The Grief Nobody Warns You About When Your Kids Grow Up
21m | Aug 27, 2026"Every new stage will ask you to let go of a version of life you once knew." - Dr. Sonia Chopra
"Just because something is normal doesn't mean it's easy." - Dr. Sonia Chopra
It's August. And I keep asking myself how we got here so fast.
This is the year of the fire horse, and honestly, that's exactly what it feels like. Galloping. Through work, through family, through technology, through versions of myself I barely have time to say goodbye to. My kids are driving now. My parents are getting older. My career looks nothing like it did ten years ago. And none of it is wrong. That's the strange part. Nothing is wrong, but everything feels different.
So this episode isn't me solving anything. It's me sitting in the middle of it and being honest. About the motherhood that's changing shape under my hands. About the anxiety that didn't shrink when my kids got older, it got deeper. About sitting at a funeral and suddenly seeing time so clearly it took my breath away. And about the question I can't stop asking: has life always felt this fast, or is something actually different now?
Today on University of Why:
- The fire horse year, and why this season feels like holding the reins at full gallop
- From my first Nokia to AI: how each wave of technology moved faster than the last, and what it's asking of our nervous systems
- Why motherhood gets harder in a completely different way when your kids stop needing you the same way
- The grief hiding inside a perfectly healthy milestone, and why it's okay to feel it
- What I saw looking around the room at a funeral, and how it changed my relationship with time
- Whether every generation felt the world changing too fast, or if we're truly the first to feel it all at once
- Why noticing a season, without fixing it, might be exactly enough
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