Each week, husband and wife team, Jeff (MA Org.L) and Terra (MA LPC, LMFT) Mattson, will answer your BIG and small questions about raising kids in today’s anxious world. With 20 years of experience in marriage and family therapy, professional counseling, leadership development, and pastoral ministry, they bridge the gap between Biblical, clinical, and relational wisdom. Nothing is off the table! Though God says he will never leave or forsake us, sometimes we just need a few friends to help us run our race well. Consider the Mattsons your personal parenting coaches, bringing you practical how-tos that will help you lead your children with greater integrity, always rooted in grace, and remind you that YOU are the right person for this job. Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Saying no is hard and mom guilt is real, but we were not made to do everything. Join us as we talk through setting up a support system, language to use when you are put on the spot, and choosing what to commit to.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> Is doing it all what God asked you to do?: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/is-doing-it-all-what-god-asked-you-to-do/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/is-doing-it-all-what-god-asked-you-to-do/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Learning to be in the no: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/learning-to-be-in-the-no/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/learning-to-be-in-the-no/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Pleasing God, not people: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/pleasing-god-not-people/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/pleasing-god-not-people/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Saying no is hard and mom guilt is real, but we were not made to do everything. Join us as we talk through setting up a support system, language to use when you are put on the spot, and choosing what to commit to.   Check out these similar...

How to avoid over committing and say No

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Watching your child be mistreated is heartbreaking at any age, and we are here to walk this journey with you. Join us as we discuss how to ask healthy questions, listen, and try to understand why your adult child is choosing an unhealthy relationship.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> How do I tell my adult daughter I don’t like her boyfriend: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=25&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&v=vyAhGBAmrDQ" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vyAhGBAmrDQ&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=25</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Learning to trust God with your adult children: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/learning-to-trust-god-with-your-adult-children/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/learning-to-trust-god-with-your-adult-children/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Dr. Michelle Watson: <a href="https://www.drmichellewatson.com/blog" rel="nofollow">https://www.drmichellewatson.com/blog</a> </li> </ul> Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Watching your child be mistreated is heartbreaking at any age, and we are here to walk this journey with you. Join us as we discuss how to ask healthy questions, listen, and try to understand why your adult child is choosing an unhealthy relationship....

What to do when your adult child is in an unhealthy relationship

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What do you do if your teen is eating unhealthy, not exercising and gaining a lot of weight? Join us as we talk through how to engage your teen, find a fun way to incorporate exercise into the day, and encourage healthing eating without negatively impacting your child’s self esteem.    Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> How to help our kids fight body shame: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=35&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&t=13s&v=yZQSWagXi_s" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZQSWagXi_s&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&amp;index=35&amp;t=13s</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Three ways to model a healthy body image for your daughter: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/three-ways-to-model-a-healthy-body-image-for-your-daughter/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/three-ways-to-model-a-healthy-body-image-for-your-daughter/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Teaching our kids how to view food: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/teaching-our-kids-how-to-view-food/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/teaching-our-kids-how-to-view-food/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

What do you do if your teen is eating unhealthy, not exercising and gaining a lot of weight? Join us as we talk through how to engage your teen, find a fun way to incorporate exercise into the day, and encourage healthing eating without negatively...

Encouraging my child to eat healthy and exercise without making it about appearance

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Teaching manners is always a challenge, but when one parent doesn’t model the behaviors you are trying to encourage in your child, it is extra challenging. Join us as we talk through tips on teaching your son to be a gentleman and discussions to have with your spouse to parent as a team.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> Three character qualities that set your kids up for success: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/3-character-qualities-that-set-your-kids-up-for-success/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/3-character-qualities-that-set-your-kids-up-for-success/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> What your son needs most from you now: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=20&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&t=24s&v=SSq6U2c_AFM" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSq6U2c_AFM&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&amp;index=20&amp;t=24s</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Manners Matter: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/podcasts-post/manners-matter/" rel="nofollow">https://www.christianparenting.org/podcasts-post/manners-matter/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Teaching manners is always a challenge, but when one parent doesn’t model the behaviors you are trying to encourage in your child, it is extra challenging. Join us as we talk through tips on teaching your son to be a gentleman and discussions to...

