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Back to School Series: How to Get Your Son to Open Up (The Side-By-Side Secret)

4m | Sep 24, 2026

Ever sit your son down for a heart-to-heart, only to get one-word answers like "fine," "nothing," or "I don't know"? You're not alone! In this quick 5-minute parent coaching episode, part of our Back to School Series, host Dr. Richelle Whittaker shares a game-changing shift in how you approach communication with your son.

Building on insights from licensed professional counselor Michael Dangerfield, Dr. Richelle explains why face-to-face eye contact can shut young men down and how side-by-side conversations create the emotional safety boys need to open up. Learn how to turn everyday activities into pressure-free connection moments and prepare your son to become a confident, communicative adult, partner, and father.

Key Takeaways & Parent Challenge

  • Ditch "We Need to Talk": Why these four words instantly put boys on the defensive.
  • The Power of Side-by-Side Connection: Why riding in the car, cooking dinner, or shooting baskets leads to deeper, more honest conversations.
  • Observe and Wait: How to replace interrogation with simple observations—and why learning to sit in silence is key.
  • Building Future Leaders: How practicing pressure-free communication today prepares your son for healthy adult relationships, friendships, and careers tomorrow.
  • Weekly Action Step: Try one side-by-side conversation this week without announcing it, make an observation, and give him the space to respond.


🎟️ Join Us Live: Raising Sons Brunch!

If topics like this help you think differently about parenting your boy, you don't have to do it alone! Join Dr. Richelle Whittaker and a community of incredible mothers on October 17th for the next Raising Sons Brunch. It’s a dedicated space to connect, learn, and have honest conversations about what it really takes to raise great men.

  • When: October 17th
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Disclaimer: Dr. Richelle is a therapist, but she is not your therapist. All information provided is not to be taken as therapy.


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