#281 What You Are Not Changing, You Are Choosing - Relationship Edition

If you are continuing to make the same choices that are making you miserable, then you are choosing to be miserable — and the cost of staying in a relationship and resisting, trying to change your partner without making a real choice about whether to stay or go, is costing your mental health, your physical health, your time, and ultimately your life. In this episode, we explore the paradox of remaining in limbo, why all your effort to change your partner has not worked and will not work, and why you actually have only two real choices: stay and find your own wholeness within it, or leave and build a different life. Either way, you are going through something hard, but at least you are making a conscious choice.