How to teach manners and raise a gentleman

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What do you do when your child has a hard time getting up in the morning and their attitude affects the whole family? Join us as we talk through strategies to set up a calm morning routine, conversations to have the night before, and how to rewire the brain to look forward to getting up in the morning.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> Helping moms raise confident daughters: <a href="https://www.cpguides.org/" rel="nofollow">https://www.cpguides.org/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> How do I help my kids with big emotions: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=3&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&t=9s&v=3LFjLYA0c-8" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3LFjLYA0c-8&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=3&amp;t=9s</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Raising grateful kids: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/raising-grateful-kids-three-ways-to-practice-gratitude/" rel="nofollow">https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/raising-grateful-kids-three-ways-to-practice-gratitude/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

What do you do when your child has a hard time getting up in the morning and their attitude affects the whole family? Join us as we talk through strategies to set up a calm morning routine, conversations to have the night before, and how to rewire the...

What to do when your child is NOT a morning person

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Shy and introverted children are wired to need more information and tend to be more cautious in new situations. We will encourage you to practice and talk through social situations at home, learn what introverts need and speak life into your child and their wiring.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> How do I get my introverted child to communicate with me?: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=48&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&v=h95dVDrs2GQ" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h95dVDrs2GQ&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=48</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Helping our kids overcome fear: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=40&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&v=5UfMN78Huyc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5UfMN78Huyc&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&amp;index=40</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> How to guide your family through life’s hard things: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/how-to-guide-your-family-through-lifes-hard-things/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/how-to-guide-your-family-through-lifes-hard-things/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Shy and introverted children are wired to need more information and tend to be more cautious in new situations. We will encourage you to practice and talk through social situations at home, learn what introverts need and speak life into your child and...

How do I help my shy child engage with others?

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Teaching your children to understand their design and wiring will help set them up for success in life. In this episode we will talk through the language to use when parenting a perfectionist, physical outlets when frustration sets in and how to help your child have a kingdom mindset.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> How do I help my kids with big emotions?: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=3&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&t=71s&v=3LFjLYA0c-8" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3LFjLYA0c-8&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=3&amp;t=71s</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> How to ease the press for perfection in your parenting: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/how-to-ease-the-press-for-perfection-in-your-parenting/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/how-to-ease-the-press-for-perfection-in-your-parenting/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Parenting overwhelmed children: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/parenting-overwhelmed-children-using-gods-story-to-help-navigate-big-emotions/" rel="nofollow">https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/parenting-overwhelmed-children-using-gods-story-to-help-navigate-big-emotions/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Teaching your children to understand their design and wiring will help set them up for success in life. In this episode we will talk through the language to use when parenting a perfectionist, physical outlets when frustration sets in and how to help...

Parenting a perfectionist

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Managing sibling rivalry can be exhausting, but teaching your kids to fight well will set them up for success as adults. Join us as we talk through tips to help your children cool down and teach true reconciliation.   Check out these similar resources:    <ul> <li dir="ltr"> Stop the sibling rivalry: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=27&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&v=ma_5W99C3uA" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ma_5W99C3uA&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=27</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Sibling Rivalry: How to survive daily conflict: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/sibling-rivalry-how-to-to-survive-daily-conflict/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/sibling-rivalry-how-to-to-survive-daily-conflict/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Teaching your kids to fight well: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=24&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&v=pg6bC_ObwPE" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pg6bC_ObwPE&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&amp;index=24</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Managing sibling rivalry can be exhausting, but teaching your kids to fight well will set them up for success as adults. Join us as we talk through tips to help your children cool down and teach true reconciliation.   Check out these similar...

