The Crystal Paine Show is dedicated to helping you embrace life right where you are and take practical steps to get where you want to go. Crystal says, &#34;My hope is that this podcast will serve as an inspiration to your week, a pause in your day to slow down and reflect a little, a looked-forward-to part of your weekly routine, a place where we can connect on a deeper level… and ultimately, my desire is that you come away from listening to each episode feeling motivated to bloom where you are planted and take intentional steps to move in the direction you are longing to go.&#34; Crystal is a wife, mom of 6, foster/adoptive mom, speaker, New York Times bestselling author, and online entrepreneur, best known for founding MoneySavingMom.com.

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Do you ever feel like you&#39;re just barely keeping your head above water? If so, this episode of The Crystal Paine Show is for you! Jesse and I have been married for 21 years and we&#39;ve learned and grown a lot in those years -- and tried a lot of different things that worked and many things that didn&#39;t.In this conversation, we share some of our simple systems that keep us sane and help us to have breathing room in our days to enjoy our life and invest in what matters most.First up, we talk about how we each have our own jurisdictions in managing our house and business and what that looks like. We also share what we expect of our kids and how us all working together really frees up a lot of physical and emotional energy for us as parents.Then, we move onto detailing changes we&#39;ve made this year to simplify and how it has made such a difference: like reserving one day a week for meetings and interviews, carefully considering commitments and what that looks like for us right now, and how we have our work schedule set up so we both get time to work in.We end with sharing a number of different strategies we employ to eliminate decision fatigue and to streamline our lives: things like groceries, dishes, laundry, daily routines, avoiding paper piles, and more! I also give you a little peek into my home life growing up and talk about how my mom&#39;s organized systems influenced me.If you&#39;re ready to ditch the overwhelm and reclaim your peace of mind, I hope our ideas serve as a springboard for solutions that might work for you, and don&#39;t forget to snag your free <a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/something-special-for-you-and-its-free/" rel="nofollow">Simplified Home Checklists</a>!<h2>In This Episode</h2>[0:35] - Today&#39;s episode dives into practical strategies for maintaining sanity and enjoying life even if there&#39;s a lot going on.[1:52] - Delegation and instilling teamwork and work ethic in our kids.[4:35] - Gradual release of responsibility leads to independence as kids develop their own systems over time.[8:20] - Everyone is an asset to our home and we all work together.[11:05] - What simplifying has looked like for our home and schedule this year and one change that has made a big difference.[15:58] - Our current schedule for work-life balance with both of us working from home.[18:39] - How my mom&#39;s organized systems have influenced me.[20:46] - Scheduling grocery deliveries and using cost-saving programs like <a href="https://www.kroger.com/pr/boost" rel="nofollow">Kroger Boost</a>.[22:59] - Daily routines, paper piles, and how we prep for our day the night before.[27:52] - Check out the free <a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/something-special-for-you-and-its-free/" rel="nofollow">Simplified Home Checklists</a>!<h3>Links &amp; Resources</h3><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li>208. <a href="https://crystalpaine.com/208-slacker-parenting-aka-how-to-spend-less-time-micromanaging-and-more-time-enjoying-your-kids/" rel="nofollow">Slacker Parenting (AKA How to spend less time micromanaging and more time enjoying your kids)</a></li><li>232. <a href="https://crystalpaine.com/232-2/" rel="nofollow">Why We Require Our Teens to Get a Job at 15</a></li><li><a href="https://www.kroger.com/pr/boost" rel="nofollow">Kroger Boost</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/something-special-for-you-and-its-free/" rel="nofollow">Simplified Home Checklists</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/MoneySavingMom?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li>crystal@moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

257. Simple Systems That Keep Us Sane

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This episode is a reminder to trust your God-given intuition. If you feel something is wrong or off, get it checked out.In this podcast, we share the story of Micah getting really sick recently and how it ended up landing him in the hospital. We got so many questions from you all about his illness and how we knew when it was time to take him to the hospital/what we experienced, that I thought recording a podcast episode sharing in-depth might be helpful.We&#39;re so grateful that Micah is doing better now and fully back to his sweet, busy, silly self! We missed all his smiles and laughter and singing while he was sick!In this episode, we also give an update on what we&#39;re reading, share a reader&#39;s response to last week&#39;s episode, and we have a fun and friendly &#34;argument&#34; over audiobooks.In This Episode[0:35] - This week, we&#39;re sharing about Micah&#39;s recent sickness and hospital stay.[1:27] - Jesse is still reading <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Three-Felonies-Day-Target-Innocent/dp/1594035229/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=three+felonies+a+day+how+the+feds+target+the+innocent&qid=1691923607&s=books&sprefix=three+felon%2Cstripbooks%2C105&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Three Felonies A Day by Harvey Silvergate and Alan M. Dershowitz</a> because it’s a dense read.[2:01] - I&#39;ve been reading <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Want-God-Whole-Heart-Revive/dp/B0CB1SY38M/ref=tmm_aud_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.j1gpTQjnCBgl2-81o0G7QW0B5HqCW6IgNMfHOTdvkhF-QfFcdXxHTDwdIpcMfaUAKaIKGKLMZBuExcmowshNTyhX9_S_pm0kotYVjy6aCLhwff8LPMsPxKgN9PfaHmUm8EqIRZbroMhRn4oKlx3FbiUUKpVObUwJjC21UYMQq6GRVamwLBLdhD7bwOHiaMPQa0ZpjPIrb6U2trK0F3WDzSXrPIvf4_R4aN3Q3vfdybg.taWe39xcIplAOcOM0UGydc1JvZKyPLzO-wQq0yoQft4&dib_tag=se&qid=1713216493&sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">I Want God by Lisa Whittle</a>.[4:10] - I share a message from a listener about commentary in last episode about <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Farmer-Boy-Laura-Ingalls-Wilder-audiobook/dp/B01N35SDFZ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1X9BYQDJ2AWR8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.jpkEhezDxK1fTBzuKOqMuHq8Bxrhx9yXbZrgbhscCpNatALsuYw87N70UhFH9qYhmqWQUXg1c7iZyzC4h0wy-YMahGUQsnze8-KBOgTzk2_iENBC0_uLWmyrQT0uv5phkqn5hsCxqHJdFshzJcSRhigUJTg4jgnJed9y7ple7-uxHIbfrgCRmuSRFVljoQNOPttV0XuNDylIZWy-0UCx2k_--08T7PrgCABtdIdeXvs.WvUBaW2QCYhzVXZryFB7RPhLnCWmCjese6vhgxQy6ZA&dib_tag=se&keywords=little+house+farmer+boy&qid=1712379110&s=books&sprefix=little+house+farmer+boy%2Cstripbooks%2C101&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Farmer Boy</a>.[6:07] - Jesse and I have a friendly discussion about whether audiobooks count as &#34;reading&#34; and he shares about the John Grisham audiobooks he&#39;s listened to recently, including <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0787CY9C2?binding=mass_market&qid=1713216879&ref_=dbs_s_bs_series_rwt_tmmp&searchxofy=true&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Jake Brigance trilogy</a>.[8:45] - I had a very full weekend planned, including my last girls-only youth group camp and attending my friend&#39;s wedding, but that all changed when Micah got sick.[12:04] - We knew we needed to do something and ended up calling and asking about getting Zofran.[14:01] - Micah&#39;s symptoms persisted, prompting a pediatrician visit.[18:39] - We ended up in the ER and it took many attempts plus two rounds of sedatives to finally get the IV in.[24:31] - After hours of IV fluids in the ER, they ended up deciding to admit Micah as his labs didn&#39;t look good.[29:23] - I touch upon some of the lessons that were learned from this experience.Links &amp; Resources<a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a>Books<ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Three-Felonies-Day-Target-Innocent/dp/1594035229/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=three+felonies+a+day+how+the+feds+target+the+innocent&qid=1691923607&s=books&sprefix=three+felon%2Cstripbooks%2C105&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Three Felonies A Day: How the Feds Target the Innocent by Harvey Silvergate and Alan M. Dershowitz</a></li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Want-God-Whole-Heart-Revive/dp/B0CB1SY38M/ref=tmm_aud_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.j1gpTQjnCBgl2-81o0G7QW0B5HqCW6IgNMfHOTdvkhF-QfFcdXxHTDwdIpcMfaUAKaIKGKLMZBuExcmowshNTyhX9_S_pm0kotYVjy6aCLhwff8LPMsPxKgN9PfaHmUm8EqIRZbroMhRn4oKlx3FbiUUKpVObUwJjC21UYMQq6GRVamwLBLdhD7bwOHiaMPQa0ZpjPIrb6U2trK0F3WDzSXrPIvf4_R4aN3Q3vfdybg.taWe39xcIplAOcOM0UGydc1JvZKyPLzO-wQq0yoQft4&dib_tag=se&qid=1713216493&sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">I Want God: How to Love Him with Your Whole Heart and Revive Your Soul by Lisa Whittle</a></li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Farmer-Boy-Laura-Ingalls-Wilder-audiobook/dp/B01N35SDFZ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1X9BYQDJ2AWR8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.jpkEhezDxK1fTBzuKOqMuHq8Bxrhx9yXbZrgbhscCpNatALsuYw87N70UhFH9qYhmqWQUXg1c7iZyzC4h0wy-YMahGUQsnze8-KBOgTzk2_iENBC0_uLWmyrQT0uv5phkqn5hsCxqHJdFshzJcSRhigUJTg4jgnJed9y7ple7-uxHIbfrgCRmuSRFVljoQNOPttV0XuNDylIZWy-0UCx2k_--08T7PrgCABtdIdeXvs.WvUBaW2QCYhzVXZryFB7RPhLnCWmCjese6vhgxQy6ZA&dib_tag=se&keywords=little+house+farmer+boy&qid=1712379110&s=books&sprefix=little+house+farmer+boy%2Cstripbooks%2C101&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Farmer Boy: Little House, Book 2 by Laura Ingalls Wilder</a></li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0787CY9C2?binding=mass_market&qid=1713216879&ref_=dbs_s_bs_series_rwt_tmmp&searchxofy=true&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Jake Brigance Trilogy by John Grisham</a></li></ul>Social Media<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li>crystal@moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

