Welcome to The Other Woman and The Wife, where we navigate the complex terrain of affairs with radical honesty, deep compassion, and zero judgment.I&#39;m Chelsea, and I&#39;ve walked this path myself—from the shadows of secrecy to the light of self-discovery. After my own affair led me to divorce and ultimately to the love of my life, I realized that the narratives we&#39;re fed about infidelity are incomplete, shame-laden, and often harmful to the very people who need support most.This podcast isn&#39;t about right or wrong, good or bad. It&#39;s about the messy, beautiful, heartbreaking reality of human connection and what happens when we find ourselves loving outside the lines. Whether you&#39;re currently in an affair, navigating its aftermath, or trying to understand your own capacity for love and desire, this is your safe space to explore without apology.

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea continues her conversation with Claire and gets into the part of their story that is much more personal — how their friendship began during one of the most isolating seasons of Chelsea’s life. After losing her brother, ending her marriage, and watching much of her established community disappear, Chelsea found herself grieving losses the world did not always recognize or make space for. Chelsea and Claire talk about what it means to lose your place in a community, to be seen differently by people who once loved you, and to carry grief that others think you should not be allowed to have. They also unpack why Claire was able to meet Chelsea without judgment — and how Claire’s own family history may have shaped the way she understood a woman whose life no longer fit the acceptable script.This episode is about the people who stay, the people who see you when others cannot, and the kind of friendship that can help rebuild a life after everything familiar has changed. It is also a reminder that the losses you experience after making a difficult choice are still losses — and the grief is still real.  SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY:<a href="https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story</a>ASK US A QUESTION:We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a>OFF THE RECORD:Need a place to ask the questions you don’t want to ask publicly? Explore Off the Record here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask-towtw" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask-towtw</a>HOW WE CAN HELP:Apply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKS:Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea continues her conversation with Claire and gets into the part of their story that is much more personal — how their friendship began during one of the most isolating seasons of Chelsea’s life. After losing her brother, ending her marriage, and watching much of her established community disappear, Chelsea found herself grieving losses the world did not always recognize or make space for. 

Chelsea and Claire talk about what it means to lose your place in a community, to be seen differently by people who once loved you, and to carry grief that others think you should not be allowed to have. They also unpack why Claire was able to meet Chelsea without judgment — and how Claire’s own family history may have shaped the way she understood a woman whose life no longer fit the acceptable script.  

This episode is about the people who stay, the people who see you when others cannot, and the kind of friendship that can help rebuild a life after everything familiar has changed. It is also a reminder that the losses you experience after making a difficult choice are still losses — and the grief is still real. 



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Need a place to ask the questions you don’t want to ask publicly? Explore Off the Record here: https://towtw.com/ask-towtw

HOW WE CAN HELP:

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#98 Part 2:  The Grief Nobody Lets You Have

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea sits down with her friend Claire to tell the story of a love that was never supposed to happen. Claire’s mom was engaged to someone else when she met Eddie on a cruise — and what started as an unexpected connection became the relationship that changed everything.Claire shares how her parents met, how Eddie pursued her mom from California while she was still trying to make sense of the life she was expected to choose, and the journal he kept while waiting for her to decide what she truly wanted. Chelsea and Claire unpack what it means to choose the life that does not fit the script, what can exist on the other side of an “unacceptable” choice, and why some of the most meaningful parts of our lives may only exist because someone was willing to choose differently. Claire is living proof of that — her life exists because her parents refused the version of the story everyone expected them to follow. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY:<a href="https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story</a>ASK US A QUESTION:We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a>OFF THE RECORD:Need a place to ask the questions you don’t want to ask publicly? Explore Off the Record here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask-towtw" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask-towtw</a>HOW WE CAN HELP:Apply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKS:Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea sits down with her friend Claire to tell the story of a love that was never supposed to happen. Claire’s mom was engaged to someone else when she met Eddie on a cruise — and what started as an unexpected connection became the relationship that changed everything.

Claire shares how her parents met, how Eddie pursued her mom from California while she was still trying to make sense of the life she was expected to choose, and the journal he kept while waiting for her to decide what she truly wanted.  

Chelsea and Claire unpack what it means to choose the life that does not fit the script, what can exist on the other side of an “unacceptable” choice, and why some of the most meaningful parts of our lives may only exist because someone was willing to choose differently. Claire is living proof of that — her life exists because her parents refused the version of the story everyone expected them to follow.  

SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY:

https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story

ASK US A QUESTION:

We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: https://towtw.com/ask

OFF THE RECORD:

Need a place to ask the questions you don’t want to ask publicly? Explore Off the Record here: https://towtw.com/ask-towtw

HOW WE CAN HELP:

Apply for 1:1 Coaching: https://towtw.com/coaching

OUR LINKS:

Website: https://towtw.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#98 Part 1:  The Love Story That Wasn’t Supposed to Happen

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For the final part of the Off the Record series, Chelsea pulls back the curtain on why OTR was built, how it works, and what it is actually designed to do.In this episode, she shares the gap she kept seeing between the hundreds of private messages coming in from women who needed somewhere to say the thing they had never said out loud — and the reality that one person can only be in so many conversations at once.That gap became Off the Record.Chelsea explains why OTR was designed to be anonymous, judgment-free, and centered around helping you find your own clarity instead of telling you what to do. It is built to hold the first room — the place where you can finally say the thought, question, or truth out loud before bringing it into coaching, a conversation with someone you trust, or deeper personal work.She also makes clear what OTR is not. It is not therapy, not a crisis service, and not a replacement for deeper coaching or professional support when that is what you need.Think of it as the room before the room.A private place to say the unsayable without shame, lectures, or judgment.OFF THE RECORD: If you’ve been wondering whether OTR is for you, you can start anonymously here:<a href="https://towtw.com/ask-towtw" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask-towtw</a>The first 20 messages are free. No login required.— — —SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: <a href="https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/</a>ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a>HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKS:Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

For the final part of the Off the Record series, Chelsea pulls back the curtain on why OTR was built, how it works, and what it is actually designed to do.

In this episode, she shares the gap she kept seeing between the hundreds of private messages coming in from women who needed somewhere to say the thing they had never said out loud — and the reality that one person can only be in so many conversations at once.

That gap became Off the Record.

Chelsea explains why OTR was designed to be anonymous, judgment-free, and centered around helping you find your own clarity instead of telling you what to do. It is built to hold the first room — the place where you can finally say the thought, question, or truth out loud before bringing it into coaching, a conversation with someone you trust, or deeper personal work.

She also makes clear what OTR is not. It is not therapy, not a crisis service, and not a replacement for deeper coaching or professional support when that is what you need.

Think of it as the room before the room.

A private place to say the unsayable without shame, lectures, or judgment.

OFF THE RECORD: If you’ve been wondering whether OTR is for you, you can start anonymously here:

 https://towtw.com/ask-towtw

The first 20 messages are free. No login required.

— — —

SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/

ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: https://towtw.com/ask

HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: https://towtw.com/coaching

OUR LINKS:

Website: https://towtw.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#97 Off the Record Part 6 — How OTR Was Built and What It Is — and Isn’t

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Not every hard moment needs a full coaching session. Sometimes you just need support right when something happens — before one thought turns into hours of spiraling.In this episode, Chelsea talks about the space between “I’m fine” and “I need deeper help.” It’s the moment when you don’t necessarily need a full session, but you also don’t want to sit alone with what you’re feeling until your next appointment.She explains why relying only on friends can create its own pressure. You may start wondering if you’ve reached out too many times, if you’re becoming “too much,” or whether your feelings are worth someone else’s time. That can leave you rationing support when you actually need it.Chelsea also makes an important distinction: Off the Record is not a replacement for coaching, deeper therapeutic work, or crisis support. It’s designed for the in-between moments — when you need somewhere private to process what’s happening right now without worrying about judgment, timing, or someone else’s emotional bandwidth.You shouldn’t have to do math about whether your feelings are worth someone’s time.OFF THE RECORD: Get private, anonymous support when you need somewhere to put the thought down:<a href="https://towtw.com/ask-towtw" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask-towtw</a>The first 20 messages are free. No login required. Continued access is $19/month.— — —SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: <a href="https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/</a>ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a>HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKS:Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

Not every hard moment needs a full coaching session. Sometimes you just need support right when something happens — before one thought turns into hours of spiraling.

In this episode, Chelsea talks about the space between “I’m fine” and “I need deeper help.” It’s the moment when you don’t necessarily need a full session, but you also don’t want to sit alone with what you’re feeling until your next appointment.

