Welcome to Let&#39;s Not Sugarcoat It, a podcast about the real, raw and unfiltered side of life. Your hosts Bella and Lee, a husband and wife team who work and play together, aren&#39;t afraid to ask the hard questions with engaging conversations about relationships, communication, marriage, business, and more. Join the conversation every Wednesday for high-energy banter, interviews and shenanigan&#39;s! Get ready to peel back the curtain and remove the sugarcoating on the &#34;Perfect&#34; life.

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Tired of spending 45 minutes prepping a &#34;convenience&#34; meal kit after a long workday? In this episode of Let&#39;s Not Sugar Coat It, Bella sits down with Lani Stroder, founder of Lani&#39;s Kitchen, for a raw conversation about what it actually takes to feed a busy family wholesome, scratch-made food without losing your mind. Lani spent 25 years in the culinary world before launching Lani&#39;s Kitchen to solve a problem every busy parent faces: the invisible mental load of meal planning, grocery shopping, and endless cooking. Bella and Lani dive into the impact of seed oils, sugar, and inflammatory triggers on gut health and eczema, why most North American kids&#39; menus are full of processed filler, and the reality of running a family business where her teenage kids work full-time in the kitchen. Connect with Our Guest:<ul><li>Website: <a href="https://laniskitchen.ca/" rel="nofollow">laniskitchen.ca</a></li><li>  </li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/laniskitchenkelowna" rel="nofollow">@laniskitchenkelowna</a></li><li>  </li><li>Email: info@laniskitchen.ca </li><li> </li></ul>Connect with Bella &amp; Lee:<ul><li>Website: <a href="https://letsnotsugarcoatit.com/" rel="nofollow">letsnotsugarcoatit.com</a></li><li>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@LetsNotSugarCoatItPodcast" rel="nofollow">@LetsNotSugarCoatItPodcast</a></li></ul>

Building a Scratch-Made Food Empire: Lani Stroder on Business & Gut Health

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We’ve all been told that if you have anxiety, trauma, or relationship conflict, you just need to &#34;talk it out.&#34; But what if endlessly rehashing your story in a therapist&#39;s office is actually trapping you in your head and keeping your nervous system stuck in fight-or-flight?About the Episode: In this episode of Let&#39;s Not Sugar Coat It, Bella sits down with Shyloe Fayad - a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (using Dr. Peter Levine&#39;s body-based trauma model), school counselor, and neurodivergence expert. Raising four neurodivergent children as a single mom while navigating her own 20-year journey through depression, Shyloe brings raw, lived experience to body-based healing.Together, Bella and Shyloe cut through the intellectual fluff to discuss:<ul><li>Why traditional talk therapy can act like an &#34;addiction&#34; loop for trauma.</li><li>How stored trauma and incomplete protective responses manifest physically in the body.</li><li>The myth of gentle parenting and why neurodivergent kids desperately need healthy boundaries.</li><li>Perimenopause rage, estrogen drops, and the sudden urge to stop over-functioning for everyone.</li><li>Generational trauma, sensory overload, and simple grounding techniques to reset a dysregulated nervous system in real-time.</li><li>reaction</li></ul> <h3>🔗 Connect with Our Guest:</h3><ul><li>Website: <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https%3A%2F%2Fradicalwondering.ca" rel="nofollow">radicalwondering.ca</a></li><li>Special Audience Promo: Use code NOSUGAR2026 at booking for 25% off a 3-session bundle.</li></ul><h3>🎙️ Connect with Bella &amp; Lee:</h3><ul><li>Website: <a href="https://letsnotsugarcoatit.com/" rel="nofollow">letsnotsugarcoatit.com</a></li><li>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@LetsNotSugarCoatItPodcast" rel="nofollow">@LetsNotSugarCoatItPodcast</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Flets.not.sugarcoat.it.podcast" rel="nofollow">@lets.not.sugarcoat.it.podcast</a></li></ul>