256. Micah's Unexpected Hospital Stay

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Join Jesse and I this week as we sit down together for a personal episode where we tackle some burning questions submitted by followers on Instagram and share some life updates. (Including a story about a recent travel mishap where we ended up locked out of our own house at 2 a.m.!!)We kick things off by discussing our recent trip to Kansas for Easter -- our first time to fly with all three younger kids in over a year. We went to a goat farm, connected with friends we hadn&#39;t seen in a long time, and got to spend a lot of wonderful time with family. We also talk about a book I&#39;m reading aloud to the kids, a tea I&#39;m loving, and a freebie we launched recently.And then we dive into your questions on marriage. We reflect on our marriage journey, sharing advice and revelations from over two decades together. We talk about daily flirting, how our lives have taken very different paths than we ever envisioned, how we&#39;ve grown and learned to work together, whether Jesse has always been a nerd, who makes the meals, and much more. If you enjoy a peek behind-the-scenes of our life, you don&#39;t want to miss this fun episode!Also, don’t forget to check out my newly launched <a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/organized-home-1/" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks to a More Organized Home resource! (And use code PODCAST to save!!)</a><h2>In This Episode</h2>[0:35] - Jesse and I are excited for a lighthearted episode answering Instagram followers&#39; marriage-related questions![1:55] - All the details on our recent trip to Kansas, including how our three younger kids did on the trip.[5:40] - How we ended up locked out of the house at 2 a.m.![8:09] - A listener responding to our <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Delicious-Flavored-Beverage-Aromatic-Caffeine/dp/B071WJFY2P/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=3V6GPIQLVS4ER&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.-AQpWcGgjf9xhe_2PRzu_beCIiO2R_K82A_j_SrhBLCTJ0PjflSIrmS8zXQzW3v79LYZ4UA8f6aqlAyyz8pUz7knR8vJvWVks2ZwDo69Ro6lETsuhtUnGtksla-_1OarjsrEu6PE4YldqHyy1xCfVy_SgisRXI5g30He4YKjEvl4fS6gpO9OZUb5XUTU2n67h6yFaeciv1bEWAhddP2spwWi4EU6eLO5K8g8fufzzlLkPlgWZSlUbJQtajxxP6yjoVARXc4QHmUy8eTqd6ALwRk6Rt7eVV12BaGTYIh8PBc.nimYys1Hrvfv3tTErpLYLc5u0G2hIAQKDrGqReL2WBY&dib_tag=se&keywords=tazo+lemon+loaf+tea&psc=1&qid=1712379302&rdc=1&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGY&sprefix=tazo+lemon+loaf+tea%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1-spons" rel="nofollow">1900s episode</a> shared about having a car phone in the 1990s for safety concerns.[9:29] - I have been enjoying <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Delicious-Flavored-Beverage-Aromatic-Caffeine/dp/B071WJFY2P/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=3V6GPIQLVS4ER&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.-AQpWcGgjf9xhe_2PRzu_beCIiO2R_K82A_j_SrhBLCTJ0PjflSIrmS8zXQzW3v79LYZ4UA8f6aqlAyyz8pUz7knR8vJvWVks2ZwDo69Ro6lETsuhtUnGtksla-_1OarjsrEu6PE4YldqHyy1xCfVy_SgisRXI5g30He4YKjEvl4fS6gpO9OZUb5XUTU2n67h6yFaeciv1bEWAhddP2spwWi4EU6eLO5K8g8fufzzlLkPlgWZSlUbJQtajxxP6yjoVARXc4QHmUy8eTqd6ALwRk6Rt7eVV12BaGTYIh8PBc.nimYys1Hrvfv3tTErpLYLc5u0G2hIAQKDrGqReL2WBY&dib_tag=se&keywords=tazo+lemon+loaf+tea&psc=1&qid=1712379302&rdc=1&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGY&sprefix=tazo+lemon+loaf+tea%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1-spons" rel="nofollow">Lemon Loaf Tea from TAZO</a>, despite not typically liking lemon tea.[10:26] - The little kids are loving <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Farmer-Boy-Laura-Ingalls-Wilder-audiobook/dp/B01N35SDFZ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1X9BYQDJ2AWR8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.jpkEhezDxK1fTBzuKOqMuHq8Bxrhx9yXbZrgbhscCpNatALsuYw87N70UhFH9qYhmqWQUXg1c7iZyzC4h0wy-YMahGUQsnze8-KBOgTzk2_iENBC0_uLWmyrQT0uv5phkqn5hsCxqHJdFshzJcSRhigUJTg4jgnJed9y7ple7-uxHIbfrgCRmuSRFVljoQNOPttV0XuNDylIZWy-0UCx2k_--08T7PrgCABtdIdeXvs.WvUBaW2QCYhzVXZryFB7RPhLnCWmCjese6vhgxQy6ZA&dib_tag=se&keywords=little+house+farmer+boy&qid=1712379110&s=books&sprefix=little+house+farmer+boy%2Cstripbooks%2C101&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Farmer Boy</a> a book from the <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07FK5BWFG?binding=audio_download&qid=1712379110&ref=dbs_dp_rwt_sb_pc_taud&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Little House series</a>.[13:25] - Before we dive into the questions, check out our free <a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/something-special-for-you-and-its-free/" rel="nofollow">Simplified Home Checklists</a> on our website![15:13] - Jesse and I have been married for twenty-two years in January.[15:54] - Flirt daily; it&#39;s amazing how something so simple keeps the connection strong.[17:33] - The hardest (but most important words!) to say in a marriage.[23:55] - Who does the cooking at our house?[24:52] - How nerdy was Jesse when we met?[27:07] - How did we know how big we wanted our family to be?[29:49] - In 21 years, we&#39;ve cultivated an intuitive bond, anticipating each other&#39;s needs and openly addressing frustrations to improve our communication[32:11] - Approach situations from a place of love, not opposition, with each other&#39;s best interests at heart.[32:56] - When overwhelmed, I confide in Jesse, who offers support or a listening ear; gratitude and encouragement nurture our bond.Links &amp; Resources<ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li>250.<a href="https://crystalpaine.com/250-1900s/" rel="nofollow">What it was like living in the 1900’s :)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Delicious-Flavored-Beverage-Aromatic-Caffeine/dp/B071WJFY2P/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=3V6GPIQLVS4ER&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.-AQpWcGgjf9xhe_2PRzu_beCIiO2R_K82A_j_SrhBLCTJ0PjflSIrmS8zXQzW3v79LYZ4UA8f6aqlAyyz8pUz7knR8vJvWVks2ZwDo69Ro6lETsuhtUnGtksla-_1OarjsrEu6PE4YldqHyy1xCfVy_SgisRXI5g30He4YKjEvl4fS6gpO9OZUb5XUTU2n67h6yFaeciv1bEWAhddP2spwWi4EU6eLO5K8g8fufzzlLkPlgWZSlUbJQtajxxP6yjoVARXc4QHmUy8eTqd6ALwRk6Rt7eVV12BaGTYIh8PBc.nimYys1Hrvfv3tTErpLYLc5u0G2hIAQKDrGqReL2WBY&dib_tag=se&keywords=tazo+lemon+loaf+tea&psc=1&qid=1712379302&rdc=1&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGY&sprefix=tazo+lemon+loaf+tea%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1-spons" rel="nofollow">TAZO Glazed Lemon Loaf Herbal Tea Bags for Health and Wellness</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/something-special-for-you-and-its-free/" rel="nofollow">Simplified Home Checklists</a></li></ul>Books<ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Farmer-Boy-Laura-Ingalls-Wilder-audiobook/dp/B01N35SDFZ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1X9BYQDJ2AWR8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.jpkEhezDxK1fTBzuKOqMuHq8Bxrhx9yXbZrgbhscCpNatALsuYw87N70UhFH9qYhmqWQUXg1c7iZyzC4h0wy-YMahGUQsnze8-KBOgTzk2_iENBC0_uLWmyrQT0uv5phkqn5hsCxqHJdFshzJcSRhigUJTg4jgnJed9y7ple7-uxHIbfrgCRmuSRFVljoQNOPttV0XuNDylIZWy-0UCx2k_--08T7PrgCABtdIdeXvs.WvUBaW2QCYhzVXZryFB7RPhLnCWmCjese6vhgxQy6ZA&dib_tag=se&keywords=little+house+farmer+boy&qid=1712379110&s=books&sprefix=little+house+farmer+boy%2Cstripbooks%2C101&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Farmer Boy: Little House, Book 2 by Laura Ingalls Wilder</a></li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07FK5BWFG?binding=audio_download&qid=1712379110&ref=dbs_dp_rwt_sb_pc_taud&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Little House on the Prairie (book series) by Laura Ingalls Wilder</a></li></ul>Social Media<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li>crystal@moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

255. Answering your burning questions on marriage

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This week&#39;s podcast guest is Kaitlynn (my 16-year-old!) who is here to discuss the details of her unforgettable trip to Singapore and Indonesia! Join us as Kaitlynn shares exclusive insights into her trip, talks about why she chose to go on this trip, and all the highlights (and a few lowlights) of the experience. The trip started out rocky with a delayed flight that caused their group to miss their a 17.5-hour flight to Singapore and end up stranded in San Francisco at 2 am in the morning! Kaitlynn recounts some of the things she felt and learned and some unexpected fun in the midst -- including impromptu volleyball games in airport terminals! She also shares how the unexpected adventures brought more camaraderie.In Indonesia, they spent time in a remote fishing village helping build a retaining wall, in addition to a Survivor Challenge and a hike in the jungle. In Singapore, they got to enjoy the bustling city life and vibrant culture while exploring the city. Some of her favorites from her time there were the rooftop restaurant and iconic landmarks like Marina Bay Sands and the electronic Supertrees.We close out the episode with Kaitlynn reflecting on the lessons learned and the lasting friendships forged. <h2>In This Episode</h2>[0:35] - Kaitlynn joins us talk about her trips to Indonesia and Singapore![2:49] - Tight layovers, flight delays, and being unexpectedly stuck in San Fransisco.[8:48] - Indonesia and Singapore were stark contracts to each other.[10:26] - What their accommodations were like, helping at the village, and the intense heat and humidity.[18:25] - An exciting jungle hike, including a waterfall, an ankle sprain, monkeys, and heat exhaustion.[20:52] - Singapore was a whole different, modern world.[26:56] - Chinatown and Starbucks where she had an excellent chai.[29:42] - Kaitlynn reflects on the trip and highlights stark financial contrasts between Singapore and remote villages[33:27] - Despite challenges, Kaitlynn embraced Philippians&#39; message: refrain from complaining and foster faith and gratitude.[35:55] - I am excited to announce <a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/organized-home-1/" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks to a More Organized Home</a>, a step-by-step guide to help you clear out the clutter and get more organization in your home and lives! Use the code PODCAST for a special deal!<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/organized-home-1/" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks to a More Organized Home</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li>crystal@moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