She explains why relying only on friends can create its own pressure. You may start wondering if you’ve reached out too many times, if you’re becoming “too much,” or whether your feelings are worth someone else’s time. That can leave you rationing support when you actually need it.

Chelsea also makes an important distinction: Off the Record is not a replacement for coaching, deeper therapeutic work, or crisis support. It’s designed for the in-between moments — when you need somewhere private to process what’s happening right now without worrying about judgment, timing, or someone else’s emotional bandwidth.

You shouldn’t have to do math about whether your feelings are worth someone’s time.

OFF THE RECORD: Get private, anonymous support when you need somewhere to put the thought down:

 https://towtw.com/ask-towtw

The first 20 messages are free. No login required. Continued access is $19/month.

— — —

SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/

ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: https://towtw.com/ask

HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: https://towtw.com/coaching

OUR LINKS:

Website: https://towtw.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#97 Off the Record Part 5 — When You Need Support But Don't Need a Full Coaching Session

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Some questions feel too uncomfortable, too embarrassing, or too revealing to say out loud.In this episode, Chelsea talks about the thoughts that can feel impossible to admit — wondering whether part of you feels relieved when his wife is difficult, questioning why his affection toward her hurts so much, asking whether you want to be caught, or even wondering if you would still want him if he were fully available.These questions can sound harsh when they stay trapped inside your head, but Chelsea explains why they are often less about being a “bad person” and more about trying to understand what you actually feel, need, and fear.She also explores the question underneath behaviors like checking his wife’s social media. Sometimes the real issue isn’t the wife at all. It’s the uncertainty of not knowing where you stand.The question you’re most afraid to ask may be the one that helps you understand yourself most clearly.OFF THE RECORD: If there’s a question you’ve never felt comfortable saying to another person, ask it anonymously here:<a href="https://towtw.com/ask-towtw" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask-towtw</a>The first 20 messages are free. No login required.— — —SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: <a href="https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/</a>ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a>HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKS:Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

Some questions feel too uncomfortable, too embarrassing, or too revealing to say out loud.

In this episode, Chelsea talks about the thoughts that can feel impossible to admit — wondering whether part of you feels relieved when his wife is difficult, questioning why his affection toward her hurts so much, asking whether you want to be caught, or even wondering if you would still want him if he were fully available.

These questions can sound harsh when they stay trapped inside your head, but Chelsea explains why they are often less about being a “bad person” and more about trying to understand what you actually feel, need, and fear.

She also explores the question underneath behaviors like checking his wife’s social media. Sometimes the real issue isn’t the wife at all. It’s the uncertainty of not knowing where you stand.

The question you’re most afraid to ask may be the one that helps you understand yourself most clearly.

OFF THE RECORD: If there’s a question you’ve never felt comfortable saying to another person, ask it anonymously here:

 https://towtw.com/ask-towtw

The first 20 messages are free. No login required.

— — —

SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/

ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: https://towtw.com/ask

HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: https://towtw.com/coaching

OUR LINKS:

Website: https://towtw.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#97 Off the Record Part 4 — The Questions You're Afraid to Ask

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There’s a difference between being discovered and choosing to disclose something on your own terms.In this episode, Chelsea talks about the constant low-level vigilance that can come with having an affair — the hidden messages, the fear of being found out, and the exhaustion of carrying something no one fully knows.She explains why discovery and disclosure are not the same thing. One happens to you. The other is something you choose, privately and safely, when you’re ready.Chelsea shares why saying the truth plainly, even once, can bring a kind of relief that secrecy never does. You don’t have to start by telling a friend, a sister, or someone in your everyday life. Sometimes the first step is simply letting the sentence exist somewhere outside of your own head.OFF THE RECORD: If there’s something you’ve never been able to say out loud, start anonymously here:<a href="https://towtw.com/ask-towtw" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask-towtw</a>The first 20 messages are free. No login required.— — —SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: <a href="https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/</a>ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a>HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKS:Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

There’s a difference between being discovered and choosing to disclose something on your own terms.

In this episode, Chelsea talks about the constant low-level vigilance that can come with having an affair — the hidden messages, the fear of being found out, and the exhaustion of carrying something no one fully knows.

She explains why discovery and disclosure are not the same thing. One happens to you. The other is something you choose, privately and safely, when you’re ready.

