Wooooooo... A lot of people can relate to this. We all have dated, experienced a break up and hopefully spent some time alone with yourself. You been single for a year, now 4 years have passed... No real urge to date, pick someone to court or further things seriously with anyone. What is it? What is truly, keeping you happy single?

Tonight Jay And I are talking about when good people give up.

https://www.chanbepoddin.com/post/the-top-5-reasons-why-good-people-give-up-on-relationships

#RRR #goodpeople

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Welcome back to Ep 13, of The RRR :

We are discussing a great topic:

Being with a man who possesses high emotional intelligence means encountering a partner who is empathetic, attentive, and understanding.This man requires courage and the willingness to be vulnerable, sharing your innermost thoughts and emotions authentically.

In this episode we talk about what people do not want to discuss, because are they sure what they are asking for?

https://www.chanbepoddin.com/post/understanding-emotional-intelligence-what-does-it-take-to-build-a-relationship-with-an-emotionally

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When we project our dreams onto others, we often overlook the importance of authenticity in relationships. True fulfillment comes from connecting with others on a genuine level, rather than expecting them to fulfill our desires.

1. Instead of relying on others to make your dreams a reality, channel that energy into nurturing your own aspirations.
2. Letting go of the expectation that others will fulfill your dreams, you open up a world of possibilities for personal growth and fulfillment.
3. Growth requires self work too
4. People should not control your personal happiness
5. By relying too heavily on others to fulfill your dreams, you diminish your self-worth and agency.

Y'all will enjoy this episode, press play.

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A lot of relationships back then were not the best but the respect never wavered. Today we are willing to go to therapy, unlearn and leave unhealthy set ups. What did you learn from what you saw growing up? vs what you do now?

#evolve #bebetter

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That's a personal problem stop making it about the other person.

What are you doing individually without that person to improve. Another adult cannot be your life, what is it that interest you?

A lot of being like substance so everyone outside of them turn into personal entertainment.

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Just because a person put up with a lot from you for too long... doesn't mean they have to continue staying. People take good people for granted all the time and that entitlement sinks in.

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Which one are you?

Do you balance out your relationships?

A lot of people are in relationships to take and take from people.

Jay & Chan discuss it all with live messages.

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We had a great discussion on things to think about when you bunny hop around relationships to avoid growing up.

#RRR #grassisntgreener #growup

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Society talks about men being picky for all the wrong reasons, but what about women looking for the ultimate ride? Not that ride nastttyyyyy !!! The ride of no labor, no job needed, no cooking, no cleaning, no helping, no expectations from you... but that man has to make your life perfect. That's not real. What are you willing to help a man with in the relationship?

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It's an "Us" thing, we can't be great solo for long.

We require balance as human beings. In order to show love is a healthy way we need to be loved, in order to show empathy we have to show that for someone else... today Chan wants to talk about the unity of it all.

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Yeah, everyone wants to talk about red flags... but let's talk about the men over 30 green flags for the greater good. Red flags are easy to bring up because it takes no effort to see. Healthy characteristics rarely get talked about.

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#greenflags #men #healthy # RRR

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We had a ball with this topic... every woman doesn't want the man with values and standards...its too much pressure to stand next to.

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#RRR we talking !!!!

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A lot of being talk about the life they want, and the person they want... forgetting it comes with many nights apart...traveling... sacrificing things you may want for a later date. Is that what you want to experience?

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#rrr #season3

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Love is not blind people choose to not see what isn't favorable.

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#loveisnotblind

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These days we see you. Faking the funk.

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It's a choice to ignore the red flags...it's a choice to not self reflect and have boundaries everyday. Picking temporary fun over logical sense... in ya 30's is a no go.

Thank you to Breanna, Dungeon, guests that left messages...

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#RRR #dumbchoices #inlove

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Picking someone based on good connection is healthy and should be the foundation. Yet most people feel stuck and just pick who's around... that's called settling. You be unhappy and stressed the whole time living a lie as if you wanted that life. We know you don't.

We don't want you to settle; we want y'all to choose wisely.

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Lets chat. #dating #settling #choices

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Slow down y'all, pump y'all breaks, y'all barely know these people. We have to be better with ourselves and the spaces we give strangers too fast. You can date but why they know where ya mama stay and got a key in two weeks?

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Welcome back to The Real Relationship Rapport, let's talk about why you all up in ya feelings? For all the wrong reasons.

People assume everyone deserves their energy and they don't.

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A lot of times people think a parter having any control... is a bad thing. It's respect for the partnership more so than control for me. Dungeon also agrees... We are not Jada & Will... we aint Ike or Tina either. Women know who they respect or not... a man you respect doesn't need to control... but there is a mindset that he deserves. A man that respects the relationship shows you in your absence also. Its not one sided.

Lets chat.

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