254. Kaitlynn's trip to Singapore and Indonesia

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There were tears and there was laughter on this episode of the podcast, because we talked about the vulnerable (and sometimes difficult!) topic of belonging. And my guests were Chris and Julie Bennett, the authors of Fighting for Family: The Relentless Pursuit of Building Belonging.As the title of their book would suggest, Chris and Julie are passionate about relationships and community. In the conversation, they share about how family isn&#39;t just the people who you are related to, it can also be people who become like family because of your deep friendship. The Bennetts share their story of a very crazy and chaotic season in their lives -- uprooting their lives to move to Los Angeles without a clear plan, not being able to find housing, moving again and again, while facing the completely unexpected diagnosis of stage three breast cancer for Julie.They share how hard it was, but also how good it was. How God used this space where they felt like they had nothing to offer and were so needy to teach them powerful lessons about belonging. In this episode, they share some of what they have learned and provide encouragement for anyone who is feeling lonely or like they are an outsider.If you&#39;re craving deeper connections, longing for a sense of belonging, or simply seeking inspiration to navigate life&#39;s challenges with grace and resilience, this episode is for you. I think you will be so blessed by this heartfelt conversation!In This Episode[0:35] - I am interviewing Chris and Julie Bennett, authors of the book Fighting for Family.[1:50] - Chris reveals how the book came to be.[3:21] - Julie points out how life&#39;s challenges turned her adventurous family into brave survivors, battling homelessness and cancer together.[5:49] - Their faith was deepened amidst chaos, reshaping their understanding of belonging.[8:49] - How did Julie and Chris navigate the immense risk and uncertainty, especially with children involved?[15:43] - Julie, despite hesitations, joined a diverse group of fourteen women and these women ended up serving as a lifeline for her.[19:35] - Belonging involves both giving and taking risks.[24:05] - Fostering genuine connections requires vulnerability without hidden agendas, creating space for authentic sharing.[27:00] - Chris reasons that Jesus exemplified love and belonging, prioritizing the marginalized and modeling inclusiveness.[29:39] - It&#39;s okay to feel lonely, even with loved ones. Keep fighting; there&#39;s hope ahead.[31:51] - And stay tuned at the end for an exciting announcement of a project I&#39;ve been working on for a number of months that I&#39;m finally launching this week! I announce that I am launching &#34;10 Weeks to a More Organized Home,&#34; with daily tasks for decluttering.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/organized-home-1/" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks to a More Organized Home</a></li><li><a href="https://www.findingfamilypodcast.com/" rel="nofollow">Chris and Julie&#39;s podcast</a></li></ul><h3>Books</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Fighting-Family-Relentless-Building-Belonging/dp/0785293191/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.srbGeh-FOBoK1ZNvwRAnzqrOO7XJ3V8nvf6RlFfbICcTOnSJ53WrmNoJiRTU8PP_fCPxeAPyJlC4Y09CaeiW0Q.65vLa1YnBSvaJmEQas5G9YvjCP0TkPey2ZY0qgyJeRk&dib_tag=se&qid=1711425077&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Fighting for Family: The Relentless Pursuit of Building Belonging by Chris &amp; Julie Bennett</a></li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Bowling-Alone-Collapse-American-Community/dp/1982130849/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2IVGUUXTKDCBP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Zl-CMnNQ7B98QIx2G7PjQdieubo4gX1nJnotjGIYjMfwUil4-RO4gfX-XMp6_f-3680JcFZ-E6GAKlvSygN0jcerYekT6Z8lGDsgvpdLFo-ji2DliO_EirOdwSmpJRbgJB4xDjCg-knTZLBvlnIoxmWAI9QOE0_nIi7I8AQ4Xnw_LlUPI1FVHj0VRqisbeRiVdA5-IA6a8zEbwZvoCf2IRvd5ly2bne2l9zPnOHz2RY.7-nMv4tY4fLU_4ZMfs3P24HWgL4plGtavFFHHpJJTNc&dib_tag=se&keywords=bowling+alone+robert+putnam&qid=1711425012&s=books&sprefix=bowling+alone%2Cstripbooks%2C102&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American Community by Robert D. Putnam</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li>crystal@moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

253. How to Build Belonging in a World of Loneliness (with Chris and Julie Bennett)

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Silas makes his formal debut on the podcast this week by joining Jesse and me to share about their trip to DC. He&#39;s joined in on a few podcasts in the past when he was much younger and didn&#39;t say much, so I&#39;m excited for you to get to hear more from him now that he&#39;s older and less scared of the microphone. :)Jesse and Silas recount the adventures they had on the 8th grade school trip, including flying Southwest (and winning some vouchers), Arlington, the Holocaust Museum, the 9/11 Memorial at the Pentagon, Museum of the Bible, the Capitol, Mount Vernon, Gettysburg, the White House Visitor&#39;s Center, and more!You&#39;ll enjoy hearing both of their perspectives on it, what they learned, what was disappointing and surprising, and places they want to return to. They shared some stories and insights I hadn&#39;t yet heard from their trip, so it was really fun for me to sit back and listen -- I hope you enjoy it as much we did recording it!<h2>In This Episode</h2>[0:35] - Silas and Jesse are here to recount their recent trip to Washington D.C.![2:19] - Jesse admits that this trip was better than Kathrynne&#39;s eighth-grade trip because they flew this time.[3:18] - Silas won two $50 gift vouchers on the trip![4:49] - Jesse highlights getting to know the teens in Silas&#39;s class better and visiting Arlington.[5:59] - Silas reflects on gaining insights from classmates and highlighted visiting the Museum of the Bible and the Holocaust Museum.[6:58] - Jesse found it unexpected and intriguing to meet someone who was in the Pentagon during the attack.[7:43] - Hear Silas go into more detail about the visit to the Holocaust museum and Museum of the Bible, finding the transition from heavy to light.[11:35] - I mention the personalized experience at the Holocaust Museum and compare it to a memorial in Israel.[13:20] - Visiting the Capitol and the White House Visitor&#39;s Center. [16:42] - Was there anything that was disappointing or surprising about the trip? [20:11] - Silas wants to go back to D.C. but with the whole family.[21:26] - Jesse found their visit to Mount Vernon intriguing, describing it as a living history experience. [25:13] - I share some exciting news: I am launching the Simplified Home Checklist, offering daily, weekly, monthly, and quarterly tasks for organizing!<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/simplified-home-checklists/" rel="nofollow">FREE Simplified Home Checklists</a></li><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li>crystal@moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

252. Silas and Jesse share about their trip to DC

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I’m guessing many of you have seen the funny crunchy video comedy clips from Really Very Crunchy on Instagram or TikTok or YouTube. Emily and Jason Morrow are the talented writers, producers, and actors for these and I got the privilege of interviewing Emily in-studio recently about her brand-new book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Really-Very-Crunchy-Beginners-Personality/dp/0310367522/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2VAWA0MVHC14G&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.KE9dJPY-n0MOuhCcWm92mMCBfjTEiLyfJWF8ogyGtSlO-wEdGJWz7m9aXgCe_PtQ6q2dCuMFKY6OVZSuNJXFfdf7kgv49uZ3ptHAI3VUsGynRrjf89l7iCEsItDi1abne5zRPaLafwBb7L28f8xzM4TTyhuL_E9yWiB8OOxbtTo5fBdlfYvGbD3a_d9uGKW97VloCp3VsXowq3908dElI3YaHYeF0GusON6VaYXarGI.Rbrdr_MYgtTpwNBMTm5gYtRCg1-PwsuSo7dn0Lob1sk&dib_tag=se&keywords=emily+morrow&qid=1709882704&s=books&sprefix=emily+morrow%2Cstripbooks%2C100&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Really Very Crunchy: A Beginner’s Guide to Removing Toxins from Your Life Without Adding Them to Your Personality</a>.As my word for the year is health, I’ve especially loved Emily’s videos and her book. She makes me laugh, she makes me think, she teaches me a lot of things I never knew about (and then need to go Google for more information!), and she does it all in a very gracious and kind way.In this episode of the podcast, Emily shares some really humorous stories (including why she got a pedicure and then took off the polish before coming to my house for the interview!) as well as very practical advice on how to live a more health-conscious lifestyle without breaking the bank. We talk about a lot of practices you can implement that are free and easy + she shares her best tips for eating healthy on a budget (they were so good and inspiring!).Emily’s refreshing approach to the crunchy lifestyle, filled with self-deprecating humor, makes it accessible to everyone, regardless of their current choices. (She reminds us often that “crunchy is a spectrum” and it’s not worth losing relationships over crazy crunchy rules you’ve concocted.We also touch on the challenges of balancing a crunchy lifestyle with real-world situations and she shared a recent situation she navigated at a family dinner. Emily encourages a mindful and compassionate approach, reminding us that we can have strong convictions without belittling, condemning, or ostracizing others.The conversation also extends beyond dietary choices, as we also talk about the interconnectedness of mental and physical health. Emily’s perspective on stress and the importance of a balanced approach to health is so important for all of us to hear and remember.In This Episode[0:35] – My guest today is Emily Morrow, author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Really-Very-Crunchy-Beginners-Personality/dp/0310367522/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2VAWA0MVHC14G&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.KE9dJPY-n0MOuhCcWm92mMCBfjTEiLyfJWF8ogyGtSlO-wEdGJWz7m9aXgCe_PtQ6q2dCuMFKY6OVZSuNJXFfdf7kgv49uZ3ptHAI3VUsGynRrjf89l7iCEsItDi1abne5zRPaLafwBb7L28f8xzM4TTyhuL_E9yWiB8OOxbtTo5fBdlfYvGbD3a_d9uGKW97VloCp3VsXowq3908dElI3YaHYeF0GusON6VaYXarGI.Rbrdr_MYgtTpwNBMTm5gYtRCg1-PwsuSo7dn0Lob1sk&dib_tag=se&keywords=emily+morrow&qid=1709882704&s=books&sprefix=emily+morrow%2Cstripbooks%2C100&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Really Very Crunchy</a>.[3:16] – Emily shares a bit of her journey and how they started posting videos without telling family or friends — and how crazy it was for these videos to end up going viral like they did.[7:49] – Crunchy encompasses various lifestyles, from barefoot moms to outdoor enthusiasts, forming a diverse spectrum.[9:52] – Emily encourages making healthier choices without significant sacrifices, emphasizing practical steps like avoiding single-use items.[12:46] – Exposure to artificial light, especially from phones with blue light, disrupts sleep-inducing hormones.[15:23] – Starting the day by avoiding potentially negative or distressing content on your phone helps center and set a positive tone.[17:19] – How to have simplicity and sustainability in grocery shopping, minimizing plastic use.[25:02] – Acknowledging her mom’s kindness in hosting, Emily chooses not to critique her cooking choices.[30:04] – Stress, a top killer, shows us the importance of balance; even health pursuits shouldn’t compromise mental well-being.[31:36] – Facing financial strain, Emily embraced a crunchy lifestyle, prioritizing simple, whole foods for a healthier living.[33:26] – Choosing organic doesn’t have to be as expensive as many people make it; making your own food from simple ingredients offers affordability and health.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="https://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li></ul><h3>Books</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Really-Very-Crunchy-Beginners-Personality/dp/0310367522/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2VAWA0MVHC14G&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.KE9dJPY-n0MOuhCcWm92mMCBfjTEiLyfJWF8ogyGtSlO-wEdGJWz7m9aXgCe_PtQ6q2dCuMFKY6OVZSuNJXFfdf7kgv49uZ3ptHAI3VUsGynRrjf89l7iCEsItDi1abne5zRPaLafwBb7L28f8xzM4TTyhuL_E9yWiB8OOxbtTo5fBdlfYvGbD3a_d9uGKW97VloCp3VsXowq3908dElI3YaHYeF0GusON6VaYXarGI.Rbrdr_MYgtTpwNBMTm5gYtRCg1-PwsuSo7dn0Lob1sk&dib_tag=se&keywords=emily+morrow&qid=1709882704&s=books&sprefix=emily+morrow%2Cstripbooks%2C100&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Really Very Crunchy: A Beginner’s Guide to Removing Toxins from Your Life Without Adding Them to Your Personality by Emily Morrow</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reallyverycrunchy/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Really Very Crunchy on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLEvpTMBa0WuZuWAF2M9m0w" rel="nofollow">Really Very Crunchy on YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@reallyverycrunchy?lang=en" rel="nofollow">Really Very Crunchy on TikTok</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/MoneySavingMom?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li>crystal@moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