Help! My kids fight all of the time.

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When you have multiple kids, it can be easy to find yourself comparing them to their siblings. Join us as we encourage you to share with your child their unique contributions to the family, ask the Lord who he made each of your children to be and lean on each family member&#39;s strengths.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> Trusting God’s plan for my kids: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=7&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&t=1s&v=fbTyoz-_X9E" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbTyoz-_X9E&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&amp;index=7&amp;t=1s</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Helping our children love each other well: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/helping-our-children-love-each-other-well/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/helping-our-children-love-each-other-well/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Running into grace: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/running-into-grace/" rel="nofollow">https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/running-into-grace/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

When you have multiple kids, it can be easy to find yourself comparing them to their siblings. Join us as we encourage you to share with your child their unique contributions to the family, ask the Lord who he made each of your children to be and lean...

How do I let my kids know I value them as individuals?

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Homework can be a frustrating battle where both you and your child end up in tears. Join us as we talk through ideas to set up a homework routine, fight negative self-talk and stay engaged with your child and teachers.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> Helping moms raise confident daughters: <a href="https://www.cpguides.org/" rel="nofollow">https://www.cpguides.org/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Five things to remember as your kids start school: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/five-things-to-remember-as-your-kids-start-school/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/five-things-to-remember-as-your-kids-start-school/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> 10 truths middle schoolers should know: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/10-truths-middle-schoolers-should-know/" rel="nofollow">https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/10-truths-middle-schoolers-should-know/</a> </li> </ul>

Homework can be a frustrating battle where both you and your child end up in tears. Join us as we talk through ideas to set up a homework routine, fight negative self-talk and stay engaged with your child and teachers.   Check out these similar...

Help! Homework is a constant battle in our home.

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When it comes to introducing new boyfriends/girlfriends into your kids&#39; lives, the key is to take it slow and listen to your kids. We will encourage you to have open conversations with your kids, honor their pacing and be careful about infusing your lives too quickly.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> How do I help my kids deal with divorce: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=52&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&t=29s&v=Bet0-1rmNas" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bet0-1rmNas&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=52&amp;t=29s</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Helping your kids with the home is splintered: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/helping-your-kids-when-the-home-is-splintered/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/helping-your-kids-when-the-home-is-splintered/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Guiding my girls as a solo mom: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/guiding-my-girls-as-a-solo-mom/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/guiding-my-girls-as-a-solo-mom/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

When it comes to introducing new boyfriends/girlfriends into your kids' lives, the key is to take it slow and listen to your kids. We will encourage you to have open conversations with your kids, honor their pacing and be careful about infusing your...

How to navigate dating as a divorced parent

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Grandparents are a huge blessing to our children, but sometimes they use different discipline techniques and methods.   Join us as we talk through how to have hard conversations with parents and in-laws, the importance of affirming their love and contribution, and when it is time to set boundaries.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Updated-Expanded-When-Control/dp/0310351804/ref=sr_1_1?crid=31WZU5SN48L0K&keywords=Boundaries&qid=1681830884&sprefix=boundaries%2Caps%2C311&sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/teaching-kids-about-boundaries/" rel="nofollow">Teaching kids about boundaries</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/teaching-kids-about-boundaries/" rel="nofollow">How do I set boundaries with my parents and in-laws?</a> </li> </ul>

Grandparents are a huge blessing to our children, but sometimes they use different discipline techniques and methods.   Join us as we talk through how to have hard conversations with parents and in-laws, the importance of affirming their love and...

How do we encourage our parenting practices with grandparents?

