Lagos Dominatrix Explains Why Men Pay to Be Controlled | Domina Havi | ITASS
Domina Havi is a Lagos-based dominatrix — and she's here to explain everything. Why do successful Nigerian men pay to be controlled? What does a session actually involve? And how did she build a business around it? This is one of the most honest conversations about male psychology, power dynamics, and modern relationships in Nigeria.
In this episode we cover:
- What a dominatrix actually does - online and in person
- The psychology of why men seek control and dominance
- How Domina Havi built a business around this in Lagos
- Power dynamics and gender expectations in Nigerian society
- How she handles client boundaries and safety
- What surprised her most about her clients
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