251. Removing Toxins from Your Life Without Adding Them to Your Personality (with Emily Morrow)

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Today&#39;s episode is a fun departure from our recent more serious topics. Join me and Jesse as we take a lighthearted stroll down memory lane, exploring the quirks and charms of growing up in the 1900&#39;s. Okay, so we were born in 1980 and 1981 to be exact, but it was still the 1900&#39;s and so much has changed since then!Born before the millennium? Get ready for a nostalgia-packed ride! The inspiration for today&#39;s episode comes from a meme about being from the 1900&#39;s that sparked a flood of childhood memories in our Instagram community. Join us as we reminisce about record players, cassette tapes, and the evolution of technology. From bag phones to the original Netflix to the joys of free AOL discs, we&#39;ve got it all covered. If you remember playing Oregon Trail or had a station wagon with a seat that faced backwards or had a house with wood paneling, hopefully this episode will remind you of the &#34;good &#39;ole days&#34;! :)Also, remember that we have launched a new product - <a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/money-saving-menus" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks of Money-Saving Menus</a>. If menu-planning feels tedious and time-consuming, we&#39;ve got your back! This resource has 60 budget-friendly recipes, complete with ready-made grocery lists! Plus, <a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/free-sample-week/" rel="nofollow">try a free one-week sample menu</a> and don&#39;t forget to use the code PODCAST to get the entire 10-week plan for just $9!!!<h2>In This Episode</h2>[0:35] - Today&#39;s episode takes a lighthearted look at the nostalgia of being born in the 1900&#39;s.[2:31] - After being pregnant and/or nursing for four and a half years, it&#39;s so weird to not be either! And I kind of forgot how to eat for just one person! :)[5:23] - Jesse highlights Kaitlynn&#39;s unexpected layover in San Francisco due to flight delays.[7:25] - I discuss upcoming trips, including Kaitlynn&#39;s 11-day adventure and Jesse&#39;s chaperoning role for Silas&#39;s DC trip.[10:39] - I am currently reading Susan Meissner&#39;s <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Only-Beautiful-Susan-Meissner/dp/0593332849/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.r-pI6Ca41VewwECmZqyqG-zkiWeOANqyD3NWumRloyqQ9CXtx7iI3mCNF1Kp6N5kcwgcMuEAGzQHBqsJ3OeogjRzNe-zHYKU5TlwOAF-T_dAE-_E1ERNdU1jrPRd5NXDcjQgVcNamAaXc_8lqZaPYT8DEqqZLEbv1y8PHCop-x6UJSgs6UHXpqOUVn7K12NrlgjErysR1Fmy7MFnDNcrBBLxWOK-O6UcwZM7G1dYaDM.3s3s5aQQ1H4o54EPSonAac6Jb49teRaxzE8Y-76ek8A&dib_tag=se&qid=1709607018&sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">Only the Beautiful </a>which explores societal stigmas and hidden historical realities.[14:04] - Exciting news! Our new product, <a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/free-sample-week/" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks of Money-Saving Menus</a>, simplifies dinner planning! And I&#39;ve got a coupon code for you![16:07] - Today&#39;s episode is sparked by a meme and dives into nostalgia, childhood memories, and technological evolution.[18:26] - I reminisce about things like our basement record player, Walkman gardening, and more.[20:31] - In a recent conversation with Silas, I realized I don&#39;t know my kids&#39; phone numbers.[23:10] - Jesse recalls law practices naming their offices something that would get more attention in the phonebook.[24:38] - I get schooled on bag phones and we talk about our first phones.[29:37] - Have we changed the way we parent and interact with people because of cell phones?[32:31] - Metal slides and Merry-Go-Rounds![35:51] - We reminisce about free internet courtesy of AOL discs.[38:00] - Cassette players, CD players, iPods, and planning our wedding on a PalmPilot.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/free-sample-week/" rel="nofollow">Sample one-week menu plan of 10 Weeks of Money-Saving Menus</a></li></ul><h3>Books</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Only-Beautiful-Susan-Meissner/dp/0593332849/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.r-pI6Ca41VewwECmZqyqG-zkiWeOANqyD3NWumRloyqQ9CXtx7iI3mCNF1Kp6N5kcwgcMuEAGzQHBqsJ3OeogjRzNe-zHYKU5TlwOAF-T_dAE-_E1ERNdU1jrPRd5NXDcjQgVcNamAaXc_8lqZaPYT8DEqqZLEbv1y8PHCop-x6UJSgs6UHXpqOUVn7K12NrlgjErysR1Fmy7MFnDNcrBBLxWOK-O6UcwZM7G1dYaDM.3s3s5aQQ1H4o54EPSonAac6Jb49teRaxzE8Y-76ek8A&dib_tag=se&qid=1709607018&sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">Only the Beautiful by Susan Meissner</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/MoneySavingMom?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on X</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li>crystal@moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

250. What it was like living in the 1900's :)

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This week, I get to share a conversation I had recently with Sara Hagerty -- and it&#39;s one I think you&#39;ll love and be deeply inspired by! I know I was! Sara is the author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Limitations-Finding-Beauty-Boundaries/dp/0310357047/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2E51FZGQIYK3D&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.2039y5O-YQtw70SCspAmZw.d07CO9gP2g4xqgCN5kAiqge3GPdglsu1Vj095GP7x4w&dib_tag=se&keywords=sarah+hagerty+the+gift+of+limitations&qid=1708143281&s=books&sprefix=sarah+hagerty+the+gift+of+limitations%2Cstripbooks%2C106&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">The Gift of Limitations: Finding Beauty in Your Boundaries</a> and I resonated so deeply with her story and this book. In fact, it is my first 5-star read of 2024!In this episode, Sara and I take a dive into her inspiring journey of facing limitations, from a challenging road to motherhood, 13 years of infertility, adopting four children, birthing 3 unexpected biological children, navigating a wide age range and seven kids, and dealing with chronic illness. Sara shares her wonderful wisdom on how to embrace and find beauty in the roadblocks, unexpected, and limitations of life.We tackle tough questions and discuss the incredibly transformative power of acknowledging and grieving our limitations. Sara&#39;s insights into incorporating pauses into our daily lives and allowing God to work through our limitations rather than against them spoke deeply to my soul and it&#39;s something I&#39;ve thought of multiple times since this interview. We also chat about the practical steps you can take to navigate the tension of feeling like there&#39;s not enough of you to go around and the importance of trusting God in those moments.I hope this conversation helps to shift your perspective on limitations and reveal the unexpected gifts that they can bring. There can actually be blessing in boundaries!<h2>In This Episode</h2>[0:35] - I have Sara Hagerty in-studio today to talk about her book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Limitations-Finding-Beauty-Boundaries/dp/0310357047/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2E51FZGQIYK3D&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.2039y5O-YQtw70SCspAmZw.d07CO9gP2g4xqgCN5kAiqge3GPdglsu1Vj095GP7x4w&dib_tag=se&keywords=sarah+hagerty+the+gift+of+limitations&qid=1708143281&s=books&sprefix=sarah+hagerty+the+gift+of+limitations%2Cstripbooks%2C106&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">The Gift of Limitations</a>![2:03] - Sara begins by diving into her journey and her experience with limitations in her life.[4:03] - Despite chronic illness and years of infertility, Sara discovered God&#39;s presence in the now and urges others to live fully.[7:06] - Sara discusses how motherhood presents challenges in balancing personal dreams.[8:43] - How did Sara get to a place where she was able to accept her limitations?[12:33] - Sara explains that taking a few minutes daily to sit in grief and then into God&#39;s comfort has helped her so much.[13:41] - Naming and grieving underlying emotions in frustrating moments cultivates patience, easing family dynamics and expectations.[16:21] - Amid life&#39;s chaos, being present requires addressing underlying narratives through reflective pauses.[19:47] - The profound question of God&#39;s identity in our lives when one feels inadequate.[23:48] - Allow God to work through life&#39;s limitations.[27:50] - Don&#39;t push against limitations might hinder God&#39;s work.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://sarahagerty.net/" rel="nofollow">Sara Hagerty</a></li></ul><h3>Books</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Limitations-Finding-Beauty-Boundaries/dp/0310357047/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2E51FZGQIYK3D&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.2039y5O-YQtw70SCspAmZw.d07CO9gP2g4xqgCN5kAiqge3GPdglsu1Vj095GP7x4w&dib_tag=se&keywords=sarah+hagerty+the+gift+of+limitations&qid=1708143281&s=books&sprefix=sarah+hagerty+the+gift+of+limitations%2Cstripbooks%2C106&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">The Gift of Limitations: Finding Beauty in Your Boundaries by Sara Hagerty</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/MoneySavingMom?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li>crystal@moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