Chelsea shares why saying the truth plainly, even once, can bring a kind of relief that secrecy never does. You don’t have to start by telling a friend, a sister, or someone in your everyday life. Sometimes the first step is simply letting the sentence exist somewhere outside of your own head.

OFF THE RECORD: If there’s something you’ve never been able to say out loud, start anonymously here:

 https://towtw.com/ask-towtw

The first 20 messages are free. No login required.

— — —

SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/

ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: https://towtw.com/ask

HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: https://towtw.com/coaching

OUR LINKS:

Website: https://towtw.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#97 Off the Record Part 3 — Discovery vs. Disclosure

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You’ve typed the message. Your thumb is hovering over send. Maybe it’s angry. Maybe it’s too soft. Maybe it says everything you’ve been trying not to say.In this episode, Chelsea talks about what’s really happening in that moment before you hit send. Often, the urge isn’t just about the message itself. It’s about wanting immediate relief from uncertainty, reassurance, or some kind of reaction that makes the discomfort stop.She breaks down the difference between sending a message because you genuinely need information and sending one because you need an emotional response. Those two intentions can look very similar in the moment, but they usually require very different choices.Before the message goes to him, Chelsea suggests letting the unfiltered version go somewhere else first. Say the raw thing before you edit it, soften it, or turn it into something strategic. Sometimes, once you’ve expressed what you actually mean, the message you thought you needed to send changes completely.OFF THE RECORD: Before you send the text, say the real thing somewhere private first. Start anonymously here:<a href="https://towtw.com/ask-towtw" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask-towtw</a>The first 20 messages are free. No login required.— — —SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: <a href="https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/</a>ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a>HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKS:Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

You’ve typed the message. Your thumb is hovering over send. Maybe it’s angry. Maybe it’s too soft. Maybe it says everything you’ve been trying not to say.

In this episode, Chelsea talks about what’s really happening in that moment before you hit send. Often, the urge isn’t just about the message itself. It’s about wanting immediate relief from uncertainty, reassurance, or some kind of reaction that makes the discomfort stop.

She breaks down the difference between sending a message because you genuinely need information and sending one because you need an emotional response. Those two intentions can look very similar in the moment, but they usually require very different choices.

Before the message goes to him, Chelsea suggests letting the unfiltered version go somewhere else first. Say the raw thing before you edit it, soften it, or turn it into something strategic. Sometimes, once you’ve expressed what you actually mean, the message you thought you needed to send changes completely.

OFF THE RECORD: Before you send the text, say the real thing somewhere private first. Start anonymously here:

 https://towtw.com/ask-towtw

The first 20 messages are free. No login required.

— — —

SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/

ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: https://towtw.com/ask

HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: https://towtw.com/coaching

OUR LINKS:

Website: https://towtw.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

#97 Off the Record Part 2 — What to Do Before You Send the Text

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Chelsea is kicking off a new six-part Off the Record series with a conversation about what happens when you’re carrying something enormous and have nowhere safe to put it.In this episode, she talks about the isolation that can come with being the other woman, the late-night spirals that happen when there’s no one you feel comfortable calling, and why keeping every thought trapped inside your own head can make it feel even louder.She also shares the story behind building Off the Record, an anonymous space designed for the questions, thoughts, and emotions that feel too difficult, embarrassing, or complicated to say out loud. No judgment, no performance, and no need to explain yourself perfectly.Sometimes you don’t need someone to fix everything. You just need somewhere safe to put the thought down.OFF THE RECORD: Have something you can’t say out loud? Start anonymously here:<a href="https://towtw.com/ask-towtw" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask-towtw</a>The first 20 messages are free. No login required.— — —SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: <a href="https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story/</a>ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a>HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKS:Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

Chelsea is kicking off a new six-part Off the Record series with a conversation about what happens when you’re carrying something enormous and have nowhere safe to put it.

In this episode, she talks about the isolation that can come with being the other woman, the late-night spirals that happen when there’s no one you feel comfortable calling, and why keeping every thought trapped inside your own head can make it feel even louder.

She also shares the story behind building Off the Record, an anonymous space designed for the questions, thoughts, and emotions that feel too difficult, embarrassing, or complicated to say out loud. No judgment, no performance, and no need to explain yourself perfectly.

Sometimes you don’t need someone to fix everything. You just need somewhere safe to put the thought down.

OFF THE RECORD: Have something you can’t say out loud? Start anonymously here:

 https://towtw.com/ask-towtw

The first 20 messages are free. No login required.

