87. You’re Not in Love With Him, Babe... You’re Addicted to Proving You’re Worthy (Why We’re Attracted to the Wrong People and How to Break the Pattern) with Kimberly Velez
59m | Jun 17, 2025What if it’s not love you’re feeling... it’s a pattern playing out?
In this eye-opening episode, I’m joined by trauma-informed manifestation coach Kim Velez to explore the raw truth behind why we stay hooked on the wrong people — even when we know they’re not choosing us. From chasing emotionally unavailable partners to rejecting healthy love without even realizing it, we unpack what’s really running the show: your subconscious beliefs about your worth.
If you’ve ever found yourself obsessing over a situationship, settling for breadcrumbs, or wondering why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men, this episode is your wake-up call — and your roadmap out. Because the moment you stop trying to prove you’re worthy is the moment you start becoming magnetic to the love you actually deserve.
We Chat:
- Why you can’t out-manifest your trauma
- How self-worth directly affects who you attract
- When affirmations become emotional gaslighting
- Why you keep dating the same man in a different body
- The real reason you’re not attracted to healthy love (yet)
- How to rewire your self-concept + break the pattern for good
- Why radical responsibility = magnetic energy
- The body’s role in healing your relationship patterns
- How healing your connection with God impacts your love life
- Why the love you’re chasing isn’t about him — it’s about your past
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