249. The Gift of Limitations (with Sara Hagerty)

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Join Jesse and I this week as we discuss the sensitive topic of losing and rebuilding trust with teens after they&#39;ve broken it. Inspired by a question from an Instagram follower, I share insights on the importance of having conversations before resorting to consequences. We highlight the importance of seeking to understand our teens&#39; perspectives (we don&#39;t have to agree with them, but I think we should make the effort to try to understand) and adjusting consequences based on their willingness to rebuild trust. Explaining the reasons behind trust issues, such as social media incidents or phone privileges, is crucial to demonstrate genuine concern for their well-being.We also touch on the significance of conversations around privileges vs. rights and and fostering a culture of trust from a young age. We give you some practical tool for how to approach those difficult discussions and encourage you to stop, take a breath, and ask the Holy Spirit for wisdom before you begin. Knee-jerk reactions driven by fear, pride, or selfishness can lead to us building a wedge, being a bit ridiculous in doling out consequences, or just shutting down communication lines with our kids.We also discuss the two-way street of building and maintaining trust, encouraging parents to invest time, keep promises, and set positive examples. We wrap up by emphasizing the importance of parental introspection, checking our hearts, and seeking guidance from the Lord.For more encouragement, I highly recommend checking out my free online class: &#34;<a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/sign-up-for-my-10-days-to-a-happier-mom-challenge-its-free/" rel="nofollow">10 Days to a Happier Mom</a>,&#34; designed to help parents shift from frustration to a place of calmness and peace, ultimately parenting from a foundation of understanding how much you are loved by God and pursuing relationship with your kids instead of seeking to protect your reputation with others.<h2>In This Episode</h2>[0:35] - What do you do when your teens break trust?[1:35] - We recently dealt with our first broken bone for one of our kids -- after 19 years of parenting![3:28] - I discuss a painful arm injury from my childhood that heightened my sensitivity to possible fractures in my children.[12:16] - Am I actually considering becoming a gardener?? Or at least having a container garden??[13:36] - I have been immersed in a book that has deeply resonated with me – Sara Hagerty&#39;s <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Limitations-Finding-Beauty-Boundaries/dp/0310357047/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2E51FZGQIYK3D&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.2039y5O-YQtw70SCspAmZw.d07CO9gP2g4xqgCN5kAiqge3GPdglsu1Vj095GP7x4w&dib_tag=se&keywords=sarah+hagerty+the+gift+of+limitations&qid=1708143281&s=books&sprefix=sarah+hagerty+the+gift+of+limitations%2Cstripbooks%2C106&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">The Gift of Limitations</a>.[16:26] - Reflecting on trust challenges with children prompted deep contemplation after a question on Instagram.[22:32] - Before addressing any anger that I might be feeling toward my child, stop and assess your heart.[25:18] - Engaging in open conversations with our children about trust builds understanding and fosters growth.[27:10] - Before implementing consequences, talk with your kids, ask curious questions, and lean in and listen to seek to understand your child&#39;s perspective.[30:27] - Rebuilding trust is serious; show understanding, sadness, and love, and actively participate in rebuilding efforts mutually.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/sign-up-for-my-10-days-to-a-happier-mom-challenge-its-free/" rel="nofollow">Sign up for my 10 Days to a Happier Mom Challenge (it’s FREE!)</a></li></ul><h3>Books</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Limitations-Finding-Beauty-Boundaries/dp/0310357047/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2E51FZGQIYK3D&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.2039y5O-YQtw70SCspAmZw.d07CO9gP2g4xqgCN5kAiqge3GPdglsu1Vj095GP7x4w&dib_tag=se&keywords=sarah+hagerty+the+gift+of+limitations&qid=1708143281&s=books&sprefix=sarah+hagerty+the+gift+of+limitations%2Cstripbooks%2C106&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">The Gift of Limitations: Finding Beauty in Your Boundaries by Sara Hagerty</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/MoneySavingMom?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li><a href="mailto:crystal@moneysavingmom.com" rel="nofollow">crystal@moneysavingmom.com</a></li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

248. Losing and Rebuilding Trust With Your Teens

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It&#39;s the second week of February and Jesse and I are giving you an update on our 2024 goals! I try to stop at the end of every month and reflect on where I&#39;m at, how I&#39;m doing on my goals and habits, and what tweaks I need to make. Today we share what has worked so far this year, what&#39;s not working as well, and what we&#39;re learning. From hitting 47 hours of outdoor time in chilly January and making a habit of getting 90 grams of protein almost every day to struggling with turning off screens by 8:30 p.m., we dive into it and share honestly.Jesse also provides us with some updates on his sleep, cold shower challenges, and exercise goals and we both talk about how we loving using the <a href="https://www.stridesapp.com" rel="nofollow">Strides app</a> to stay on track. It&#39;s made such a difference for us and we&#39;d highly recommend trying it out!How are your 2024 goals going? We would love to hear from you, so drop me an email to share your wins, struggles, and everything in between. Let&#39;s make 2024 our best year yet!<h2>In This Episode</h2>[0:35] - Jesse and I are updating you on how our 2024 goals in this episode.[1:31] - We joke about Jesse&#39;s new position as assistant coach.[4:07] - All about our first two ABC Dates.[8:05] - I just finished reading <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Words-God-Trading-Boring-Connection/dp/0800737016/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3E4EQGXQYDZH7&keywords=words+with+god+addison+bevere&qid=1707530089&s=books&sprefix=words+with+god+addison%2Cstripbooks%2C109&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Words with God by Addison Bevere</a>.[9:28] - Hear what&#39;s saving my life this week![12:20] - I share an insightful email about nighttime phone use as we open our discussion on 2024 goals.[15:21] - Balancing business tasks with sleep and shutting down my phone has been a challenge for me.[17:26] - I discuss how I achieve my 90 grams of protein goal with a high-protein breakfast and strategic snacking.[19:16] - Circadian rhythms, logging outdoor hours, and limiting sugar.[22:27] - Jesse and I really enjoy using the <a href="https://www.stridesapp.com" rel="nofollow">Strides app</a>!<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://crystalpaine.com/211-2" rel="nofollow">The Crystal Paine Show - 211. Trading Boring, Empty Prayer for Real Connection</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/my-22-goals-for-2024-my-word-for-the-year" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom - My 22 Goals for 2024 (+my word for the year!)</a></li><li><a href="https://www.stridesapp.com" rel="nofollow">Strides App</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/money-saving-menus" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks of Money Saving Menus</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/4bybUdh" rel="nofollow">A Dress I’m Loving</a></li><li> </li><li>Books</li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Words-God-Trading-Boring-Connection/dp/0800737016/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3E4EQGXQYDZH7&keywords=words+with+god+addison+bevere&qid=1707530089&s=books&sprefix=words+with+god+addison%2Cstripbooks%2C109&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Words with God: Trading Boring, Empty Prayer for Real Connection by Addison Bevere</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li><a href="mailto:crystal@moneysavingmom.com" rel="nofollow">crystal@moneysavingmom.com</a></li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

247. An Update on Our 2024 Goals (+ an app we're both loving!)

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This episode is perfect as we approach Valentine&#39;s Day... because every married person needs to listen to what Annie F. Downs shares in this episode. And all of the single people need to listen to this episode to be encouraged by Annie&#39;s story and life! Annie is the author of a number of books, including her newest children&#39;s book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Happy-Know-That-Sounds-Book/dp/0800738772/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1706929030&sr=8-1-spons" rel="nofollow">So Happy to Know You! </a>We talk about her days as a teacher that inspired this book, her heart behind writing this, and how God has given her so many opportunities to mother other children, even though she has never had children of her own.You&#39;ll love Annie&#39;s stories of personal growth and how she&#39;s learned to acknowledge and embrace her unique personality. I loved when she shared how she got to give this book to a number of her former students and their kids!One of the topics I really wanted to get to ask Annie about was singleness. I was so grateful she was willing to share her journey, her struggles, and how God has used this longtime longing of her heart to shape the way she lives and serves others. She recently started the Single Purpose League, a community to provide support and connection for single individuals, particularly within the church.At the end of the conversation, Annie shares valuable insights on how married and single individuals can better understand and support each other and how the church can do a better job of walking with single people. I was so challenged and convicted by her words -- and it ended up opening some doors for me to have really valuable conversations with single people in my life. <h2>In This Episode</h2>[0:35] - I am joined today by Annie Downs, author of the new children’s book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Happy-Know-That-Sounds-Book/dp/0800738772/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1706929030&sr=8-1-spons" rel="nofollow">So Happy to Know You!</a>.[1:30] - Annie shares her 12-year journey in writing, speaking, and podcasting since 2012.[2:24] - Being a former teacher, Annie discusses her inspiration for children&#39;s books and connecting with former students.[9:50] - We discuss how writing children&#39;s books is a form of mothering and walking alongside other parents.[11:28] - Annie reflects on her unexpected life at 43 as a single adult and encourages people to pursue friendship across different life stages.[16:39] - I ask Annie what she really wishes married people understood about those who are single. Her answer may surprise you![21:28] - How to live fully while still longing for what you don&#39;t have.[25:35] - What it looks like to hold onto hope and why Annie makes sure to be close with married friends, not just single friends.[30:02] - Annie talks about the unexpected creation of the <a href="https://www.patreon.com/anniefdowns" rel="nofollow">Single Purpose League</a> and its purpose.[35:45] - How can the church do a better job of walking alongside those who are single?<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal&#39;s website</a></li><li><a href="https://www.anniefdowns.com/" rel="nofollow">Annie&#39;s website</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/anniefdowns/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Follow Annie on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.anniefdowns.com/thatsoundsfun/" rel="nofollow">That Sounds Fun Podcast</a></li><li><a href="https://www.patreon.com/anniefdowns" rel="nofollow">Single Purpose League Patreon Community</a></li></ul><h3>Books</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Happy-Know-That-Sounds-Book/dp/0800738772/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1706929030&sr=8-1-spons" rel="nofollow">So Happy to Know You! by Annie F. Downs &amp; Jennie Poh</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li><a href="mailto:crystal@moneysavingmom.com" rel="nofollow">crystal@moneysavingmom.com</a></li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

