released on January 14, 2026. If you prefer to consume your podcasts visually, we also offer video versions on YouTube @thiswayinpodcast or at our website at <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a>  Chapter Markers00:00:23 Welcome to Your Logical Part00:00:55 The Logical Part’s Job00:06:53 Burdened Logical Parts00:09:49 Logical Parts vs. Intuition00:16:04 Parts of Self Dream Team00:20:10 Mental Meeting Spaces00:25:29 When Sh*t Gets Real00:28:51 Self-Control00:29:16 Good vs. poor Mental Health00:30:53 Aphantasia: Can You Visualize?00: 39:48 Brittney’s Thank Yous00:43:52 Disclaimer/Outro00:44:32 Outro Episode links:Julie Dubovoy Aguggia: <a href="https://juliedubovoy.com/" rel="nofollow">https://juliedubovoy.com/</a>Fraser&#39;s Dissociative Table: <a href="https://newhopecounselling.com/psychology/frasers-dissociative-table-technique/" rel="nofollow">https://newhopecounselling.com/psychology/frasers-dissociative-table-technique/</a>You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For by Richard Schwartz: <a href="https://amzn.to/4gy3NAE" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/4gy3NAE</a>Easy Ego State Interventions by Robin Shapiro (accessible and clinician-friendly) <a href="https://amzn.to/3IaKkcx" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3IaKkcx</a>EMDR Toolbox by Jim Knipe <a href="https://amzn.to/42H3AVP" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/42H3AVP</a>Works by Sandra Paulsen on preverbal traumaThe Dynamic Needs Meeting Strategy (DNMS) by Shirley Jean Schmidt MA LPC <a href="https://amzn.to/4mugMV3" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/4mugMV3</a> Leave us a voicemail at: <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a>Amazon links could generate a small commission to the show, at no additional cost to you. DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

9: Parts of Self Series: Logical Part and Series Wrap Up

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This one is a tearjerker.This week on This Way In, we continue our “Parts of Self” series by diving into the Nurturing Part. We explore how our inner nurturer shows up, how it gets shaped (and sometimes burdened) by gender roles and life experience, and what it really means to love and be loved. Amy shares a vulnerable and timely story about navigating care for her mom, while Brittney offers deep insights into what happens when our nurturing part is overworked, unauthentic, or misunderstood. We also touch on topics like:<ul><li>The dynamic between nurturing and protector parts</li><li>What happens when nurturing goes too far (hello, savior complex)</li><li>Gender norms around who gets to be “the nurturer”</li><li>Medical aid in dying, caregiver fatigue, and difficult end-of-life decisions</li></ul> Plus, we talk about how to nurture ourselves in small and meaningful ways—from meditation and support groups to the underrated power of just showing up for one another. Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of pet loss, elder care, assisted living/memory care transitions, and medically assisted death. This episode was recorded on December 8, 2025 and released on December 31, 2025. If you prefer to consume your podcasts visually, we also offer video versions on YouTube @thiswayinpodcast or at our website at <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a>  Chapter Markers00:00:00 Intro00:01:49 Recap of Protector Part00:04:29 Gender Roles: Protector and Nurturer00:10:15 Nurturing Part00:12:48 Short and Long-Term Nurturing00:18:19 When Nurturing Parts Can’t Do Their Jobs00:22:26 Burdened Nurturing Parts00:32:50 Nurturing Too Much00:41:59 What We Can Do to Nurture Yourself00:47:38 Staying Nurturing in Relationships00:50:55 Disclaimer/Outro00:51:34 Credits Episode links:Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood, (1990) <a href="https://amzn.to/47YAmnm" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/47YAmnm</a>Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection by Julie Schwartz Gottman PhD &amp; John Gottman PhD<a href="https://amzn.to/3KYsaMr" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3KYsaMr</a>Other John Gottman books: <a href="https://amzn.to/4q41itT" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/4q41itT</a>Leave us a voicemail at: <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a>Amazon links could generate a small commission to the show, at no additional cost to you. DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