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#97 Off the Record Part 1 — When You're Spiraling and Can't Tell Anyone

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Chelsea is back with a personal update on where she’s been, what’s been happening behind the scenes, and what’s coming next for The Other Woman and The Wife.In this episode, she shares why the podcast has been a little quiet, what she’s been building in the meantime, and what listeners can expect from a new series of mini episodes, future podcast guests, and upcoming retreats in 2027.She also reflects on reaching more than a quarter of a million podcast downloads, the growth of the community, her recent writing on Substack, and some exciting opportunities that may be ahead.Most of all, this episode is a thank-you to everyone who has listened, supported, shared, worked with the team, or simply found something meaningful in this space.— — —SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: <a href="https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/contact-tell-your-story</a>ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a>HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKS:Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

Chelsea is back with a personal update on where she’s been, what’s been happening behind the scenes, and what’s coming next for The Other Woman and The Wife.

In this episode, she shares why the podcast has been a little quiet, what she’s been building in the meantime, and what listeners can expect from a new series of mini episodes, future podcast guests, and upcoming retreats in 2027.

She also reflects on reaching more than a quarter of a million podcast downloads, the growth of the community, her recent writing on Substack, and some exciting opportunities that may be ahead.

Most of all, this episode is a thank-you to everyone who has listened, supported, shared, worked with the team, or simply found something meaningful in this space.



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#96 A Quick Life Update: The Podcast, Retreats & New Things Coming

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea sits down with Andrew, who spent nearly two decades in a marriage that never gave him what he needed, including eight years watching a woman he had real feelings for come and go from a house across the street, unable to say a word to her. Andrew opens up about the religious upbringing that taught him sex was a sin, the wedding night that told him everything was about to go wrong, and what it&#39;s like to wake up every single morning with a pit in your stomach you can&#39;t explain. He and Chelsea unpack why men almost never have the language women do to describe what&#39;s missing in their marriages, the spiritual awakening that finally cracked him open, and the men&#39;s retreat that gave him permission to do what he&#39;d known for years he needed to do. They also get into real friction over disclosure — whether telling the truth when divorce is already decided is integrity or its own form of cruelty. This conversation isn&#39;t about whether what Andrew did was right or wrong. It&#39;s about what happens when a man finally stops performing the life he was told to want, and starts asking who he actually is underneath it. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY: <a href="https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit" rel="nofollow">https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit</a> ASK US A QUESTION: We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast. Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a> HOW WE CAN HELP: Apply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a> OUR LINKS:<ul><li> Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a></li><li> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a></li><li> TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a></li></ul>

Chelsea sits down with Andrew, who spent nearly two decades in a marriage that never gave him what he needed — including eight years watching a woman he had real feelings for from across the street, unable to say a word to her. They unpack why men rarely have the language to name what&#39;s missing in their marriages, the spiritual awakening that finally moved him to act, and the real friction around disclosing an affair once divorce is already decided.

#95 Eight Years of Silence — Andrew's Story

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea gets uncomfortably honest about the thing nobody in your situation is talking about — not what you did, but what it did to your sense of who you are. In this raw, solo episode, she unpacks the mirror moment: that brutal flash of self-recognition when you catch yourself doing something or thinking something and realize you would have judged someone for this a year ago. She breaks down the crucial difference between shame and guilt, why the identity you built on &#34;I would never&#34; was always going to crack under enough pressure, and what integration — not punishment, not performance — actually looks like when you&#39;re trying to find your way back to yourself. Because the real question underneath all of it isn&#39;t how you go back. It&#39;s who you are now that you know what you know. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY <a href="https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit" rel="nofollow">https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit</a>OUR LINKS Website: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

#94 You Are Still You

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea sits down with Carolina and her husband Antonio — a public figure with a career built on reputation, who once considered becoming a Catholic priest, has been married three times, and has had affairs — and he showed up here, on record, to talk about all of it. This conversation is for the woman trying to decode her married affair partner, for the betrayed wife who keeps asking why, and for anyone who&#39;s ever wanted to understand what&#39;s actually happening beneath all those layers of conditioning, escape, and silence. They get into what it means to own your decisions publicly when the whole world is watching, why staying in a broken marriage doesn&#39;t protect your children — it just teaches them what dysfunction looks like — and why will he choose me? might be the wrong question altogether. Carolina says it best: it&#39;s less about you than you think. She means that as a mercy, not a dismissal.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY<a href="https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit" rel="nofollow">https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit</a>HOW WE CAN HELPApply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKSWebsite: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