246. The Best Way to Encourage Your Single Friends (with Annie F. Downs)

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I consider the mark of a good book one that makes you laugh and get teary-eyed in the space of a few pages. Cynthia Yanof&#39;s book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Life-Messy-God-Good-Everyday/dp/0830785337/ref=sr_1_1?crid=28F5TBH8CIGBD&keywords=life+is+messy+god+is+good+cynthia+yanoff&qid=1706390073&sprefix=life+is+messy+%2Caps%2C109&sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">Life is Messy, God is Good: Sanity for the Chaos of Everyday Life,</a> did that very thing for me. Her ability to bring humor into life&#39;s messiness is beautiful and one we can all learn from.In this episode, we touch on some of her story and lessons she&#39;s gleaned. We talk about her experiences as an older mom with kids in college, high school, and first grade and how foster care profoundly impacted their family. I love her insights into stepping into scary places and learning to lean on God and trust Him -- even when it&#39;s really hard.One of the parts of her book I really appreciated was her wisdom on friendships. I ask her to dive into this on the podcast as I often hear from women who are really struggling to make and keep friendships. We talk about what it looks like to invest in relationships, even when it feels like we don&#39;t have much time and how to really show up well for people in the midst of full schedules. If you are navigating the chaos of everyday life (and, let’s be honest, aren’t we all?), craving a good laugh, and looking for encouragement in the messiness, I think Cynthia&#39;s words and story will bless you! Listen in to hear about embracing and seeing beauty in life&#39;s messiness and standing confident in the unwavering goodness of God.<h3>In This Episode</h3>[0:35] - I am joined today by Cynthia Yanof, author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Life-Messy-God-Good-Everyday/dp/0830785337/ref=sr_1_1?crid=28F5TBH8CIGBD&keywords=life+is+messy+god+is+good+cynthia+yanoff&qid=1706390073&sprefix=life+is+messy+%2Caps%2C109&sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">Life is Messy, God is Good</a>![2:03] - Cynthia reflects on unexpected joys and God&#39;s guidance through fostering and how it has impacted their life.[7:18] - &#34;Just because it&#39;s hard, doesn&#39;t mean it&#39;s not right.&#34; [13:15] - Cynthia shares some of her best advice for building strong and lasting relationships.[17:27] - I loved hearing about her friend, Elaine, who impacted her life so much through her intentionality.[20:17] - &#34;If you think it, do it.&#34; Act on those ideas we have to express to people that we care about them.[22:34] - I asked Cynthia to share about praying for her kids and what that has looked like over the years.[26:57] - Walking through learning difficulties with your kids and resisting the urge to intervene excessively and learning to trust God instead.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/podcasts-post/money-saving-mom-with-crystal-paine/" rel="nofollow">Pardon the Mess Ep. 2.33: Money Saving Mom with Crystal Paine</a></li></ul><h3>Books</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Life-Messy-God-Good-Everyday/dp/0830785337/ref=sr_1_1?crid=28F5TBH8CIGBD&keywords=life+is+messy+god+is+good+cynthia+yanoff&qid=1706390073&sprefix=life+is+messy+%2Caps%2C109&sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">Life Is Messy, God Is Good: Sanity for the Chaos of Everyday Life by Cynthia Yanof</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/MoneySavingMom?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li><a href="mailto:crystal@moneysavingmom.com" rel="nofollow">crystal@moneysavingmom.com</a></li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

245. Life is Messy, But God is Still Good (with Cynthia Yanof)

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So much has happened over the last few weeks, so today we&#39;re sitting down to share a fun episode filled with lots of family updates and news. I share a crazy travel story, talk about my surprising sourdough journey, we give you some can&#39;t-miss cold shower updates (please laugh!), talk about a book I finished recently, and tell you about a book light we love!We hope that this podcast episode feels like you are sitting in our living room with us chatting about life and things we&#39;re thinking about, trying, reading, and learning. We also touch on how our commitment to circadian rhythm and sunlight before screens is going and talk about how we are challenging ourselves outside our comfort zones for personal growth. Psst! We also offer you a coupon code on my new <a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/money-saving-menus" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks of Money-Saving Menus!</a><h2>In This Episode</h2>​​[2:06] - Since so many of you have been intrigued by this cold shower thing, we talk more about it -- and even if you could care less about cold showers, I hope it makes you laugh![6:59] - Sunlight before screens: an update on how it&#39;s going for both of us and what our mornings look like.[11:39] - Why it&#39;s important to challenge yourself outside your comfort zone.[11:52] - My recent crazy travel story that involved snow, ice, and getting stranded overnight at the airport with Micah![28:47] - I just recently finished reading <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Expect-Something-Beautiful-Finding-Motherhood/dp/0802424198/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3H6WP8NT2F1EW&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.xVeMX9thN93yPV1LxB5dkYOyKjd26eTIrYda4uojjm1WEhQkPt0IGHz74WAj51fN7VZOEWRd_aOY_OqQML7g4MKdxSSk0NVxGfW27wOy6xI2s1hq2zfaFFqFoqmNa_XKk7Y9rmyxhGBFtiOD0RblLB3HIgPsMu0bA6k-JPhBhR1D94CRnpktst08y5vlFipYUyqPjVSqqGvpB1E72RM_4ltAGUh_v-_HPSH1bK--G3U.8SRzjrvjBMLHiUUCJDn2hIutEEyZAFYtXA7X4fj1xqs&dib_tag=se&keywords=expect+something+beautiful&qid=1705881175&s=books&sprefix=expect+something%2Cstripbooks%2C102&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Expect Something Good: Finding God’s Good Gifts in Motherhood</a>.[29:53] - Hear about a new <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Glocusent-Brightness-Bendable-Rechargeable-Repairing/dp/B07WNRN9WQ/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=1W7UADEIUMUG0&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.DbcZ8oc1IggbQN3B8tGjPKvOJWQKAYK202Yivt8S-CsCOPfKdqJEnYV3ZzURXA30fEJewqKT0x-_09fCZ0wcAYio1p0ktDSkkaiwI4s8o7zNUyhlCjfsaj2ivibtnm6AEepJZLSaesVpSKS13rcaBZU2HB6i38AfWF_Kg46qzcSaq1R_E4U55kRAZNIxnrT5G_i2doEn722-HKZaJLW6AcS8S2lQ5aDtBMIoyCuNBeHO5kazVmuFd3m4AB8a_E99O4gOx2uGuHRHR1Lor5jn6ysEwlPm6ErmsjvdwLUgZiM.aV7BQeVjvmp2B8sxmj5lr2R9VsqMQqH3FjyTFSSBCOw&dib_tag=se&keywords=hugger%2Bbook%2Blight&qid=1705881475&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGY&sprefix=hugger%2Bbook%2Blig%2Caps%2C117&sr=8-1-spons&th=1" rel="nofollow">book light</a> that we have loved using![31:09] - My new endeavor for 2024: learning to make sourdough from scratch![36:14] - I remind listeners of my <a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/money-saving-menus" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks of Money-Saving Menus</a> program and a special discount code that you can use!<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Glocusent-Brightness-Bendable-Rechargeable-Repairing/dp/B07WNRN9WQ/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=1W7UADEIUMUG0&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.DbcZ8oc1IggbQN3B8tGjPKvOJWQKAYK202Yivt8S-CsCOPfKdqJEnYV3ZzURXA30fEJewqKT0x-_09fCZ0wcAYio1p0ktDSkkaiwI4s8o7zNUyhlCjfsaj2ivibtnm6AEepJZLSaesVpSKS13rcaBZU2HB6i38AfWF_Kg46qzcSaq1R_E4U55kRAZNIxnrT5G_i2doEn722-HKZaJLW6AcS8S2lQ5aDtBMIoyCuNBeHO5kazVmuFd3m4AB8a_E99O4gOx2uGuHRHR1Lor5jn6ysEwlPm6ErmsjvdwLUgZiM.aV7BQeVjvmp2B8sxmj5lr2R9VsqMQqH3FjyTFSSBCOw&dib_tag=se&keywords=hugger%2Bbook%2Blight&qid=1705881475&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGY&sprefix=hugger%2Bbook%2Blig%2Caps%2C117&sr=8-1-spons&th=1" rel="nofollow">Book Light</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/actsofsourdough/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Acts of Sourdough - Instagram Page</a></li><li><a href="https://actsofsourdough.com" rel="nofollow">Acts of Sourdough - Website</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/money-saving-menus" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks of Money Saving Menus</a></li></ul><h3>Books</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Expect-Something-Beautiful-Finding-Motherhood/dp/0802424198/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3H6WP8NT2F1EW&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.xVeMX9thN93yPV1LxB5dkYOyKjd26eTIrYda4uojjm1WEhQkPt0IGHz74WAj51fN7VZOEWRd_aOY_OqQML7g4MKdxSSk0NVxGfW27wOy6xI2s1hq2zfaFFqFoqmNa_XKk7Y9rmyxhGBFtiOD0RblLB3HIgPsMu0bA6k-JPhBhR1D94CRnpktst08y5vlFipYUyqPjVSqqGvpB1E72RM_4ltAGUh_v-_HPSH1bK--G3U.8SRzjrvjBMLHiUUCJDn2hIutEEyZAFYtXA7X4fj1xqs&dib_tag=se&keywords=expect+something+beautiful&qid=1705881175&s=books&sprefix=expect+something%2Cstripbooks%2C102&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Expect Something Beautiful: Finding God’s Good Gifts in Motherhood by Laura Booz</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/MoneySavingMom?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Twitter</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li><a href="mailto:crystal@moneysavingmom.com" rel="nofollow">crystal@moneysavingmom.com</a></li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