8: Parts of Self Series: Nurturing Part

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In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood — and most powerful — parts of the internal system: the Protector Part.The Protector is the part of us that steps between us and anything that feels threatening… which, as Brittney explains, can mean real threats OR the ones our brain just perceives as dangerous. Sometimes that looks heroic and loving. Sometimes it looks self-sabotaging. And sometimes, when paired with the Critical Part, it can go to some dark places.It’s heavier material, but it’s important material. And as always, we keep it real, grounded, and practical. Content WarningsThis episode includes discussion of:·        Suicide and suicidal ideation·        Domestic violence and abuse·        Power, control, and harmful ideologies·        Real-world violence and systemic oppressionPlease listen gently and skip sections as needed. This episode was recorded on November 17, 2025 and released on December 17, 2025. If you prefer to consume your podcasts visually, we also offer video versions on YouTube @thiswayinpodcast or at our website at <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a> Chapter Markers00:00:15 Welcome00:03:20 Real vs. Perceived Threats00:16:17 When Protector Parts are Challenged 00:31:05 When Protector Interacts with Other Parts00:45:00 Protector Parts and Suicide00:50:08 Medically Assisted Suicide00:53:00 When Protection Mode is Always On00:54:40 What Can We Do?01:01:03 Disclaimer and Outro Episode links:Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood, (1990) <a href="https://amzn.to/47YAmnm" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/47YAmnm</a>Leave us a voicemail at:  <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a> Amazon links could generate a small commission to the show, at no additional cost to you. DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

7: Parts of Self Series: Protector Part

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This week, we’re tackling one of the most powerful—and complicated—parts of self: the Critical Part. You know that inner voice that claims it’s “just being helpful” but somehow leaves you feeling like garbage? Yeah, that one. Brittney breaks down how our critical parts can either build us up or tear us (and everyone around us) down. When unburdened, they help us make solid decisions, set boundaries, and stay true to our values. When burdened, they morph into bullies—judgy, rigid, and obsessed with control.We explore how these parts get shaped early on (hello, critical parents), why they can hijack relationships and even fuel abuse, and how our protectors often tag-team with them in the name of “safety.” The tradeoff? Freedom, joy, and genuine connection. Amy shares personal reflections on how the critical part shows up in everyday life—from podcast goals to family dynamics—and Brittney offers practical ways to spot when this part’s in the driver’s seat. Together, they unpack how to shift from self-sabotage to self-awareness. And yes, Paul Rudd makes another cameo as our unofficial Parts of Self mascot—because who better to remind us that you can be serious and stay playful? And if your inner critic pipes up while you do—just tell it to chill. You’re doing great. This episode was recorded on October 27, 2025 and released on December 3, 2025. Chapter Markers00:00:15 Intro00:01:45 When Criticism Turns Toxic00:05:35 Self-Criticism and Inner Abuse00:10:03 Critical Parents00:10:52 Control, Power, and Relationships 00:25:20 Critical Thinking vs. Judging00:34:27 Freedom vs. Safety00:37:16 Generational Patterns00:42:43 Taming the God Complex00:48:12 Harness Your Power00:59:56 Domestic Violence Joined the Chat01:03:14 Next Time: Protector Part  Episode links:Visit us at: <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a>Leave us a voicemail at: <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a> Amazon links could generate a small commission to the show, at no additional cost to you. DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

6: Parts of Self Series: Critical Part

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In this illuminating episode of our Parts of Self series, Brittney and Amy dive deep into the Responsible Part—what it looks like when it&#39;s balanced and unburdened, and what happens when it hits burnout and critical parts step in like stressed-out understudies.We explore the fascinating (and sometimes maddening) relationship between responsible and kid parts, how social conditioning and gender roles shape emotional labor, and what to do when our inner to-do list manager becomes a joyless tyrant. Amy shares how tech glitches turn her into a one-woman rage spiral, and Brittney offers powerful insights from therapy, life, and the beach (spoiler: pink Speedos are involved).If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, overfunctioning, or over-it—this one&#39;s for you. Chapter Markers00:00:15 Intro00:01:12 Review of Kid Part – Onto Responsible Part 00:03:12 When Critical Comes to the Party00:07:12 That Glorious Responsible Part High 00:08:00 When Responsibility is Kinda Fun00:10:03 Crushed by the ToDo List00:13:01 When You’re Not Allowed to be Authentically You00:19:38 Emotional Labor: What is it Really?00:24:58 Growing up with Kid Parts at the Helm 00:33:01 Wait. Was that Mania?00:38:02 Balance Your Responsible with your Kid00:40:30 Vacations and Paul Rudd00: 44:17 Next Up: Critical Part DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