Why Talk Therapy Is Failing Neurodivergent Minds | Somatic Experiencing

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Is your best relationship behind you, or has it just not happened yet because you weren&#39;t ready for it? Welcome back to Let&#39;s Not Sugar Coat It!  About the Episode: In this episode, Bella and Lee sit down with Sandy Weiner founder of Last First Date, relationship coach, and host to dissect what really happens to love, intimacy, and marriage in the second half of life.  Why are &#34;gray divorces&#34; at an all-time high? Why do women tend to &#34;amp up&#34; in their 40s while men &#34;amp down&#34;? And why are so many people settling for mediocre partnerships just to avoid the fear of being alone?  We dive deep into:<ul><li>The real reasons behind mid-life relationship breakdowns and &#34;gray divorce&#34;. </li><li>Dating yourself first: How to build a life you love instead of dating from scarcity. </li><li>The truth about why older men date younger women (and why women go for younger men). </li><li>How to spot the most underrated green flags in modern dating. </li><li>Reinventing yourself after 40, 50, and beyond without fear or shame. </li><li>Navigating the &#34;disposable&#34; swipe culture without losing your mind.</li><li> </li><li>  </li></ul>🔗 Connect with Our Guest:<ul><li>Website: <a href="https://lastfirstdate.com/" rel="nofollow">lastfirstdate.com</a></li><li>  </li><li>Podcast: Last First Date Radio </li></ul>🎙️ Connect with Bella &amp; Lee:<ul><li>Website: <a href="https://letsnotsugarcoatit.com/" rel="nofollow">letsnotsugarcoatit.com</a></li><li>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@LetsNotSugarCoatItPodcast" rel="nofollow">@LetsNotSugarCoatItPodcast</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Flets.not.sugarcoat.it.podcast" rel="nofollow">@lets.not.sugarcoat.it.podcast</a></li></ul>#DatingAfter40 #GrayDivorce #SandyWeiner #LetsNotSugarCoatIt #MidLifeRelationships #SelfLove #ModernDating

Does love actually start after 40?

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Why do intelligent, self-aware people stay trapped in painful, repetitive relationship patterns? In this episode of Let&#39;s Not Sugar Coat It, Bella and Lee sit down with relationship and surrender coach Katarina Phang to break down the hard truths about modern love.About the Episode: Katarina rejects cookie-cutter &#34;dating hacks,&#34; formulas, and coddling therapy speak. Instead, she reveals why extreme polarity, expanding your awareness, and mastering the art of &#34;dying to the past&#34; are the real keys to fixing broken relationship dynamics.In this episode, Bella, Lee, and Katarina dive deep into:<ul><li>Why trying to &#34;fix&#34; your partner always backfires.</li><li>The difference between healthy detachment and emotional abandonment.</li><li>How female control and nagging destroy a partner&#39;s desire to lead.</li><li>The real root of relationship &#34;nagging&#34; (unmet needs vs. lack of accountability).</li><li>Why avoiding conflict is a slow-motion divorce.</li><li>How to let go of past resentment and show up present in your marriage.</li></ul>Whether you are navigating a long-term marriage, dealing with perimenopause shifts, or trying to break a cycle of emotionally unavailable partners, this conversation gives you the exact reality check you need.<h3>🔗 Connect with Our Guest:</h3><ul><li>Website: <a href="https://katarinaphang.com" rel="nofollow">katarinaphang.com</a></li></ul> <h3>🎙️ Connect with Bella &amp; Lee:</h3><ul><li>Website: <a href="https://letsnotsugarcoatit.com/" rel="nofollow">letsnotsugarcoatit.com</a></li><li>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@LetsNotSugarCoatItPodcast" rel="nofollow">@LetsNotSugarCoatItPodcast</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lets.not.sugarcoat.it.podcast" rel="nofollow">@lets.not.sugarcoat.it.podcast</a></li></ul>

