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Your Attachment Style Is Affecting Your Relationship With God

Episode 50
28m | Sep 24, 2026

You know God loves you… but you don't always FEEL it? You're not faithless your attachment style may be blocking you from receiving His love.

In this video we explore the 4 attachment styles — secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful/disorganized, how they shape your relationships AND your walk with God. Learn why spiritual silence feels like abandonment, why healthy love feels boring, and 5 biblical + psychology-based practices to build secure love with God.


Grounded in 1 John 4:18: There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear.

📌 In this video:

00:00 - You Can Love God and Still Fear Abandonment

01:20 - How Childhood Shapes How You Love

03:15 - The 4 Attachment Styles Explained

03:50 - Secure Attachment: Love Without Losing Yourself

05:20 - Anxious Attachment and Your Relationship With God

07:20 - Avoidant Attachment and Your Relationship With God

09:50 - Fearful Attachment: Wanting God Close But Fearing Him

13:30 - Why Healthy Love Feels Boring at First

14:30 - God as Your Safe Haven and Secure Base

19:50 - Healing Is Relational

22:00 - 5 Biblical Practices to Build Secure Love

26:50 - You Don't Have to Earn Love + Your Next Step


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SCRIPTURES IN THIS VIDEO:

1 John 4:18, Romans 8:1, Romans 8:15, Romans 8:38-39, Hebrews 13:5, John 15:9


I post weekly videos every Thursday at 6 p.m. EST to help you break free from anxiety, fear, and shame with tools rooted in scripture and psychology.


👇 Which style do you relate to most — anxious, avoidant, fearful, or secure? Tell me in the comments. I read every one.

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📌 Disclaimer

This content is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment, diagnosis, or counseling. Please seek support from a licensed mental health provider, physician, or qualified healthcare professional for guidance specific to your situation. If you are in crisis or considering self-harm, please contact your local emergency services or call/text 988 in the U.S.

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