When God Says No... Its no.

You can't pray it to be what it wasn't meant to.

People won't stay in your path if they aren't meant for you.

Jobs won't be kept if your time is up.

Gods plan is the only plan for you that there is.

Stubbornness can get in the way...

Thinking you control the outcome can cost you time and money.

On this podcast, I keep it 1000… people need to be better.

I speak the real on here. It ain’t about picking sides.

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You gotta produce to stay a float. Point blank period.

Short term emergency funds & Long term emergency funds matter.

Retirement sounds good but will it ever be enough.

Check in with your goals

Where will you live?

What will you buy?

Will you own? Can you handle the fluctuation in premiums and inflation?

How will you make money without physically using your body?

I speak the real on here. It ain’t about picking sides.

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When things don't make sense.

The things that confuse me.

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We need to have a lot of them so we can get people to be accountable and self aware. Too much unsaid becomes someone else's problem.

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Pay attention

Observe, as a Gemini its one of my favorite things to do.

Learn to apologize.

Learn to see consideration from the other point of view.

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Being a woman is so annoying and exciting mixed with a little well what did I do to deserve this?

In today's bonus... 27 things that come to mind as a woman that I constantly deal with or think about.

I never selected to be a woman in the womb... I was chosen.

Get into it.

#suicideawarenessmonth

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Your kids don't read because you don't read. Your parents stop reading because they're so consumed by what they see. They're trying to make sure they're current with the rest of their relatives that they're forgetting that they also still need to read.

If your health is not that great you're gonna prioritize other things not thinking reading can help it. But reading can do so many great things for your health.

If your babies don't see that you're reading and you don't read to your babies, your child's academics may suffer because no one's reading to your child. If you have children, you should have books in your home. And if you do not have a dictionary of thesaurus or books that educate your children outside of school, then yes, at a certain level of your child's education will suffer.

Having a computer and having access to the Internet is not the only answer and should not be the only way you get answers.

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People today too scared to care,

love,

show up,

feel something real, that requires a change they are capable of,

be better,

try,

too scared to be selfless and okay with giving the love they gave,

too scared to be in a position to be chosen...

I really wanna skip the beginning part of whatever love story is worth my time and get to me and that man in our 60s in our 70s because thinking of the now is so exhausting because it's too much anticipation as to who is it?!?

How many more no's in more people before I get there, type shit.

And with the people today and how they make decisions today is so yuck.

The way people throw away people who are good for them because they're scared of growing is so yuck.

Let's talk about the people today. Welcome to SHE gets it Pod.

Happy Birthday to My Mommy... Love her sooooo much !!!

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Feel good music, I got you.

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How many consecutive hangings of black people do we have to hear about before its declared a race war?

How many Black people do we know of that been found hanging from structures this year?

The word "lynch law" originated in Virginia during the 1770s.

The Lynching

Claude McKay

1889 – 1948

His spirit is smoke ascended to high heaven.

His father, by the cruelest way of pain,

Had bidden him to his bosom once again;

The awful sin remained still unforgiven.

All night a bright and solitary star

(Perchance the one that ever guided him,

Yet gave him up at last to Fate’s wild whim)

Hung pitifully o’er the swinging char.

Day dawned, and soon the mixed crowds came to view

The ghastly body swaying in the sun:

The women thronged to look, but never a one

Showed sorrow in her eyes of steely blue;

And little lads, lynchers that were to be,

Danced round the dreadful thing in fiendish glee.

From The Book of American Negro Poetry (Harcourt, Brace and Company, 1922) edited by James Weldon Johnson. 

The word "lynch law" originated in Virginia during the 1770s.

Post-Reconstruction (1877–1950s): After the emancipation of enslaved African Americans, lynching transformed into a systematic tool of racial terror & social control to re-establish white supremacy.

“We cannot heal the deep wounds inflicted during the era of racial terrorism until we tell the truth about it,” said EJI Director Bryan Stevenson. 

"We do not have a history of killing white people, white people have a history of killing us." —Louis Farrakhan 

“So, if the federal government will not intercede in our affairs, then we must rise up and kill those who kill us. Stalk them and kill them and let them feel the pain of death that we are feeling!”…

"We died to build America." -Minister Louis Farrakhan

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Everyday is a wow for me... "She's still here."

No mother is exactly the same.

All mothers have a unique experience too.

But you here.

Appreciate them.

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I had my run of try's and I'm good.

You either 45 min or less away... for me to take it seriously at this point in my life.

Planning to see your person is exhausting, moods change, it works for one but not the other... the worst thing is to experience unmatched effort...

The needs have changed.

The time spent is higher.

Realistically you can't get an idea of how you show up in a persons life for real, constantly being at a distance.

Let me explain.

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If it doesn't feel right, if the mat is not adding up.

And if the appreciation is not there, neither am I.

Sometimes lesson is less is more.

Less is the answer.

I'm back.

Thanks for listening

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When ya homie drops a good question in the group chat.

You bring it here.

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Part 2... Yeah there is way more to say.

I Can Talk About This All Day podcast

It’s finally time for me to have my own show. So here I am. This is just a quick hello before I really get started. Come join the ride!

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Part 1

The way that they are not taking care of themselves and looking for someone else to fix their life is giving I'm trying to be with my therapist... The way they want to marry so they have someone to do that home sh$! is giving looking for a good widow in the next 10 to 15 but what do they really want?

Its a SGI Collab !!!

I Can Talk About This All Day podcast

It’s finally time for me to have my own show. So here I am. This is just a quick hello before I really get started. Come join the ride!

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Round 3

The Loss Art Of Empathy

When did we get so selfish and less empathetic?

When time was replaced with the need for money. We prioritized money over humanity.

When did you become less understanding:

 what was life like when people were compassionate?

• How did people show up for each other ?
• What did support allow others to do?

— what can we do now?

And why did we not push back? 00

The Loss Art Of Empathy

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Podwarz Bonus

Thank you to my Pod Family, BTG For President.... Baylor...

Round 2

I wanted to talk about conflict languages, and how people who think they want to be in a relationship struggle understanding each other and coming up with solutions because the way that they handle conflict or disagreements do not mix well together.

If you do not understand how a person wants to be spoken to or care for or dealt with when there is tension, frustration, anger, or just unsureness, you could ruin that bond.

Conflict Languages:

1. Rushed Fixer
2. The Depleter
3. The Aggressor
4. A Shut Downer

If it's work-outable, watch your tone, your words and actions. If you don't value the person or respect them... Do what you want I guess.

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We always get to hear Child Support talk from a moms POV, or a bitter Baby Moms POV... Lets switch it up...

If I was a Father what would I think?

How would I feel?

Do I know what's on my child's mother's plate?

To the fathers who do want to be involved, why do we get the most push back?

This is POD WARZ... SHE GETS IT Edition

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Philly is a real place and the most raw people come out of it.

Im sharing my city TOP 5 !!!! Mine.

The president summoned me... I do as I'm told sometimes.

New szn starts Mid August... its just a bonus.

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