#93 The Man Who Wanted to Be a Priest (And Got Married Three Times Instead)

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea goes solo to dismantle the questions she hears most from smart, self-aware people who are still completely spinning out. &#34;Does he love me or am I delusional?&#34; &#34;Why won&#39;t she just let him go?&#34; &#34;What could I be doing differently?&#34; &#34;How could I do this to them?&#34; &#34;How do I prevent the pain for my children?&#34; These questions feel important—like the answer would finally make everything hurt less. But Chelsea breaks down exactly what each one is doing to you, why they keep you stuck, powerless, or frozen in punishment mode instead of moving you forward. And then she hands you something better: the questions that can actually give you information you can use. This one&#39;s raw, direct, and deeply compassionate—because you deserve questions that help you see clearly, not ones that keep you analyzing someone else&#39;s marriage while your own life waits.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY<a href="https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit" rel="nofollow">https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit</a>HOW WE CAN HELPApply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKSWebsite: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

#92 The Worst Questions You're Asking (And Why You Need to Stop)

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea and returning guest Carolina Vilalva are having the conversation nobody wants to have — because it will piss people off. No contact has become the default advice for everything from toxic friendships to affairs, but is it actually healing us or just keeping us comfortable? They dig into the difference between creating space and declaring someone unworthy of repair, how a tool born in abusive relationships has quietly expanded into a cultural exile system, and what we&#39;re really teaching people when we call abandonment a boundary. Raw, personal, and more than a little uncomfortable — exactly the way we like it here.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY<a href="https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit" rel="nofollow">https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit</a>HOW WE CAN HELPApply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKSWebsite: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

#91 No Contact Culture Is Teaching You That You're Not Welcome

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea and Carolina Vilalva dig into the jealousy nobody wants to admit they&#39;re drowning in—jealous of his wife&#39;s access, his timeline you weren&#39;t in, the version of him you never got to meet. But here&#39;s what jealousy in an affair is really telling you: it&#39;s fear of losing what you think you have mixed with desire for what you don&#39;t. Carolina breaks down the difference between jealousy (fear-driven) and envy (desire-driven), why affairs start with radical presence but devolve into surveillance and control, and how curiosity is the only antidote to the fear that&#39;s eating you alive. If you&#39;re spending more time managing jealousy than being present, you&#39;re not in a relationship—you&#39;re in a control project, and those always fail.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY<a href="https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit" rel="nofollow">https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit</a>HOW WE CAN HELPApply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKSWebsite: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

#90 The Jealousy Trap Inside Affairs

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea introduces you to Julie—not as a team member or service provider, but as the kind of human who shows up in her pajamas at 4AM when you&#39;re collapsing. Julie is a clarity partner who creates the kind of space most people have never experienced, where your floodgates can finally open. She doesn&#39;t coach (Chelsea hates that word—it implies fixing). Instead, Julie witnesses, translates your nervous system&#39;s reactions into language you can understand, and helps you see what you&#39;re actually feeling underneath what you think you&#39;re feeling. Chelsea shares Julie&#39;s powerful piece &#34;Last Hour of the Year&#34;—a response to someone 16 months into an affair who crashed on New Year&#39;s Eve—demonstrating how Julie holds pain without judgment, reframes struggle without fixing it, and helps people see they&#39;re not regressing but standing at a threshold between surviving something and building towards something else.SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY<a href="https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit" rel="nofollow">https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit</a>HOW WE CAN HELPApply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a>OUR LINKSWebsite: <a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

#89 Meet Julie: The Fairy Godmother Who Creates Space for Floodgates

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea returns to the studio for what might be the heaviest episode yet – and that&#39;s saying something. Inspired by a listener who reached out with an impossible truth, Chelsea reads a raw, unfiltered letter from &#34;Liz,&#34; a woman having an affair while caring for her dying husband. This isn&#39;t fiction – it&#39;s a distillation of real conversations, real suffering, and the kind of impossible choices that society refuses to acknowledge exist. Chelsea explores the unbearable weight of being a caregiver to someone who&#39;s dying while seeking refuge with someone else, the crushing shame of betrayal alongside devotion, and why we&#39;re all more complex than the simple narratives we&#39;re supposed to fit into. If you&#39;re drowning in guilt over choices that don&#39;t make you a monster – just human – this is your safe space to breathe. Because sometimes survival looks nothing like what we thought it would, and that doesn&#39;t make us broken. It makes us whole.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a> HOW WE CAN HELPApply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a> OUR LINKSWebsite:<a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow"> https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