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When it comes to preschoolers, you have to pick and choose which battles are worth fighting. Join us as we give you tips on how to step out of power struggles and give your preschooler choices.    Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> Help! I am always saying no to my toddler: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=19&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&t=12s&v=G_zYBI0w5Bs" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_zYBI0w5Bs&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=19&amp;t=12s</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Pointing your preschooler to Jesus: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/pointing-your-preschooler-to-jesus/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/pointing-your-preschooler-to-jesus/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Discipling and sowing seeds of faith with toddlers: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/discipling-and-sowing-seeds-of-faith-with-toddlers/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/discipling-and-sowing-seeds-of-faith-with-toddlers/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

When it comes to preschoolers, you have to pick and choose which battles are worth fighting. Join us as we give you tips on how to step out of power struggles and give your preschooler choices.    Check out these similar resources:   ...

Which battles are worth fighting with a preschooler?

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When it comes to allowance and chores, we think it is all about balance. There are some things you do because you are part of the family and some things you get paid for. Join us as we give you ideas and tips for finding the balance in your home.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> Generosity starts in the home: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/generosity-starts-in-the-home/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/generosity-starts-in-the-home/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Teaching kids to be smart with money: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/podcasts-post/teaching-kids-to-be-smart-with-money/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/podcasts-post/teaching-kids-to-be-smart-with-money/</a> </li> </ul>

When it comes to allowance and chores, we think it is all about balance. There are some things you do because you are part of the family and some things you get paid for. Join us as we give you ideas and tips for finding the balance in your home....

Should we pay our kids for household chores?

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Some children experience more worry and fear than others and creating a daytime plan is the first step to help your child overcome their fears and stay in bed. Join us as we talk through how to set up a comforting bedroom environment and reward system and remind you that consistency is the key.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> Helping our kids overcome fear: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=40&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&v=5UfMN78Huyc" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5UfMN78Huyc&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&amp;index=40</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Making a toolbox for anxiety: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/making-a-toolbox-for-anxiety/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/making-a-toolbox-for-anxiety/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> How to help your child navigate anxiety: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/podcasts-post/how-to-help-your-child-navigate-anxiety/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/podcasts-post/how-to-help-your-child-navigate-anxiety/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Some children experience more worry and fear than others and creating a daytime plan is the first step to help your child overcome their fears and stay in bed. Join us as we talk through how to set up a comforting bedroom environment and reward system...

How do I encourage my child to stay in their own bed at night?

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It is heartbreaking when your child chooses to walk away from God, but remember you are parenting the long game. Join us as we encourage you to ask clarifying and curious questions, stay engaged and walk you through the steps to practice effective listening.    Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> Help! What do I do when my child is not attending church: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=16&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&t=1s&v=tUGMCNxueX0" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUGMCNxueX0&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=16&amp;t=1s</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Return to sender: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/return-to-sender/" rel="nofollow">https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/return-to-sender/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Raise your children to be independent: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/raise-your-children-to-be-independent-its-ok-if-its-hard/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/raise-your-children-to-be-independent-its-ok-if-its-hard/</a> </li> </ul> Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

It is heartbreaking when your child chooses to walk away from God, but remember you are parenting the long game. Join us as we encourage you to ask clarifying and curious questions, stay engaged and walk you through the steps to practice effective...

What do you do if your child walks away from God?

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Potty talk with little boys is a very normal thing. As parents we need to communicate when and if that type of humor is appropriate. Join us as we walk through the ACT model to help curb unwanted behaviors in a positive loving way.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> How do you balance discipline and grace in parenting?: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=46&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&v=ZMSG9xPfVNU" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMSG9xPfVNU&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=46</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Raising boys with boundaries and freedoms: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/podcasts-post/raising-boys-with-boundaries-and-freedoms/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/podcasts-post/raising-boys-with-boundaries-and-freedoms/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> How to avoid power struggles with your children: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/how-to-avoid-power-struggles-with-your-children/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/how-to-avoid-power-struggles-with-your-children/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Potty talk with little boys is a very normal thing. As parents we need to communicate when and if that type of humor is appropriate. Join us as we walk through the ACT model to help curb unwanted behaviors in a positive loving way.   Check out...

How do you handle potty talk with little boys?