Why "Therapy Speak" Is Ruining Your Marriage

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Are you actually healing, or are you just addicted to the idea of fixing yourself? Welcome back to Season 4 of Let&#39;s Not Sugar Coat It!About the Episode: In this unfiltered season premiere, Bella and Lee sit down with Kirsten Davidson, a Registered Psychotherapist and founder of Mind the Gap Psychotherapy. We are diving deep into the uncomfortable truths that mainstream self-help completely glosses over.Kirsten breaks down why traditional mental health diagnoses can sometimes keep us trapped in boxes, how talk therapy can accidentally become a loop to justify staying the same, and the hidden danger of the &#34;strong, independent&#34; identity that leads to emotional numbing. If you’re tired of surface-level advice and want to understand how to actually move the needle in your marriage, your trauma recovery, and your self-awareness—this episode is for you.&#34;Therapy isn&#39;t about becoming this perfect version of yourself. It&#39;s about unbecoming all the things you are not.&#34; — Kirsten Davidson🔗 Connect with Our Guest:Website: https://mindthegaps.co/📩 Join our newsletter/community:https://letsnotsugarcoatit.com/signup🌐 Learn more about our work: https://thepiccoinstitute.com/With love,Bella &amp; LeeAbout UsWe, Izabela &amp; Lee Picco, are real-life partners in marriage and business. We turned our breakdown into a breakthrough…a global mission and undeniable success.Don’t forget to follow us and share the episodes so we can reach more amazing people like you! We appreciate you spending this time with us.<blockquote> </blockquote>

Psychotherapist Explains: Healing Trauma, Relationship Conflicts & Toxic Healing Loops

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Before we begin Season 4, we wanted to take a moment to reflect on some of the most powerful conversations from Season 3 of Let’s Not Sugar Coat It.This special wrap up clip brings together highlights from four different episodes and explores the themes that came up again and again this season: relationships, family dynamics, entrepreneurship, burnout, women’s health, hormones, healing, identity, and navigating real life in a world that often wants quick fixes and easy answers.Season 3 gave us honest conversations, strong opinions, personal stories, and a lot to think about. This wrap up is a look back at the moments that stood out most before we take a short break and return with Season 4.Season 4 returns after a 2 week break.

Season 3 Wrap Up Best Moments from Let’s Not Sugar Coat It

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Emotional eating is not just about food. It is often connected to trauma, triggers, nervous system patterns, and deeply wired emotional responses.In this clip, we talk about how food can become a coping mechanism for stress, celebration, anxiety, pressure, grief, and self worth struggles. We also unpack why these patterns are not just about willpower and why healing them takes awareness, compassion, and time.If you have ever found yourself reaching for food without really being hungry, this conversation may help you understand why.

Why Emotional Eating Is Not Just About Food

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Conflict is not what destroys a relationship. Destructive conflict does. In this clip, we talk about how healthy conflict can actually serve the relationship when both people stop trying to win and start trying to find a better path forward together. We also unpack why small moments of care, acknowledgment, and thoughtfulness matter so much when rebuilding connection. If you have ever felt stuck in the same arguments or like your partner does not really see you, this conversation will hit home.

Healthy Conflict Can Save a Relationship

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In this episode of Let’s Not Sugarcoat It, Bella and Lee sit down with Ian Chisholm, founder and partner of Roy Group, a Victoria based leadership development firm that helps organizations build stronger leaders, deeper mentorship cultures, and more resilient teams.Ian is also the author of Quiet Champions: A Way Forward for Mentors in Turbulent Times, a book about mentorship, presence, leadership, and the quiet people who help others become who they are meant to be.This conversation explores leadership beyond titles, mentorship beyond advice, and why the leaders who matter most are not always the loudest people in the room. Ian shares what it means to work with your partner in business and life, how leaders can use reflection, inquiry, pause, and action, and why mentorship is one of the oldest and most powerful ways humans develop each other.Bella, Lee, and Ian also talk about vulnerability in leadership, emotional honesty, the difference between reacting and responding, why leaders need trusted people around them, and how mentors help others make sense of their experience without taking over their path.