#88 When Love and Dying Live in the Same House

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This week Chelsea goes solo to talk about something nobody&#39;s addressing—how the words you use inside your head are literally creating the reality you&#39;re living. She dives into the difference between &#34;I can&#39;t leave&#34; and &#34;I&#39;m choosing to stay,&#34; why getting loud doesn&#39;t mean having a voice, and how every criticism you have about someone else is actually revealing your deepest fears about yourself. From her makeshift recording setup in parking lots to raw truths about language that liberates versus language that traps, this episode challenges you to audit your internal dialogue for 24 hours and replace one limiting phrase that&#39;s been running your life. Because the woman who found her voice through infidelity isn&#39;t just surviving her story—she&#39;s rewriting it.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a> HOW WE CAN HELPApply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a> OUR LINKSWebsite:<a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow"> https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

#87 The Power of Words: How Your Internal Language Creates Your Reality

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea sits down with therapist Carolina Vilalva to explore a client story that&#39;ll make you rethink everything about control, punishment, and what betrayal really means. Carolina shares the raw reality of working with a couple where the betrayed wife&#39;s quest for control became more destructive than the infidelity itself—controlling finances, social media, even access to his children from a previous marriage. Together, they dive into the uncomfortable truth that connection and control cannot coexist, why punishment never equals healing, and how the ultimate betrayal isn&#39;t always what we&#39;ve been conditioned to believe. They get real about how men and women negotiate freedom in relationships, the dangerous fantasy that we can control outcomes, and why the reaction to infidelity often causes more trauma than the affair itself. This conversation challenges the rigid narratives we&#39;ve been sold about cheating and invites us into the messy, complex space where real transformation happens—because sometimes the person you&#39;re controlling the most is yourself.ASK US A QUESTIONWe answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a> HOW WE CAN HELPApply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a> OUR LINKSWebsite:<a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow"> https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

#86 When Control Destroys Connection: The Real Betrayal in Marriage - Carolina Vilalva

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This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea sits down with Dr. Diane to tackle the question every woman in an affair has asked: &#34;Why does sex with my affair partner feel so different than sex with my husband?&#34; Dr. Diane—who holds two doctorate degrees in naturopathic medicine and acupuncture—breaks down the real reasons: new relationship energy, novelty, how female arousal actually works, and why boredom in marriage isn&#39;t inevitable. They explore what your affair is really revealing about unmet needs, the role your nervous system plays in desire, and practical ways to bring that chemistry back into long-term relationships. This isn&#39;t about shame or fixing what&#39;s broken—it&#39;s about understanding your body, reclaiming playfulness, and discovering that passion doesn&#39;t have to die just because you&#39;ve been together for years. Because the affair isn&#39;t the answer; understanding your desire is.ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here: <a href="https://towtw.com/ask" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/ask</a> HOW WE CAN HELPApply for 1:1 Coaching: <a href="https://towtw.com/coaching" rel="nofollow">https://towtw.com/coaching</a> OUR LINKSWebsite:<a href="https://towtw.com/" rel="nofollow"> https://towtw.com/</a>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/</a>TikTok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife" rel="nofollow"> https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife</a>

#85 Why Affair Sex Feels Better Than Marriage Sex - Dr. Diane Mueller

Welcome to *The Other Woman and The Wife* , where we navigate the complex terrain of affairs with radical honesty, deep compassion, and zero judgment.

I'm Chelsea, and I've walked this path myself—from the shadows of secrecy to the light of self-discovery. After my own affair led me to divorce and ultimately to the love of my life, I realized that the narratives we're fed about infidelity are incomplete, shame-laden, and often harmful to the very people who need support most.

This podcast isn't about right or wrong, good or bad. It's about the messy, beautiful, heartbreaking reality of human connection and what happens when we find ourselves loving outside the lines. Whether you're currently in an affair, navigating its aftermath, or trying to understand your own capacity for love and desire, this is your safe space to explore without apology.