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Kids are craving real connection and parents that will set some boundaries. How do we know when to enforce the rules and when it’s ok to bend them because friends are over? Join us as we discuss technology and teens and give you tips for creating a fun, compelling environment that will help teens put their phones down and connect face to face.   Check out these similar resources:  Helping your son navigate the digital age: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/helping-your-son-navigate-the-digital-age/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/helping-your-son-navigate-the-digital-age/</a> My kid is addicted to their phone, help!: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=4&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&v=zaNDBkwVy58" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zaNDBkwVy58&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=4</a> What age should I let my child have social media?: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=40&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&v=5tKuBeCXD24" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5tKuBeCXD24&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=40</a>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Kids are craving real connection and parents that will set some boundaries. How do we know when to enforce the rules and when it’s ok to bend them because friends are over? Join us as we discuss technology and teens and give you tips for creating a...

Should I bend on our kids' technology rules when friends come over?

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There are many reasons a child might be a picky eater. Join us as we give you tips and tricks to make mealtime less of a battle. In this video, we talk through setting boundaries at mealtime, inviting your kids into the meal prep process and picking and choosing what battles are worth engaging in.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> How to avoid power struggles with your children: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/how-to-avoid-power-struggles-with-your-children/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/how-to-avoid-power-struggles-with-your-children/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Help! I am always saying no to my toddler: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=19&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&t=8s&v=G_zYBI0w5Bs" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_zYBI0w5Bs&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRc-MQ40KL3a6ze06CiY38l&amp;index=19&amp;t=8s</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Three reasons your kid might be treating you disrespectfully: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/three-reasons-your-kid-might-be-treating-you-disrespectfully/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/three-reasons-your-kid-might-be-treating-you-disrespectfully/</a> </li> </ul>   Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

There are many reasons a child might be a picky eater. Join us as we give you tips and tricks to make mealtime less of a battle. In this video, we talk through setting boundaries at mealtime, inviting your kids into the meal prep process and picking...

What to do when your child is a picky eater

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College is a carefree wonderful time. Sometimes partying can become the thing to do, but it may be masking real life issues. Keep pursuing your college child and don’t be afraid to let them know that you care and are worried. Join us as we give you some ideas on how to connect with your child at this stage of their life.   Check out these similar resources:  <ul> <li dir="ltr"> A word to parents of college-bound kids: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/counting-the-days-a-word-to-parents-of-college-bound-kids/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/counting-the-days-a-word-to-parents-of-college-bound-kids/</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> Parenting 2.0 - The empty nest stage: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?index=21&list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&t=1s&v=cvDCkuT2qtw" rel="nofollow"> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cvDCkuT2qtw&amp;list=PLdPzQ_cUwCbRPOxygemmbhhIOCD67AvSx&amp;index=21&amp;t=1s</a> </li> <li dir="ltr"> The faith of your grown children: <a href="https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/independent-dependents-the-faith-of-your-grown-children/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.christianparenting.org/articles/independent-dependents-the-faith-of-your-grown-children/</a> </li> </ul>

College is a carefree wonderful time. Sometimes partying can become the thing to do, but it may be masking real life issues. Keep pursuing your college child and don’t be afraid to let them know that you care and are worried. Join us as we give you...

Help! My college kid is partying a lot

Each week, husband and wife team, Jeff (MA Org.L) and Terra (MA LPC, LMFT) Mattson, will answer your BIG and small questions about raising kids in today’s anxious world. 

With 20 years of experience in marriage and family therapy, professional counseling, leadership development, and pastoral ministry, they bridge the gap between Biblical, clinical, and relational wisdom. Nothing is off the table! 

Though God says he will never leave or forsake us, sometimes we just need a few friends to help us run our race well. Consider the Mattsons your personal parenting coaches, bringing you practical how-tos that will help you lead your children with greater integrity, always rooted in grace, and remind you that YOU are the right person for this job.

Dear Mattsons is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org