244. A Crazy Airport Story + some fun life updates!

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Today, I&#39;m sitting down with my friend <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heidileeanderson/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Heidi Lee Anderson</a>, whom I initially met on Instagram, but our online friendship turned into a real-life bond. Join us as we dive into Heidi&#39;s inspiring journey and discuss her new book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/P-S-Its-Gonna-Good-Questions/dp/1496466810/ref=sr_1_1?crid=QXE5U2897L90&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.xbUiccWcbSdrJRfQoHJ0Ba31GgeZc_9S21TyTukg1OHrpOmfVBt-Zdx04ZR_qWHaHE-jdjGoGpfy8kmRplR6-O9SgAiOPDjpz0PcquTgqqngmVFcrFL1nBRO2or1ZFrabDHLGrzSEkhD3t6fJZ8EIA.4IG_NjViGDB6u74WndNtq42FNmQTcs_4UneZ1VGrqmk&dib_tag=se&keywords=heidi+anderson&qid=1705179677&s=books&sprefix=heidi+anderson%2Cstripbooks%2C119&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">P.S. It&#39;s Gonna Be Good</a>, which explores how God&#39;s Word addresses our deepest questions about faith, fear, and everything in between.Heidi opens up about facing a cancer diagnosis over a decade ago and the emotional rollercoaster that followed. From chemotherapy to radiation, she shares the highs and lows, including the unexpected turns that left her in awe of God&#39;s miracles. We touch on the power of community and the role of faith in navigating through the darkest moments, and Heidi&#39;s authenticity shines through as she discusses meeting her husband, overcoming challenges, and ultimately embracing the unexpected beauty that God unfolds in our lives.As we explore Heidi’s book, we delve into the questions many of us grapple with: what if the worst-case scenario happens? How do we trust God when He seems silent? What if our reality doesn&#39;t align with God&#39;s promises? Drawing insights from the lives of Bible heroes like Gideon, David, Joshua, and Martha, Heidi shares how their stories offer profound wisdom and hope for anyone facing uncertainty.I hope that this episode offers you assurance that, no matter what, it&#39;s going to be good. <h2>In This Episode</h2>[0:35] - Today’s guest is my friend <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heidileeanderson/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Heidi Lee Anderson</a>, author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/P-S-Its-Gonna-Good-Questions/dp/1496466810/ref=sr_1_1?crid=QXE5U2897L90&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.xbUiccWcbSdrJRfQoHJ0Ba31GgeZc_9S21TyTukg1OHrpOmfVBt-Zdx04ZR_qWHaHE-jdjGoGpfy8kmRplR6-O9SgAiOPDjpz0PcquTgqqngmVFcrFL1nBRO2or1ZFrabDHLGrzSEkhD3t6fJZ8EIA.4IG_NjViGDB6u74WndNtq42FNmQTcs_4UneZ1VGrqmk&dib_tag=se&keywords=heidi+anderson&qid=1705179677&s=books&sprefix=heidi+anderson%2Cstripbooks%2C119&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">P.S. It’s Gonna Be Good</a>![2:09] - Heidi shares how her unexpected 10-pound, 11oz baby was a blessing, which evolved into a book.[3:28] - A decade ago, Heidi confronted Hodgkin&#39;s lymphoma, testing faith and reality amid uncertainty and treatment.[6:55] - In the darkest moments of a cancer diagnosis, Heidi grappled with fear, uncertainty, and despair.[8:09] - Heidi finds comfort in God&#39;s living word, drawing parallels with Martha&#39;s story and Jesus&#39; empathy.[10:57] - In Martha&#39;s story, Jesus demonstrated sovereignty, raising Lazarus and revealing God&#39;s power in perfect timing.[15:18] - Heidi shares that she found the hardest part to be dealing with others&#39; hopelessness; encouragement was very important.[18:17] - When did Heidi first meet her husband?[20:58] - A seemingly small thing, like meeting Ty during a tough time, became a life-changing moment for Heidi.[22:12] - Navigating day by day battles with fear and uncertainty, Heidi relies on community and God&#39;s word.[24:20] - I emphasize the importance of questioning what is truth, combating self-made stories, and the impact of overthinking.[25:47] - Heidi offers hope to those facing life&#39;s curveballs.[27:57] - Heidi touches upon how her book explores life&#39;s questions through characters in the Bible, showing that despite challenges, God works for good.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/money-saving-menus" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks of Money Saving Menus</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/heidileeanderson/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Heidi Lee Anderson on Instagram</a></li></ul><h3>Books</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/P-S-Its-Gonna-Good-Questions/dp/1496466810/ref=sr_1_1?crid=QXE5U2897L90&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.xbUiccWcbSdrJRfQoHJ0Ba31GgeZc_9S21TyTukg1OHrpOmfVBt-Zdx04ZR_qWHaHE-jdjGoGpfy8kmRplR6-O9SgAiOPDjpz0PcquTgqqngmVFcrFL1nBRO2or1ZFrabDHLGrzSEkhD3t6fJZ8EIA.4IG_NjViGDB6u74WndNtq42FNmQTcs_4UneZ1VGrqmk&dib_tag=se&keywords=heidi+anderson&qid=1705179677&s=books&sprefix=heidi+anderson%2Cstripbooks%2C119&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">P.S. It’s Gonna Be Good: How God’s Word Answers Our Questions about Faith, Fear, and All the Things by Heidi Lee Anderson</a></li></ul><h3>Social Media</h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li><a href="mailto:crystal@moneysavingmom.com" rel="nofollow">crystal@moneysavingmom.com</a></li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

243. Trusting God When Your Life Feels Like It's Falling Apart (with Heidi Lee Anderson)

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Every year since 2016, I&#39;ve chosen a word for the year. For me, this has been pretty life-transforming as this word serves as sort of my over-arching theme for the goals and hopes for the year. And it also is one that I refer back to again and again throughout the year as I make decisions and think through what to commit to and what to say no to.In this episode, Jesse and I explore why I chose the word I did for 2024 and how I am intentionally seeking to live it out with the choices I make daily and the big and small goals I set for the year.We talk about how this word isn&#39;t just about physical choices, but how our physical choices can profoundly impact our mental and emotional state, as well. Jesse and I laugh about some of the weird things I&#39;m trying as I live this word out -- including red light, morning sunlight and walks in the cold, limiting screen time, minimizing artificial lights, learning about circadian rhythms, and cold showers (something I never, ever thought I&#39;d try despite Jesse extolling the virtues and benefits of them for the past few years!)In addition to diving into goal-setting and practical steps we&#39;re taking to change our life in positive ways, we talk about the surprising need to child-proof our bath tub and toilet and devices we bought for this, plus a book I am reading. I also announce my brand-new product: <a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/money-saving-menus" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks of Money-Saving Menus</a>! We designed this to not only save you time and money, but also to hopefully help you feed your family some really delicious meals that are easy to make! You&#39;ll get 10 weeks of done-for-you dinner recipes, suggested sides, and grocery lists! (And use coupon code PODCAST to get them for just $9!) In This Episode[0:35] - We are talking today about the word I chose for the year 2024.[1:45] - What our trip to Kansas was like with only driving with half of the kids.[4:09] - Our Airbnb adventure involved a chilly surprise with a heat outage and a broken faucet, but amazing hosts saved the day![11:30] - Etsy ended up being a lifesaver helping us find a childproof resource for our Roman tub.[13:30] - I just finished my first read of 2024: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Lovin-Grit-Grace-Straight-Talk-Romance/dp/1684260922/ref=sr_1_1?crid=F3BB9OBZ338R&keywords=jessica+ronne&qid=1704508531&s=books&sprefix=jessica+ronne%2Cstripbooks%2C109&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Lovin&#39; with Grit &amp; Grace</a>, a book about love and resilience in a blended family.[15:52] - I am so excited to launch a new product, <a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/money-saving-menus" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks of Money-Saving Menus, </a>offering affordable, family-favorite recipes with a special podcast listener discount.[18:37] - We talk about the word of the year: health![20:39] - As a society, we tend to ignore the natural circadian rhythm and rely too heavily on artificial lighting.[23:31] - Hear about how I have adopted a holistic approach, prioritizing morning sunlight, limiting screen time, and embracing nature for emotional and spiritual well-being.[25:34] - Our experiences with trying cold showers and everything you maybe never knew you needed to know about cold showers![32:03] - The benefit of going outside of your comfort zone.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/money-saving-menus" rel="nofollow">10 Weeks of Money-Saving Menus</a></li></ul><h2>Books</h2><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Lovin-Grit-Grace-Straight-Talk-Romance/dp/1684260922/ref=sr_1_1?crid=F3BB9OBZ338R&keywords=jessica+ronne&qid=1704508531&s=books&sprefix=jessica+ronne%2Cstripbooks%2C109&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Lovin’ with Grit &amp; Grace: Straight-Talk about Romance, Sex, Fun, and the Tough Stuff Too by Jessica Ronne</a></li></ul><h2>Social Media</h2><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a></li><li><a href="mailto:crystal@moneysavingmom.com" rel="nofollow">crystal@moneysavingmom.com</a></li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

242.  My Word for 2024 (and some of the “weird” things I’m trying!)

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It&#39;s 2024 and we&#39;re kicking off this year with a podcast episode sharing about five significant changes we&#39;re making in our lives/schedules to be more intentional and purposeful.Because Kierstyn is starting preschool, we are tweaking our daily routine in three significant ways: getting up and out the door by 7:25 a.m., getting our younger three to bed by 7:30 p.m., and me turning off my screens at 8:30 p.m. This isn&#39;t just about change for the sake of change, it&#39;s about aligning our lives more closely with our priorities, and we hope these adjustments will help us do just that.We also discuss other tweaks that we will be making in 2024, such as changes to my <a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">blog</a> and our commitment to ABC date nights! Creativity will reign supreme as we aim for 26 creatively-themed date nights throughout the year.Are you planning any changes for 2024? I&#39;d love to hear!<h3>In This Episode</h3>[0:38] - In 2024, Jesse and I are making five purposeful changes, including setting specific departure times for accountability.[3:00] - How we are planning to adjust our morning routine.[5:36] - We are embracing a new challenge, aiming to have all kids ready by 7:25 a.m.[6:46] - I share how we aim to establish consistent bedtime routines and prioritize health.[9:51] - I acknowledge the fact that Jesse and I have differing personality types, but we aim for a balanced routine with flexibility.[12:44] - I emphasize the importance of setting realistic routines, considering possible interruptions, and planning for success.[15:33] - Hear as I identify a self-discipline issue with screens, which is why I&#39;m implementing changes like turning off screens early for better sleep.[18:56] - I sum up three key changes for 2024: early morning routine, kids&#39; bedtime, and screen shutdown.[20:49] - Learn a bit about changes I plan to make to my <a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">blog</a>.[23:09] - I am shifting sharing my personal content to Instagram, podcasting, and a weekly email newsletter for better efficiency and impact.[28:54] - Our ABC date night idea.[30:37] - I sum up the five changes we are making in 2024: early mornings, kids&#39; bedtime, screen limits, content focus on MoneySavingMom.com, and ABC date nights.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/my-22-goals-for-2024-my-word-for-the-year/" rel="nofollow">My 22 Goals for 2024</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.lpages.co/60-free-meal-ideas/" rel="nofollow">Free Printable: 60 Meal Instead of Getting Takeout</a></li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

