- Chapter#51 If I Can’t, Then I MUST
Secret#51
‘Never say never’, ‘Never say die’. Let these be the attitudes you inculcate in your children. Nothing is impossible for the willing and the brave. Teach your children this mantra -‘ If I can’t, then I must’. Practise it yourself too!
3m | Mar 28, 2024 - Chapter#50 The Competition
Secret#50
Instead of making competition days into stressful days, why don’t you treat your children normally? Allow them to participate for the experience, not just for the prize. The prizes make sense only if they aim and strategize to win. They have to do this for themselves, or those prizes are not for them but for you!
2m | Mar 21, 2024 - Chapter#49 Is My Biggest Enemy My Sibling?
Secret#49
Each one of your children is unique. So, instead of loving
equally, learn how to LOVE UNIQUELY. Understand
what is special about each of your children and love them
for their special selves. Do you make sibling rivalry any
bigger than it is?
2m | Mar 14, 2024 - Chapter#48 Why Should I Study?
Secret#48
Discuss patiently with your children, the purposes and
motivations of studying. Share with them the larger
picture, and you’ll find them more receptive than you
imagined.
3m | Mar 7, 2024 - Chapter#47 Behind Every Type of Behaviour there is a Positive Intention
Secret#47
Do not judge too soon. Analyse the motivation behind
your children’s actions, and in them you will surely find
the answer to their behavioural challenges.
5m | Feb 29, 2024 - Chapter#46 Choices have Consequences
Secret#46
Let your children make their own choices, then allow
them to face the consequences. As long as the situation is
well under control, do not intervene to bail them out. Let
them learn their lessons on their own.
6m | Feb 22, 2024 - Chapter#45 Are You a Hitler During Study Time?
Secret#45
Isn’t it true that only when you start loving and enjoying
what you do, will you become good at it? Make study
time fun and exciting for your children, so that they enjoy
their studies as much as they enjoy playing.
4m | Feb 15, 2024 - Chapter#44 Good, I am Getting Confused!
Secret#44
Instead of feeling anxious, get excited about confusion.
When confused, it means that your children are learning
something new.
4m | Feb 8, 2024 - Chapter#43 Do Your Children Lack Concentration?
Secret#43
There are no inattentive students, only fallacious
teaching methods, which can’t hold the children’s
attention. Now think for yourself, and I am sure you can
come up with appropriate pedagogic tools for them, and
make them happy learners. Study time will also become
fun time now!
4m | Feb 1, 2024 - Chapter#42 The ‘Right Brain Children’
Secret#42
Are you worried why your children seem to hate the
regime of school so much, although they have a bright
creative spark? Find out if your children are right-brain
dominant.
3m | Jan 25, 2024 - Chapter#41 The ‘Left Brain Children’
Secret#41
The Left Brain children perform well in their studies but
they are ‘Shy’. To be successful, children must be ‘Whole
Brain Learners’.
3m | Jan 18, 2024 - Chapter#40 Creating a Genius
Secret#40
Parents never transmit your sense of inadequacies or
pains of your failures, to your children. Rather, help
them live in a world of thoughts, colours, music,
learning, and so on.
4m | Jan 11, 2024 - Chapter#39 The Past is Not Equivalent to the Future
Secret#39
The paths of life are longer than we might think they are
during moments of depression. So never think that the
past and what is behind you, will be exactly mirrored in
the future. It is always possible to turn over a new leaf,
and live life anew, discover greener pastures and deeper
sunsets, even if there were no promises of these in your
past. Pass on this profound faith to your children.
3m | Jan 9, 2024 - Chapter#38 Resistance Means Lack of Rapport
Secret#38
You don’t have to say yes to everything your children ask
of you, but before saying no, understand why they are
asking for something. Allow them to take some risks;
They may outperform your expectations. They will
understand that you trust them and not to let you down.
Learn your children’s language and respect their way of
thinking. That will go a long way in helping you build up
a great rapport with your children, and wait and see,
how easily the solutions will come!
5m | Jan 4, 2024 - Chapter#37 Excessive Sleeping: Not a Disease but a Symptom
Secret#37
If you want your children to sleep right, and be more
active, ensure they have exciting goals to look forward to
in life..
3m | Jan 2, 2024 - Chapter#36 For Things to Change, I Must Change First
Secret#36
Never wait for the world around to change for you. It
simply means continuing in a situation in which both you
and your children have no control, and wear a girdle of
victim-hood. Come forward and take responsibility for
what happens. Change yourself for the better. Take
stock, and then take control of your life. Your children
will follow.
6m | Dec 28, 2023 - Chapter#35 What You Do Matters a Lot More Than What You Say
Secret#35
As parents you should make a special effort to create a
identity for yourselves by casting off your limiting beliefs.
This way you can become a powerful role model for your
children, who will emulate what you do.
4m | Dec 26, 2023 - Chapter#34 Little Eyes Watch Your Every Moment
Secret#34
Parenting is an opportunity to shape your life for the
better! Remember, those little eyes are always watching
you and will learn to do things exactly as you do!
4m | Dec 21, 2023 - Chapter#33 Thank God it is Friday! You Want to Make it True for Your Children Too?
Secret#33
Love your work. Or work on something you love. Your
example will leave an indelible imprint on your children’s
psyche. As a parent you must remember that through
your children you’re building the future generation - let
that generation do their work with more passion.
2m | Dec 19, 2023 - Chapter#32 Do You Dislike Your Children or Their Behaviour?
Secret#32
As a parent, when you scold your children about
something, learn to direct your reprimand against the
action or behavioural trait that you don’t like, and don’t
accuse your children instead.
2m | Dec 15, 2023
101 Secrets of Effective Parenting
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