The Quiet Leaders Who Change Everything

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In this episode of Let’s Not Sugarcoat It, Bella sits down with Amy Nicole Cohen, founder of The Chic Experience, to talk about The Summit, a two day Business and Leadership Festival happening June 4 and 5, 2026 at Sandhill Wines in Kelowna, BC. Use code FRIENDS15 for 15 percent off your ticket. Event details:The Summit by The Chic ExperienceJune 4 and 5, 2026Sandhill Wines, Kelowna, BCTickets and details: The Chic Experience website Amy shares the vision behind The Summit, why she created an immersive business festival instead of a traditional conference, and why community, collaboration, leadership, and intentional connection are still some of the most powerful drivers of business growth. The Summit is designed for entrepreneurs, executives, founders, small business owners, professionals, and leaders who want to think bigger, lead stronger, build meaningful relationships, and grow with intention. The event includes two stages, keynote sessions, expert panels, breakout sessions, curated networking, hot seat coaching, professional headshots, a marketplace, business activations, outdoor happy hour, live music, and more. Bella and Amy also discuss why showing up in the right room matters, how relationships become real business opportunities, why networking should go deeper than exchanging business cards, and how local business communities can create momentum when people are willing to connect with heart, purpose, and strategy. The Chic Experience was founded by Amy Nicole to create elevated events and immersive experiences that bring ambitious people together to connect, grow, and up level personally and professionally.

Canada’s First Business Festival Is Coming to Kelowna

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In this episode of Let’s Not Sugarcoat It, Bella and Lee sit down with Katharina and David Kunz for a raw and grounded conversation about functional mushrooms, psilocybin, natural wellness, personal growth, and the healing intelligence of nature. They discuss the difference between functional mushrooms and psilocybin mushrooms, why mushrooms have been used in traditional wellness practices for generations, and how mushrooms like lion’s mane, reishi, chaga, cordyceps, turkey tail, shiitake, and maitake are being explored for focus, energy, immune support, gut health, stress support, and overall wellbeing. This conversation also explores psilocybin from a personal growth perspective, including intention, set and setting, guided journeys, integration, surrender, control, emotional healing, and the importance of not treating the experience as a quick fix. Bella also shares her personal experience with a guided psilocybin journey, what it revealed about control, loneliness, and connection, and how integration became the real work after the experience. Katharina shares the story behind Liquid Aura, her functional mushroom blends, and why she created a product experience that combines mushroom education, wellness support, meditation, and inner work. David shares the science behind full spectrum mushrooms, mycelium, mushroom fruiting bodies, cordyceps, lion’s mane, adaptogens, and why sourcing and quality matter when choosing mushroom supplements. Topics covered in this episode: Functional mushrooms versus psilocybin mushroomsWhat full spectrum mushrooms meanLion’s mane, reishi, chaga, cordyceps, turkey tail, shiitake, and maitakeMushrooms and gut healthMushrooms and immune supportCordyceps for energy and staminaLion’s mane and brain health researchTurkey tail and cancer related researchAdaptogens and stress supportWhy mushroom quality and sourcing matterPsilocybin, intention, and guided journeysSet and settingIntegration after a psychedelic experienceLetting go of controlPersonal growth and inner healingNature, wellness, and reconnecting with yourselfHow mushrooms can affect relationships and self awareness Disclaimer: This episode is for education and personal storytelling only. It is not medical advice, legal advice, or a recommendation to use psilocybin. Psilocybin laws vary by location, and in Canada psilocybin remains a controlled substance except through limited legal pathways such as clinical trials and Health Canada’s Special Access Program. Always speak with a qualified health professional before using supplements, functional mushrooms, or exploring psychedelic assisted therapy.

Functional Mushrooms, Psilocybin, and the Healing Power of Nature

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In a world obsessed with automation, funnels, and nonstop call to actions, this is a reminder that real business still comes from real relationships.In this clip, we talk about the lost art of genuine connection, face to face conversations, and why some of the best business opportunities still happen naturally through trust, presence, and relationship building.This is not about chasing people. It is about showing up, connecting for real, and letting business grow from there.