241. 5 Significant Changes We're Making in 2024

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Welcome to the final episode of The Crystal Paine Show for 2023! I am so thrilled to bring back a familiar voice – my daughter Kathrynne! In this episode, we reflect on Kathrynne&#39;s first semester of college, exploring the highs, lows, and the valuable lessons learned. From the challenges of living independently to the joys of making new friends, Kathrynne shares her perspective on the transition from high school to college life.We take a dive into her initial uncertainty about the chosen college, the surprising ease of making acquaintances, and the deeper bonds forged over time. Kathrynne offers practical advice for upcoming college students, emphasizing the importance of intentional connections, reaching out to others, and starting good habits early on.She candidly shares her experience with procrastination on a major History project, highlighting the crucial lesson she learned in managing time effectively. We also touch on the impact of faith in college, the challenges of maintaining relationships while in different schools, and the overall growth and self-discovery that come with this transformative journey.I&#39;m so grateful Kathrynne was willing to join me again to share on the podcast and I hope that this episode encourages you -- no matter where you are in life, that God is faithful to provide, that community is worth investing in, and sometimes what you think is just a small stepping stone turns out to be the path you&#39;re supposed to be on for longer than just a short season.In This Episode[0:35] - It&#39;s the last episode of 2023 and I&#39;m bringing back a very popular guest: my daughter, Kathrynne![2:16] - How does Kathrynne feel now that her first semester is over?​​[3:10] - Kathrynne reveals how she embraced the challenges of transitioning from high school to college, building new friendships and connections.[6:34] - How a painting night and saying yes turned into lasting relationships.[9:32] - Transitioning to independence in college brought newfound responsibilities, from grocery shopping to managing schedules and expenses.[12:22] - Hear about what influenced Kathrynne&#39;s decision to stay at MTSU rather than transfer.[15:19] - Lessons learned on long-distance relationships.[18:48] - A 10-page family history essay that Kathrynne recently finished and how she discovered she doesn&#39;t like procrastination![22:41] - Parting words to juniors and seniors preparing for and thinking of college soon.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="https://crystalpaine.com/happiermom/" rel="nofollow">10 Days to Be a Happier Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/hot-deals-list/" rel="nofollow">Sign up for the Hot Deals Email List</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">MoneySavingMom.com</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">My Instagram account</a> (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!)</li><li>Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

240. Kathrynne shares about her first semester at college

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I hope that you will join me for this exciting and thought-provoking conversation with Shane Standord, author of the book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/JourneyWise-Redeeming-Broken-Winding-Travel/dp/B0BXGHLFBN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=21C821TG49I7Q&keywords=shane+stanford&qid=1702092817&s=books&sprefix=shane+stanford%2Cstripbooks%2C110&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">JourneyWise: Redeeming the Broken &amp; Winding Roads We Travel (The Eight Blessings of the Beatitudes of Jesus)</a>! ​​Shane has a truly powerful story to tell that&#39;s driven by his unwavering faith, strength, and astounding resilience in the face of life&#39;s biggest challenges!He shares about his journey as a grandfather, 30-year pastor, and founder of the West Center for Applied Theology in Memphis, Tennessee, and he tells us about his life-changing encounter with his own mortality at the young age of 16 when he was diagnosed with Hemophilia and HIV. He talks candidly about how he grappled with the prospect of his impending death and how a profound conversation with his grandfather shifted his perspective, setting him on a path to make every day count, grounded in the love of Jesus.Shane also shares how his faith was tested yet solidified during moments of discrimination, injustice, and fear from society due to his health condition. He shares how his belief in the Beatitudes, the wisdom values of Jesus, have offered nourishment and understanding to his journey and how strongly he believes in the need for living our faith intentionally. This is not an episode to pass up, so prepare to have your faith deepened and your perspective on life transformed! In This Episode[0:35] - Today’s guest is Shane Stanford, author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/JourneyWise-Redeeming-Broken-Winding-Travel/dp/B0BXGHLFBN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=21C821TG49I7Q&keywords=shane+stanford&qid=1702092817&s=books&sprefix=shane+stanford%2Cstripbooks%2C110&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">JourneyWise</a>![1:08] - Shane shares a little bit of background information with us.[2:07] - JourneyWise, inspired by Shane&#39;s grandmother&#39;s wisdom and the Beatitudes, emphasizes learning from life&#39;s journey for practical application.[3:04] - Through maintaining a prayer journal for 30 years, Shane underscores the importance of intentional faith in deepening the Christian walk.[4:35] - Shane reveals that he was diagnosed with HIV and Hepatitis C but chose to intentionally live a meaningful life, inspired by his grandfather&#39;s faith-rooted advice.[7:11] - Shane reflects on having coped with his HIV diagnosis by leaning on faith and the support of his resilient wife.[10:18] - Facing rejection over his HIV status, Shane learned the damaging effects of fear-driven decisions while developing empathy for his detractors.[13:21] - Shane explains how he had to differentiate between flawed human responses and the comforting presence of God amidst a broken world.[15:04] - The Beatitudes reveal that true abundance comes from self-emptying and loving boldly, experiencing comfort and life&#39;s depth.[17:44] - Shane adds that the Beatitudes guide a balanced life, navigating tensions between love for God and others, culminating in enduring persecution for faith.[20:25] - Shane lives intentionally, guided daily by important human responsibilities and grounding promises from Jesus, finding his hardships have shaped his values.[22:45] - Shane emphasizes intellectual decision-making guided by God&#39;s promises, explaining it as the true north for daily life especially when emotionally overwhelmed.[25:00] - Shane leaves us with encouragement, that no matter your struggles, remember God&#39;s deep love; embrace hope, address pain, and anticipate healing beyond this life. Links &amp; Resources<a href="http://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a> Books<a href="https://www.amazon.com/JourneyWise-Redeeming-Broken-Winding-Travel/dp/B0BXGHLFBN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=21C821TG49I7Q&keywords=shane+stanford&qid=1702092817&s=books&sprefix=shane+stanford%2Cstripbooks%2C110&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">JourneyWise: Redeeming the Broken &amp; Winding Roads We Travel (The Eight Blessings of the Beatitudes of Jesus) by Shane Stanford</a> Social Media<a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Instagram</a><a href="https://twitter.com/MoneySavingMom?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Twitter</a><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/27859695-crystal-paine" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine on Goodreads</a><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MoneySavingMom/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom on Facebook</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/2123983637929454/" rel="nofollow">Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group</a><a href="mailto:crystal@moneysavingmom.com" rel="nofollow">crystal@moneysavingmom.com</a> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

239. Trusting God When Life is Challenging (with Shane Stanford)

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I am joined this week by Lauren Gaines, author of <a href="https://amzn.to/3Tm8kfK" rel="nofollow">Unshakable Kids: Three Keys to Raising Spiritually Strong and Emotionally Healthy Children</a>. As someone who often discusses emotional language and nurturing emotional health in your kids, I have received many, many questions from moms about teaching these concepts to young kids, so Lauren is joining me today to help me tackle this topic!Lauren is a mother of three with a background in school psychology, and she provides practical insights and resources for parents seeking to instill spiritual strength and emotional resilience in their children. Join us as we delve into the three keys of focusing on the mind, heart, and identity, emphasizing metacognition, emotional intelligence, and building courage and confidence in Christ.Lauren also shares incredibly valuable brain builders and discusses the crucial role of rest in creating a more balanced and peaceful family life. If you&#39;re a parent navigating the challenges of raising spiritually strong and emotionally healthy kids, I hope this episode encourages you and gives you a lot of food for thought.In This Episode[0:35] - Lauren Gaines, author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Unshakable-Kids-Spiritually-Emotionally-Children/dp/1540902455/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2DY8AWBM8Z26C&keywords=unshakeable+kids&qid=1701497157&s=books&sprefix=unshakeable+kids%2Cstripbooks%2C89&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Unshakable Kids</a>, is today’s guest![2:01] - Lauren, a mother of three with a school psychology background, integrates psychology and biblical teachings.[5:35] - What does the phrase “spiritual strength” mean to Lauren?[8:47] - Hear Lauren define what “emotionally healthy” means to her.[10:14] - In her book, Lauren emphasizes the profound impact of the mind and explores emotional health, identity, and practical strategies for parenting.[12:59] - Lauren highlights metacognition, encouraging conversations with kids about the power of words and providing ways to shift negative thought patterns.[15:33] - Lauren delves into methods that teach kids to understand and change thought patterns for emotional well-being.[17:47] - How to boost kids&#39; emotional awareness and promote positive expressions and understanding.[20:19] - It&#39;s important for kids to recognize physical sensations as signals of emotions.[22:49] - How does Lauren navigate homeschooling stress?[24:37] - Lauren guides kids through adversity with a three-step process, emphasizing reflection and aligning beliefs with positivity.[26:46] - How to find quiet moments in your day, even if you have a very full life.[29:01] - Lauren explains that she embraces rest and aligns with biblical teachings for improved well-being.[31:35] - Lauren talks about how they&#39;ve recently restructured their lifestyle and the difference it has made.[33:31] - How slowing down, reflecting, and prioritizing peace over rushing can make such a difference in your home.<h2>Links &amp; Resources</h2><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Unshakable-Kids-Spiritually-Emotionally-Children/dp/1540902455/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2DY8AWBM8Z26C&keywords=unshakeable+kids&qid=1701497157&s=books&sprefix=unshakeable+kids%2Cstripbooks%2C89&sr=1-1" rel="nofollow">Unshakable Kids: Three Keys to Raising Spiritually Strong and Emotionally Healthy Children by Lauren Gaines</a></li><li><a href="https://offers.moneysavingmom.com/free-christmas-gift-guide/" rel="nofollow">FREE Homemade Gift Guide</a></li><li><a href="https://crystalpaine.com/happiermom/" rel="nofollow">10 Days to Be a Happier Mom</a></li><li><a href="https://crystalpaine.com/" rel="nofollow">Crystal Paine</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/hot-deals-list/" rel="nofollow">Sign up for the Hot Deals Email List</a></li><li><a href="https://moneysavingmom.com/" rel="nofollow">MoneySavingMom.com</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/themoneysavingmom/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">My Instagram account</a> (I’d love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I’m pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!)</li><li>Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.com</li></ul> Our Sponsors: * Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style * Check out Homethreads and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: www.homethreads.com * Check out undefined and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: undefined Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

238. Raising Spiritually Strong and Emotionally Healthy Children (with Lauren Gaines)

The Crystal Paine Show is dedicated to helping you embrace life right where you are and take practical steps to get where you want to go.

Crystal says, "My hope is that this podcast will serve as an inspiration to your week, a pause in your day to slow down and reflect a little, a looked-forward-to part of your weekly routine, a place where we can connect on a deeper level… and ultimately, my desire is that you come away from listening to each episode feeling motivated to bloom where you are planted and take intentional steps to move in the direction you are longing to go."

Crystal is a wife, mom of 3, speaker, author, and online entrepreneur, best known for founding MoneySavingMom.com as well as YourBloggingMentor.com.