5: Parts of Self Series: Responsible Part

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In this episode of This Way In, Amy and Brittney explore one of the most central and authentic aspects of self: the Kid Part. Together, they unpack:·        The difference between unburdened Kid Parts (playful, joyful, free) and burdened Kid Parts (shy, anxious, stuck in the past).·        How Kid Parts shape our dreams, desires, and even our adult responsibilities.·        Pop culture examples (yes, Paul Rudd makes an appearance!) that bring the Kid Part to life.·        How unprocessed childhood experiences can linger in our Kid Parts and influence how we react as adults.·        Ways to recognize, acknowledge, and support our Kid Parts without pushing them away. From funny pet stories to reflections on childhood dreams, this episode balances lighthearted laughter with real talk about healing, validation, and making peace with the little kid still inside us all.Tune in to learn how connecting with your Kid Part can bring more authenticity, play, and compassion into your life. Chapter Markers00:00:14 Welcome00:01:07 What are Kid Parts?00:09:46 Unburdened Kid Parts00:11:42 Burdened Kid Parts00:21:04 Importance of Knowing our Parts00:24:12 Parental Expectations00:27:36 How to Recognize and Help Our Burdened Kid Parts00:32:57 Next Time: When Kid Parts Interact with Other Parts00:35:09 Sign Off This episode was recorded on September 15, 2025 released on November 5, 2025. Episode links:Visit us at: <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a>Leave us a voicemail at: <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a> DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

4: Parts of Self Series: Kid Part

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3: Parts of Self Series: Overview Welcome to the first installment of our Parts Series, where we explore the Ego State Model of Parts of Self. In this foundational episode, Brittney breaks down the six primary parts and how they show up in our everyday lives—and in therapy. Amy asks insightful questions along the way (as always), and the two discuss real-world examples, from doom-scrolling to happy hour, and even how protector parts can take over in moments of fear or trauma.Whether you&#39;re brand new to parts work or already on your unburdening journey, this episode lays the groundwork for deeper self-understanding—and for the rest of the series. Chapter Markers00:00:00 Intro00:01:14 Parts of Self- In a Nutshell 00:40:24 History of Ego State00:50:40 How Brittney Got Here 00:57: 41 Cautionary Message01:02:45 Help of Crystals01:05:55 Society’s Impact on Therapy01:07:40 Next Time – Kid Part01:08:20 Outro A Word of Caution:Parts work can bring up forgotten memories or painful emotions. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong—it means you&#39;re human. If it feels overwhelming, take a break. Consider working with a trained ego state or IFS therapist to go deeper safely. Next Time on This Way In:We’ll be diving into the Kid Part—the source of joy, curiosity, and sometimes… chaos. Don’t miss it! Episode Links:Books for Laypeople:The Shadow Work Journal: A Guide to Integrate and Transcend Your Shadows by Keila Shaheen: <a href="https://amzn.to/48jhS2x" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/48jhS2x</a>You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For by Richard Schwartz: <a href="https://amzn.to/4gy3NAE" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/4gy3NAE</a> Easy Ego State Interventions by Robin Shapiro (accessible and clinician-friendly) <a href="https://amzn.to/3IaKkcx" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3IaKkcx</a>  Therapist-Oriented Books (for deeper reading):EMDR Toolbox by Jim Knipe <a href="https://amzn.to/42H3AVP" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/42H3AVP</a> Works by Sandra Paulsen on preverbal traumaThe Dynamic Needs Meeting Strategy (DNMS) by Shirley Jean Schmidt MA LPC <a href="https://amzn.to/4mugMV3" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/4mugMV3</a>Looking Through the Eyes of Trauma and Dissociation: An illustrated guide for EMDR therapists and clients by Sandra Paulsen, Ph.D. <a href="https://amzn.to/48bbCKv" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/48bbCKv</a>  Visit us at:  <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a> Leave us a voicemail at:  <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a>  DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio This episode was recorded on August 18, 2025 released on October 22, 2025. Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

