• Chapter#51 If I Can’t, Then I MUST

    Secret#51

    ‘Never say never’, ‘Never say die’. Let these be the attitudes you inculcate in your children. Nothing is impossible for the willing and the brave. Teach your children this mantra -‘ If I can’t, then I must’. Practise it yourself too!

    3m | Mar 28, 2024
  • Chapter#50 The Competition

    Secret#50

    Instead of making competition days into stressful days, why don’t you treat your children normally? Allow them to participate for the experience, not just for the prize. The prizes make sense only if they aim and strategize to win. They have to do this for themselves, or those prizes are not for them but for you!

    2m | Mar 21, 2024
  • Chapter#49 Is My Biggest Enemy My Sibling?

    Secret#49

    Each one of your children is unique. So, instead of loving

    equally, learn how to LOVE UNIQUELY. Understand

    what is special about each of your children and love them

    for their special selves. Do you make sibling rivalry any

    bigger than it is?

    2m | Mar 14, 2024
  • Chapter#48 Why Should I Study?

    Secret#48

    Discuss patiently with your children, the purposes and

    motivations of studying. Share with them the larger

    picture, and you’ll find them more receptive than you

    imagined.

    3m | Mar 7, 2024
  • Chapter#47 Behind Every Type of Behaviour there is a Positive Intention

    Secret#47

    Do not judge too soon. Analyse the motivation behind

    your children’s actions, and in them you will surely find

    the answer to their behavioural challenges.

    5m | Feb 29, 2024
  • Chapter#46 Choices have Consequences

    Secret#46

    Let your children make their own choices, then allow

    them to face the consequences. As long as the situation is

    well under control, do not intervene to bail them out. Let

    them learn their lessons on their own.

    6m | Feb 22, 2024
  • Chapter#45 Are You a Hitler During Study Time?

    Secret#45

    Isn’t it true that only when you start loving and enjoying

    what you do, will you become good at it? Make study

    time fun and exciting for your children, so that they enjoy

    their studies as much as they enjoy playing.

    4m | Feb 15, 2024
  • Chapter#44 Good, I am Getting Confused!

    Secret#44

    Instead of feeling anxious, get excited about confusion.

    When confused, it means that your children are learning

    something new.

    4m | Feb 8, 2024
  • Chapter#43 Do Your Children Lack Concentration?

    Secret#43

    There are no inattentive students, only fallacious

    teaching methods, which can’t hold the children’s

    attention. Now think for yourself, and I am sure you can

    come up with appropriate pedagogic tools for them, and

    make them happy learners. Study time will also become

    fun time now!

    4m | Feb 1, 2024
  • Chapter#42 The ‘Right Brain Children’

    Secret#42

    Are you worried why your children seem to hate the

    regime of school so much, although they have a bright

    creative spark? Find out if your children are right-brain

    dominant.

    3m | Jan 25, 2024
  • Chapter#41 The ‘Left Brain Children’

    Secret#41

    The Left Brain children perform well in their studies but

    they are ‘Shy’. To be successful, children must be ‘Whole

    Brain Learners’.

    3m | Jan 18, 2024
  • Chapter#40 Creating a Genius

    Secret#40

    Parents never transmit your sense of inadequacies or

    pains of your failures, to your children. Rather, help

    them live in a world of thoughts, colours, music,

    learning, and so on.

    4m | Jan 11, 2024
  • Chapter#39 The Past is Not Equivalent to the Future

    Secret#39

    The paths of life are longer than we might think they are

    during moments of depression. So never think that the

    past and what is behind you, will be exactly mirrored in

    the future. It is always possible to turn over a new leaf,

    and live life anew, discover greener pastures and deeper

    sunsets, even if there were no promises of these in your

    past. Pass on this profound faith to your children.

    3m | Jan 9, 2024
  • Chapter#38 Resistance Means Lack of Rapport

    Secret#38

    You don’t have to say yes to everything your children ask

    of you, but before saying no, understand why they are

    asking for something. Allow them to take some risks;

    They may outperform your expectations. They will

    understand that you trust them and not to let you down.

    Learn your children’s language and respect their way of

    thinking. That will go a long way in helping you build up

    a great rapport with your children, and wait and see,

    how easily the solutions will come!

    5m | Jan 4, 2024
  • Chapter#37 Excessive Sleeping: Not a Disease but a Symptom

    Secret#37

    If you want your children to sleep right, and be more

    active, ensure they have exciting goals to look forward to

    in life..

    3m | Jan 2, 2024
  • Chapter#36 For Things to Change, I Must Change First

    Secret#36

    Never wait for the world around to change for you. It

    simply means continuing in a situation in which both you

    and your children have no control, and wear a girdle of

    victim-hood. Come forward and take responsibility for

    what happens. Change yourself for the better. Take

    stock, and then take control of your life. Your children

    will follow.

    6m | Dec 28, 2023
  • Chapter#35 What You Do Matters a Lot More Than What You Say

    Secret#35

    As parents you should make a special effort to create a

    identity for yourselves by casting off your limiting beliefs.

    This way you can become a powerful role model for your

    children, who will emulate what you do.

    4m | Dec 26, 2023
  • Chapter#34 Little Eyes Watch Your Every Moment

    Secret#34

    Parenting is an opportunity to shape your life for the

    better! Remember, those little eyes are always watching

    you and will learn to do things exactly as you do!

    4m | Dec 21, 2023
  • Chapter#33 Thank God it is Friday! You Want to Make it True for Your Children Too?

    Secret#33

    Love your work. Or work on something you love. Your

    example will leave an indelible imprint on your children’s

    psyche. As a parent you must remember that through

    your children you’re building the future generation - let

    that generation do their work with more passion.

    2m | Dec 19, 2023
  • Chapter#32 Do You Dislike Your Children or Their Behaviour?

    Secret#32

    As a parent, when you scold your children about

    something, learn to direct your reprimand against the

    action or behavioural trait that you don’t like, and don’t

    accuse your children instead.

    2m | Dec 15, 2023
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