The Lost Art of Genuine Relationship Building in Business

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How much of your life are you living for yourself and how much of it is still being shaped by other people’s opinions, judgments, and validation? In this clip, we unpack why so many people stay stuck trying to manage how they are seen instead of creating a life that is actually aligned with who they are. We talk about identity, projection, gossip, self worth, discipline, devotion, and why real freedom starts when you stop outsourcing your value. This is a powerful conversation about letting go of conditioning, releasing old stories, and choosing a life that feels true instead of performative.

Why Other People’s Validation Is Keeping You Stuck

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So many people want a different life, better relationships, more peace, and new results, but they are still carrying old pain, old stories, and a dysregulated nervous system. In this clip, Jordan Power and Izabela Picco talk about why real change starts deeper than mindset alone. Before you can shift your reality, you may need to regulate your nervous system, release what is stored in the body, and stop dragging the past into the future. This is a powerful conversation about healing, breathwork, trauma, emotional release, manifestation, and what it really means to let go.

Why You Cannot Change Your Life Until You Regulate Your Nervous System

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Women face constant pressure to look a certain way, age a certain way, and somehow keep up with impossible standards. In this clip, we talk about why strength training is about far more than appearance. This conversation explores aging, perimenopause, mental health, motivation, discipline, and why building muscle supports confidence, resilience, and longevity. The goal is not perfection. The goal is to feel stronger, think clearer, and build a healthier life that supports you for the long run. Strength training does not have to mean spending hours in the gym. Even a few focused sessions a week can make a real difference in how you feel, how you handle stress, and how you show up in every other part of life. Listen this short clip for a powerful reminder that wellness is not about looking perfect. It is about building strength for the life ahead.

Why Building Muscle Matters More Than Ever

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In this short episode, Amber Romaniuk shares a powerful conversation on emotional eating, food addiction, sugar cravings, and the deeper triggers that keep people stuck in unhealthy patterns with food.This clip explores why awareness alone is not enough, how discomfort is often part of healing, and why understanding your triggers can be the real starting point for change. Amber also talks about the connection between stress, fatigue, hormones, cravings, and the cycle of using food for comfort.If you’ve ever felt trapped in food noise, binge eating patterns, emotional eating, or constant dieting, this conversation offers a more grounded and healing-centered perspective.In this clip:<ul><li>Emotional eating triggers</li><li>Food addiction and sugar cravings</li><li>Why discomfort is part of healing</li><li>The role of fatigue, stress, and hormones</li><li>Moving beyond quick fixes</li><li>Learning to rebuild trust with your body</li></ul> Watch, reflect, and share this with someone who needs a healthier perspective on healing their relationship with food.

Break Emotional Eating Patterns and Heal Your Relationship With Food

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In this quick episode of Let’s Not Sugar Coat It Podcast, Bella &amp; Lee with Lynnette Astaire break down intermittent fasting, weight loss, protein for women over 40, and why so much health advice online feels overwhelming.They talk about the difference between intermittent fasting and longer fasting periods, how fasting can support weight control and portion awareness, and why building a healthy lifestyle has to be realistic and sustainable. The conversation also dives into the huge push around protein marketing, what women actually need, and why listening to your body matters more than following every trend.This episode is for anyone trying to make sense of:<ul><li>intermittent fasting for women</li><li>fasting for weight loss</li><li>protein for women over 40</li><li>sustainable health habits</li><li>realistic wellness routines</li><li>healthy lifestyle changes that actually fit real life</li></ul> Bella and Lynnette also touch on how habits, routines, seasons, schedules, and personal lifestyle all play a role in long-term wellness. This is a grounded conversation about health without the hype.