3: Parts of Self Series: Overview

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In this episode, Amy and Brittney explore the powerful and misunderstood world of emotions. Brittney breaks down what emotions really are (hint: they’re just signals!), why we feel them, and how they relate to the stress response system. Together, they dive into the brain–body connection and how emotional responses can be triggered by both real and perceived threats. You’ll learn:·        Why emotions aren’t “good” or “bad”—they’re information·        How the autonomic nervous system drives emotional response·        What the fight, flight, freeze, and shutdown reactions feel like in everyday life·        How to actually calm your nervous system (hint: it starts with the exhale)·        The role of mindfulness and meditation in emotional regulation·        How trauma shapes our emotional lens (hello, shit-colored glasses) Amy also shares a personal story about how meditation unexpectedly helped release years of physical tension, proving that our emotional and physical health are more intertwined than we often realize. Plus: Get a sneak peek at the upcoming series on Parts of Self, which begins in the next episode. Takeaway:Emotions are messengers. They’re not out to get you—they’re trying to guide you. When we learn to listen without judgment, we open up space for healing and clarity. This episode was recorded on August 20, 2025 released on October 8, 2025 Chapter Markers00:00:00 Welcome/Intro00:01:34 Emotions, what are they good for?00:05:07 Do Our Brains Lie?00:08:16 Meditation/Mindfulness00:12:11 Perceived Threats00:13:04 Branches of the Stress Response00:17:20 Recognizing Trauma Responses in Others00:18:43 Emotions are Signals00:19:53 Next week00:21:27 Disclaimer/Outro Episode links:Visit us at: <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a>Leave us a voicemail at: <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a> DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

2: It’s Just Emotions!

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Welcome to the very first episode of This Way In!In this kickoff conversation, co-hosts Brittney Baxter Dameron (a licensed mental health therapist) and Amy Lotsberg (curious podcaster, everyday human, and your resident “lay person translator”) share how this show came to life and what you can expect as we move forward. We talk about:·        How a ghost-themed podcast sparked a whole new collaboration.·        Brittney’s background in trauma therapy, EMDR, and ego state/parts work.·        Why Amy wanted to bring a “regular person perspective” to big, complex mental health concepts.·        The unique woo-friendly approach we’ll take to exploring mental health, intuition, and everyday wellbeing.·        Future plans: deep dives into “parts of self,” TV and movie breakdowns (Shrinking, anyone?), listener Q&amp;As, and guest conversations.·        Why sometimes the best ideas hit at 4 a.m. or while playing video games. This episode is lighthearted, a little rambling (in the best way), and sets the stage for a podcast that mixes practical psychology with curiosity, humor, and real talk. Resources MentionedUS Crisis Line: Call or text 988 for 24/7 free support.UK Crisis Line: Call 116 123 or text SHOUT to 85258. Subscribe now so you don’t miss our upcoming episodes—we’ll be releasing every two weeks. And if you have questions you’d love us to explore, send them our way. Chapter Markers 00:16 – Disclaimer &amp; Crisis Resources01:08 – Meet Amy &amp; Brittney03:10 – What Is Parts Work?05:39 – Inspiration &amp; Creativity09:00 – Real Talk: ADHD, Autism &amp; Half-Burgers12:15 – From Freud to Looney Tunes14:18 – What Makes This Show Different17:18 – What’s Ahead21:11 – Closing &amp; Resources Episode links:Visit us at: <a href="https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.thiswayinpodcast.com</a>Leave us a voicemail at: <a href="https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/" rel="nofollow">https://www.podpage.com/this-way-in/voicemail/</a> DisclaimerThis Way In is a conversation about mental health and wellbeing, not a replacement for therapy. Listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Please never delay, disregard, or change professional recommendations because of something you hear here. Credits:Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy LotsbergProduction, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio Thank you for listening, take care of yourselves. We’ll see you next time!

1: Meet Your Hosts

It's your journey, we're just the guides.

*This Way In* is a therapist-guided, layperson-led journey into mental health, healing, and self-discovery. Brittney (the therapist) and Amy (the curious one) explore trauma, emotions, and the parts that make us who we are—with compassion and clarity.