SHOW / EPISODE

552 - Why Would A PhD Professor Risk Her Career For A Man Serving 60 Years In Prison? - Thao Ha

1h 3m | Oct 21, 2026

What does it mean to experience love across 20 years of incarceration, social change, and personal evolution?


In this returning episode of The Vietnamese Podcast, host Kenneth Nguyen sits down with Dr. Thao Ha to discuss the release of her debut memoir, Love Letters to the Dirty South. Thao shares the real-life story behind her first love, Vu, a charismatic young man from Houston's 1990s street scene who was sentenced to 60 years in prison, and how their bond transformed over two decades.


Dr. Ha explores the intersecting layers of love, anger, and grief—reflecting on her personal journey from gang culture to becoming a sociology professor and anti-deportation advocate. Together, Kenneth and Thao dive into deep conversations about family trauma, selective vs. general empathy within the Vietnamese refugee community, political polarization, and her upcoming writing projects.


Inside the Episode:

(00:33) – Love Letters to the Dirty South: Book launch, sold-out release, and community support.


(01:45) – The Origin Story: Falling in love with Vu in 1990s Houston and his 60-year prison sentence.


(04:06) – Understanding the Long Arc of Love: Adaptation, refugee survival, and changing perspectives over time.


(11:09) – Empathy, Dignity, and Advocacy: Drawing parallels between personal love and anti-deportation work.


(18:13) – Navigating Political Polarization: Generational divides, immigration, and family dynamics in the Vietnamese diaspora.


(30:38) – Unspoken Family Histories: Intergenerational trauma, childhood memories, and unspoken parental sacrifices.


(39:31) – The Messiness of Relationships: Managing love, incarceration, and the reality of the "Sancho."


(54:06) – Teasing the Next Project: Dr. Ha’s father, Texas conservative politics, and an unexpected historical connection.


Connect & Follow:

Guest: Dr. Thao Ha (@thaohaphd)


Book: Love Letters to the Dirty South (Available online and at local booksellers)


The Vietnamese Podcast: Instagram / TikTok @thevietnamesepodcast


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Many of you still have the chance to record and preserve the legacies of your own families. I’ve sat with families now for interview sessions to record the rich histories of parents and explore the lives of the generations that preceded them. Don’t let your family stories go untold! Take a moment to reach out and together we will bring out your family’s story on a recorded journey. - Kenneth Nguyen


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