Intermittent Fasting for Women Over 40 | Weight Loss, Protein Myths & Healthy Lifestyle Tips

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What if the way you talk to yourself is shaping how you heal, process pain, and regulate your nervous system? In this clip, Dr. Paige Roberts joins Lee Picco and Izabela Picco for a powerful conversation on self-talk, shame, emotional processing, trauma responses, sleep, dreaming, and nervous system regulation. They explore why toxic positivity can keep people stuck, how to shift internal dialogue without bypassing real feelings, why the body holds emotional experiences, and why sleep may be one of the biggest indicators of overall nervous system health. This segment also dives into: <ul><li>the difference between healthy self-talk and shame-based thinking</li><li>why environment can affect how we process emotions</li><li>how unresolved experiences can show up as rumination</li><li>why dreaming and deep sleep matter more than most people realize</li><li>whether sleeping with noise is helping or hurting your rest</li></ul> This is a thought-provoking conversation for anyone interested in emotional healing, trauma awareness, nervous system health, and personal growth. Listen the full episode for the deeper conversation.

How Self-Talk Affects Trauma, Sleep and Nervous System Regulation

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Can one person save a marriage? Why do so many couples feel disconnected even when they still care about each other? And what actually helps when a relationship feels stuck or broken? In this episode of Let’s Not Sugarcoat It, Bella and Lee sit down with Lee Baucom, PhD, creator of the Save the Marriage System, relationship coach, author, and host of the Save the Marriage Podcast. Together, they unpack why so many marriages break down, why traditional couples therapy does not always work, and how couples can begin rebuilding connection before disconnection turns into crisis. Lee shares his perspective on the real issue beneath many struggling marriages: not communication, but disconnection. He explains how couples often “hit the pause button” on their relationship while focusing on career, parenting, responsibilities, and life stress — only to later realize they have drifted apart. This conversation covers marriage recovery, emotional safety, conflict, mattering, consistency, reconnection, and how one person can begin changing the relationship dynamic. In this episode, we talk about: <ul><li>why marriages break down over time</li><li>why communication is often not the real problem</li><li>why traditional marriage counseling may not always help</li><li>whether one person can start saving a marriage</li><li>what “hitting pause” in a relationship looks like</li><li>how to rebuild connection in small, practical ways</li><li>why feeling like you matter is essential in marriage</li><li>how couples can move forward instead of trying to go back</li></ul> If your marriage feels distant, stuck, or like you are living in maintenance mode, this episode offers both hope and practical insight. Because healthy relationships do not fall apart overnight. And they do not heal overnight either. They heal through intention, consistency, and learning how to reconnect. Connect with Lee Baucom:Save the Marriage: SaveTheMarriage.comUnpause Your Marriage: UnpauseYourMarriage.com

Episode 157 | How to Save a Marriage When It Feels Broken | Lee Baucom on Marriage Recovery & Connection

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In Part 2 of this conversation, Bella and Lee continue their discussion with Stephen Paul Edwards, author of Venus Flytrap: Madness and Mayhem, moving beyond the story and into the deeper lessons around healing, communication, self-worth, and conscious relationships.This episode explores what happens after the chaos when you begin reflecting on your patterns, learning to be alone, recognizing where you have abandoned yourself, and rebuilding healthier ways of relating. Bella, Lee, and Stephen also unpack communication in marriage, emotional safety, masculine and feminine dynamics, self-awareness, and what it really takes to grow together instead of apart. In this episode, we talk about: • healing after toxic relationships • journaling and reflection • learning to be alone without feeling lonely • self-worth and identity in relationships • healthy communication and emotional safety • red flags, boundaries, and self-abandonment • masculine and feminine roles in modern relationships • what real partnership looks like over time If you are healing from heartbreak, trying to understand your patterns, or wanting to build a healthier relationship with yourself or someone else, this episode is for you.

How to Stop Losing Yourself in Relationships | Stephen Paul Edwards | Part 2

Welcome to Let's Not Sugarcoat It, a podcast about the real, raw and unfiltered side of life. Your hosts Bella and Lee, a husband and wife team who work and play together,  aren't afraid to ask the hard questions with engaging conversations about relationships, communication, marriage, business, and more. Join the conversation every Wednesday for high-energy banter, interviews and shenanigan's! Get ready to peel back the curtain and remove the sugarcoating on the "Perfect" life.